Izinkolelo ngokuvamile ziyizinkolelo nemibono yangaphakathi esicabanga ukuthi iyingxenye yeqiniso lethu noma into engokoqobo evamile. Ngokuvamile lezi zinkolelo zangaphakathi zinquma ukuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke futhi kulo mongo zikhawulela amandla engqondo yethu. Kunezinhlobonhlobo zezinkolelo ezingezinhle ezifiphaza isimo sethu sokwazi kaninginingi. Izinkolelo zangaphakathi ezisikhubaza ngandlela thize, zisenza singakwazi ukwenza okuthile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo siqondise ukuqhubeka kwempilo yethu ngendlela engeyinhle. Mayelana nalokho, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi izinkolelo zethu zibonakala eqinisweni lethu futhi zinethonya elinamandla ezimpilweni zethu. Engxenyeni yesithathu yalolu chungechunge (ingxenye yokuQala - Ingxenye II) Ngizongena enkolelweni ekhetheke kakhulu. Inkolelo ekhona ku-subconscious yabantu abaningi.
Abanye bangcono kunami - inkohliso
Abantu abaningi bavame ukuqiniseka ngaphakathi ukuthi babi kakhulu noma ababalulekile kunabanye abantu. Le nkohliso noma inkolelo yokuzibekela yona ihambisana nabantu abaningi ezimpilweni zabo futhi ivimbe ukuthuthukiswa kwamandla abo, ukuthuthukiswa kwamandla wesimo sabo sokuqaphela. Ngokwemvelo sithatha ngokuthi abanye abantu bangcono kunathi, abanye abantu banamakhono amaningi, banempilo engcono, noma bahlakaniphe kakhulu kunathi. , ukuphila lapho singabukeli phansi amakhono ethu okudala futhi siyazi ukuthi akekho umuntu ongcono noma omubi kakhulu kunathi. impilo, ngokuphambene, yonke impilo iyigugu ngokulinganayo, iyingqayizivele, ngisho noma ngokuvamile singakuqapheli lokhu noma sifuna ukukuvuma. Impela, akekho ohlakaniphe kakhulu noma oyisiphukuphuku ukudlula wena. Kungani kufanele? Ekugcineni, abantu abaningi basekela lokhu ku-intelligence quotient yabo.
Ngokubheka ngokuqinile inkulumo yethu yomuntu ngamunye yokudala, sonke siyefana emnyombweni wethu, sonke siyizidalwa zomoya ezidala izimpilo zazo ngosizo lokuqaphela kwazo..!!
Kodwa uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, kungani wena, yebo wena ofunda lesi sihloko njengamanje, uhlakaniphe noma ube yisimungulu kunami, kungani amakhono akho okudala kufanele angathuthukisiwe/abe wusizo kunawami, kungani ikhono lakho lokuhlaziya impilo kufanele libe libi kunelami? Sonke sinomzimba wenyama, ubuchopho, amehlo angu-2, izindlebe ezi-2, umzimba ongenanyama, ukwazi kwethu, imicabango yethu futhi sidale impilo yethu sisebenzisa ukucabanga kwethu.
Amandla esimo sakho sokwazi
Kulo mongo, wonke umuntu unesiphiwo esihle sokubuza impilo nokuyiklama kabusha njalo. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, i-IQ isho okuncane mayelana nokuqonda komuntu ukuphila, ngakho kunqunyelwe ekusebenzeni komuntu siqu kobuhlakani, okubuye kuncike esimweni samanje sokwazi, okungashintshwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ( Yebo kukhona okuhlukile , isibonelo umuntu okhubazeke ngokwengqondo, kodwa uqinisekisa umthetho). Ngaphandle kwalokho, kusekhona i-EQ, i-quotient yomzwelo. Lokhu-ke kuhlobene nokukhula komuntu siqu kokuziphatha, ukuvuthwa komuntu siqu ngokomzwelo, isimo somuntu siqu somqondo kanye nekhono lokubuka ukuphila ngombono wengqondo. Kodwa nalesi siqephu asiyona into esizalwa nayo futhi engashintshwa. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu owenza izinto eziningi ngenxa yezisusa zobugovu, onezinhloso ezimbi, ohahayo, ongawunaki umhlaba wezilwane, owenza izinto ngendlela enengqondo ephansi noma osakaza amandla amabi - okhiqizwa ngengqondo yakhe futhi ongenalo uzwela ngabantu aphila nabo, futhi ine-quotient eyodwa ephansi yemizwa. Akazange afunde ukuthi ukulimaza abanye abantu akulungile, ukuthi isimiso esiyisisekelo sendawo yonke sisekelwe ekuvumelaneni, othandweni nasekulinganiseni (Umthetho Wendawo Yonke: Umgomo Wokuvumelana noma Ibhalansi). Kodwa-ke, wonke umuntu akanalo isilinganiso esinqunyiwe somzwelo, ngoba abantu bayakwazi ukwandisa ukuqonda kwabo futhi bangasebenzisa leli thuluzi elinamandla ukushintsha imibono yabo yokuziphatha. Womabili ama-quotients ndawonye akha i-quotient engokomoya/engokomoya.
Izinkolelo ezingezinhle zivame ukuma endleleni yokudala impilo enhle futhi zinciphise ukukhula kwengqondo yethu engokomoya..!!
Le quotient yenziwe nge-EQ ne-IQ, kodwa ayinalo inani elinqunyiwe futhi inganyuswa noma nini. Sifinyelela lokhu ngokuqonda ukuxhumana okuyisisekelo okungokomoya nengqondo futhi, ngokuqaphela amandla esimo sethu sokwazi nokulahla izinkolelo zethu ezingezinhle. Enye yazo kungaba ukucabanga ukuthi abanye abantu bangcono, bahlakaniphe kakhulu, babalulekile noma babaluleke kakhulu kunawe. Kodwa lokhu kuwukukhohlisa nje, inkolelo yokuzibekela yona enomthelela omubi empilweni noma ekuziphatheni kwakho. Njenganoma yimuphi omunye umuntu, ungumdali wempilo yakho, umdali weqiniso lakho.
Yonke impilo iyigugu, inamandla futhi ingashintsha / yandise isimo sokuqaphela ngokuhlanganyela ngosizo lomcabango wayo wengqondo kuphela..!!
Leli qiniso lilodwa kufanele likwenze ubone ukuthi ungumuntu onamandla futhi okhethekile kangakanani. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi uvumele noma ubani akuqinisekise ukuthi umubi noma awukwazi ukudlula bona, ngoba akunjalo. Kulungile, kuleli qophelo kufanele ngikhulume ukuthi uhlale uyilokho okucabangayo, lokho oqiniseka ngakho ngokuphelele. Izinkolelo zakho zakha okwakho okwangempela. Uma uqiniseka ukuthi umubi kakhulu kunabanye ngakho nawe unjalo, mhlawumbe hhayi emehlweni abanye abantu, kodwa emehlweni akho. Umhlaba awuyona indlela oyiyo, indlela oyiyo. Ngenhlanhla, nokho, ungazikhethela ukuthi ubheka kusiphi isimo sokuqaphela ukuphila, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvumela izinkolelo ezingezinhle noma ezinhle engqondweni yakho siqu. Kuncike kuwe kuphela nasekusetshenzisweni kokwazi kwakho. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
