Iminyaka eminingana, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe baye bazithola bekulokho okubizwa ngokuthi inqubo yoguquko. Ngokwenza kanjalo, thina bantu siba bucayi kakhulu sisonke, sifinyelele kakhudlwana endaweni yethu yokuqala, siqaphe kakhudlwana, sibe nokulola izinzwa zethu, ngezinye izikhathi size sibhekane nokuqondiswa kabusha kwangempela ezimpilweni zethu futhi kancane kancane siqale ukuhlala unomphela endaweni ephakeme. imvamisa yokudlidliza. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, kunezici ezihlukahlukene futhi ezisibonisa ukuguqulwa kwethu kwengqondo + ngokomoya ngendlela elula. Ngakho-ke ngizohlanganisa ezi-5 zazo esihlokweni esilandelayo, ake siqale.

#1 Ukubuza impilo noma uhlelo

Esigabeni sokuqala soguquko lwethu lwengqondo + lomzwelo, thina bantu siqala ukungabaza impilo kakhulu. Ngokwenza kanjalo, sinqotshwa ngokuzumayo isidingo sokuhlola imvelaphi yethu kanye nemibuzo emikhulu yokuphila - okungukuthi ngingubani?, ngivelaphi?, iyini incazelo (yami) yokuphila?, kungani ngi bakhona?, bakhona uNkulunkulu?, ingabe kukhona ukuphila ngemva kokufa?, kuya ngokuya kuphumela obala futhi kuqala ukufuna iqiniso kwangaphakathi. Ngenxa yalokho, sibe sesihlakulela isithakazelo esingokomoya futhi manje sibhekana nezici nezihloko zokuphila esasizigwema ngokuphelele ngaphambili, yebo, mhlawumbe size sizimoyizele. Ngakho-ke singena sijula ​​futhi sijula ​​empilweni, sibuze impilo "esiyiphiwe" futhi kungazelelwe sibona ukuthi kukhona okungalungile nhlobo ngesistimu yethu yamanje.

Enguqukweni yokuqala engokomoya, thina bantu sizizwa sixhumeke ngokwengeziwe endaweni yethu yokuqala futhi ngokuzumayo sibona amandla amakhono ethu engqondo..!!

Ngakho-ke sihlakulela ukuthambekela olwazini okungenzeka silunqabe ngokuqinile kusenesikhathi futhi siqhubeka nokuthola imibono emisha yokuphila, sishintsha imibono yethu nezinkolelo esinesikhathi eside sazisa + izinkolelo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, lesi sigaba singamela isiqalo esibonakalayo soshintsho lwengqondo + olungokomoya kithi.

#2 Ukungabekezelelani Ukudla

Esinye isibonakaliso sokudlula ekuguquleni kwengqondo + ngokomoya ukungabekezelelani kokudla kule Aquarius Age esanda kuqalwa (Disemba 21, 2012), okubonakala ngokuqhubekayo emzimbeni wethu. Isibonelo, sisabela ngokuzwela kakhulu ekudleni okwenziwayo - okungcoliswe amakhemikhali futhi sibhekana nenqwaba yezimpawu zomzimba ngenxa yokusetshenziswa okuhambisanayo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, i-hypersensitivity ivame ukwenzeka futhi sizizwa sibuthakathaka kakhulu noma sikhathele, okungukuthi sivele sizizwe ukuthi ngemva kokudla ikhofi, utshwala, ukudla okulungile, ukudla okusheshayo kanye nokunye. uzizwa ucindezeleke kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi uze ube nezinkinga zokujikeleza kwegazi nezinye izimpawu ezingemnandi. Umzimba wakho uya ngokuya uzwela, usabela ngamandla nakakhulu emithonyeni engeyona eyemvelo noma edlidlizayo/evamile futhi usitshela ngamandla kunangaphambili ukuthi kufanele siguqule indlela yethu yokuphila, ikakhulukazi okwethu ukudla.

Lapho sidlula ekuguquleni kwengqondo + ngokomzwelo, kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi thina bantu sihlakulele ukungabekezelelani okuthile ekudleni okuminyene okunamandla ngenxa yokukhuphuka kwethu okuzwelayo..!!  

Umzimba wethu awusakwazi ukucubungula wonke amandla aphansi kahle kangaka futhi ungathanda ukuhlinzekwa ngokudla okulula, okungukuthi ukudla okungokwemvelo okunemvamisa ephezulu ukusuka phansi kuya phezulu.

#3 Ukuxhumana okukhulu nemvelo nezilwane zasendle

Abantu okwamanje ababhekene noshintsho lwengqondo + lomzwelo bangakwazi ngokuzumayo, noma kunalokho phakathi nesikhathi esifushane, babe nokuthambekela okuqinile maqondana nemvelo. Ngakho awusenqabi imvelo, kodwa ngokuzumayo uhlakulela isifiso esinamandla sokuhlala kuyo. Ngale ndlela, umuntu angathanda ukuzwa okuhlukile kanye nemithelela enenzuzo yendawo ezungezile yemvelo futhi, esikhundleni sokuhlala ehlala ezindaweni eziphambene ngokuphelele nemvelo ngokwezindawo zazo. Ngakho-ke sifunda ukwazisa imvelo futhi futhi sakhe umzwelo othile ovikelayo maqondana nemvelo, senqaba izinqubo nezinqubo ezingenakubalwa ezisebenza ngokumelene nemvelo. Ngokuhambisana nalolu thando olusha lwemvelo, sesiqala nokuhlakulela uthando olwandisiwe ngezilwane zasendle. Ngale ndlela singase sibubone ubungqayizivele nobuhle bezidalwa ezihlukahlukene futhi siphinde siqaphele ukuthi thina bantu asikho ngaphezu kwezilwane, kodwa kufanele siphile ngokuvumelana kakhulu nalezi zidalwa ezinomusa.

Ngenxa yokuguquka kwengqondo esibhekana nakho, thina bantu sihlakulela uthando olwandisiwe ngemvelo nomhlaba wezilwane. Siqala kanjalo-ke futhi ukubaphatha ngenhlonipho futhi silahle zonke izici, ezibuye zisebenze ngokuphambene nemvelo..!! 

Inhliziyo yethu iyavuleka (ukuqala kokuqedwa kokuvinjelwa kwe-chakra yenhliziyo yethu) futhi ngenxa yalokho senza okuningi kakhulu emiphefumulweni yethu.

No. 4 Ukungqubuzana okuqinile nezingxabano zakhe zangaphakathi

Ngenxa yokwanda okukhulu kokudlidliza esikutholayo ekuguqulweni kwengqondo + kwemizwelo, kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi zonke izingxabano zethu zangaphakathi ziphindiselwe emuva ekuqapheleni kwethu usuku. Ngale ndlela, ukwanda kokudlidliza kusiphoqa ukuthi sakhe isimo sokuqaphela futhi, okubuye kubonakale ngokulingana esikhundleni sokungalingani. Le nqubo imayelana nokunikeza isikhala esengeziwe ukuze izici ezinhle ziphinde zichume, esikhundleni sokuzivumela ukuba ubuswe yizinkinga zengqondo ozibeke zona ngokuphindaphindiwe. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi zonke izingxenye zethu zethunzi ezicindezelwe zibuyiselwa emqondweni wethu ngendlela enzima. Lesi sinyathelo ngokuvamile siwumphumela ongenakugwemeka wenguquko yethu yengqondo + yomzwelo futhi okokuqala sivumela ukuthi siqaphele ukuvinjelwa kwethu, okuholela ekuhlanzweni kwezinkinga zethu.

Ukuzitholela uguquko lwengqondo + olungokomoya ngokuvamile lungahambisana nenqubo yokuhlanza ejulile lapho zonke izinkinga zethu zivela khona ukuze zihlanzwe, okuholela ekutheni uhlale emvamisa ephezulu ..!!

Konke kumayelana nokubona ngokugcwele ubumnyama bethu esizidalele ukuze sikwazi ukukhuphuka siphume ethunzini singene ekukhanyeni futhi. Ngakho-ke noma ubani ophethe lesi sikhathi uyophinde aklonyeliswe ngomoya oqinile kanye nempilo yengqondo ehlanzekile + eqinisiwe.

#5 Ukucabanga kabusha eyakho imicabango nokuziphatha

Okokugcina, kulandela iphuzu lesine, ukuguqulwa kwengqondo + ngokomzwelo kuvame ukuholela ekutheni sibuyekeze / sicabange kabusha izitimela zethu zokucabanga nokuziphatha. Ngale ndlela sincibilikisa zonke izinhlelo ezingezinhle, okungukuthi amaphethini engqondo agxiliswe ku-subconscious, futhi ngokuvamile esikhundleni sazo sifake izinhlelo ezintsha ngokuphelele. Ekugcineni, kulo mongo, sivele sicabange kabusha ukuziphatha okusimeme futhi sithole imibono emisha ngokuphelele ngezihloko, sifunde okwengeziwe ngathi noma ngobuwena bangempela futhi siqaphele ukuziphatha kwethu okulimazayo ngendlela efanayo, ngisho nangezinye izikhathi ngeke sisakwazi ukukuqonda nhlobo. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu owayenomona ngaphambili angawulahla ngokuphelele umona wakhe futhi angasaqondi ukuthi kungani enza ngendlela ayezenza ngayo esikhathini esidlule. Ube esephinde wathola ukuxhumana okuqinile endaweni yakhe yokuqala, usephinde wakhula futhi akasakudingi lokhu kuziphatha empilweni yakhe. Esikhundleni salokho, unokwanda kokuzithanda + nokuzemukela futhi ufaka imibono emisha ngokuphelele yempilo ekwazisweni kwakhe.

Oguqukweni oluqhubekayo olungokomoya + lwengqondo, thina bantu siyaqaphela ngokwengeziwe imicabango yethu esimeme nokuziphatha, okuvame ukuholela ekucabangeni kabusha kwezinhlelo zethu..!!

Ngakho-ke eyakho ingqondo ingalungiswa ngokuphelele ekuguqulweni okuhambisanayo futhi imicabango emidala + nokuziphatha kucatshangelwa kabusha ngokuphelele. Ngendlela efanayo, ukuzicabangela kwethu siqu noma, ukukubeka kangcono, ukuziphatha okugxile ezintweni ezibonakalayo kuya ngokuya kuqashelwa futhi ukwenza okuvela emphefumulweni wethu kuzuza isandla esiphezulu. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.

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