Wonke umuntu unezifiso namaphupho athile, imibono ngempilo ethuthelwa ekwazini kwethu kwansuku zonke kaningi esikhathini sokuphila futhi ilindele ukufezeka kwayo okuhambisanayo. Lawa maphupho agxilile ekungazini kwethu futhi aphuca abantu abaningi amandla abo okuphila kwansuku zonke, aqinisekise ukuthi ngeke sisakwazi ukugxila ezintweni ezibalulekile futhi esikhundleni salokho sisengqondweni unomphela ngenxa yokushoda. Kulo mongo, ngokuvamile siyehluleka ukuqaphela imicabango ehambisanayo noma izifiso. Asikutholi esikufunayo, ngakho-ke njengomthetho sivame ukuhlala esimweni sokuqaphela okungekuhle futhi ngenxa yalokho ngokuvamile asitholi lutho. ...

Njengoba ngike ngasho kaningi emibhalweni yami, eyakho ingqondo isebenza njengozibuthe onamandla odonsa yonke into empilweni yakho ehambisana nayo. Ukwazi kwethu kanye nezinqubo zokucabanga eziwumphumela zisixhumanisa nakho konke okukhona (yonke into eyodwa futhi eyodwa iyikho konke), kusixhumanisa nayo yonke indalo ezingeni elingabonakali (isizathu esisodwa sokuthi kungani imicabango yethu ingafinyelela futhi ibe nomthelela esimweni sokuqoqa ulwazi). Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, eyethu imicabango iwujuqu mayelana nenkambo eqhubekayo yokuphila kwethu, ngoba phela imicabango yethu isenza sikwazi ukuhambisana nokuthile kwasekuqaleni. ...

Emphakathini wanamuhla, izimpilo zabantu abaningi zihambisana nokuhlupheka nokuntuleka, isimo esibangelwa ukuqaphela ukuntula. Awuboni umhlaba njengoba unjalo, kodwa njengoba unjalo. Yile ndlela kanye okuthola ngayo okuhambisana nemvamisa yesimo sakho sokwazi. Kulo mongo, ingqondo yethu isebenza njengozibuthe. Uzibuthe ongokomoya osivumela ukuthi sihehe noma yini esiyifunayo ezimpilweni zethu. Umuntu okhomba ukuntula ngokwengqondo noma oqhubeka egxile ekuntuleni uzoheha ukuntula okwengeziwe empilweni yakhe. Umthetho ongaguquki, ekugcineni umuntu uhlala edonsa empilweni yakhe lokho futhi okuhambisana nemvamisa yomuntu yokudlidliza, imicabango nemizwa yakhe. ...

Thina bantu sibhekana nezimo nezenzakalo ezihlukahlukene ezimpilweni zethu. Nsuku zonke sibhekana nezimo ezintsha zempilo, izikhathi ezintsha ezingafani neze nezedlule. Ayikho imizuzwana emibili efanayo, azikho izinsuku ezimbili ezifanayo, ngakho-ke kungokwemvelo ukuthi phakathi nokuphila kwethu sihlangana ngokuphindaphindiwe nezinhlobonhlobo zabantu, izilwane noma ngisho nezimo zemvelo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi konke ukuhlangana kufanele kwenzeke ngendlela efanayo, ukuthi konke ukuhlangana noma ukuthi konke okufika emcabangweni wethu nakho kunento yokwenza nathi. Akukho okwenzeka ngenhlanhla futhi konke ukuhlangana kunencazelo ejulile, incazelo ekhethekile. ...

Wonke umuntu unabangane bomphefumulo abahlukene. Lokhu akubhekiseli ngisho nakubalingani abahambisanayo bobudlelwano, kodwa futhi nasemalungwini omndeni, okungukuthi imiphefumulo ehlobene, ephinde ibe sesimweni somuntu ngokuphindaphindiwe “emindenini yemiphefumulo” efanayo. Wonke umuntu unomlingani womphefumulo. Sihlangane nabalingani bethu bomphefumulo ngenxa yokuzalwa kwabantu abaningi, ngokunembile izinkulungwane zeminyaka, kodwa kwakunzima ukuqaphela umlingani womphefumulo womuntu, okungenani eminyakeni edlule. ...

Ukudedela kuyisihloko esibalulekile cishe wonke umuntu aphoqeleka ukuthi abhekane nesikhathi esithile empilweni yakhe. Kodwa-ke, lesi sihloko sivame ukuhunyushwa ngokungalungile ngokuphelele, sihlotshaniswa nokuhlupheka / ubuhlungu benhliziyo / ukulahlekelwa okuningi futhi singakwazi nokuhambisana nabanye abantu empilweni yabo yonke. Kulo mongo, ukudedela kungase futhi kubhekisele ezimweni eziningi zempilo, izehlakalo kanye nemiphumela yokudalelwa noma ngisho nakubantu owake waba nesibopho esijulile nabo, yebo, ngokunokwenzeka ngisho nabalingane bangaphambili, umuntu angeke esabakhohlwa kulokhu. umqondo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngakho-ke ngokuvamile kumayelana nobudlelwano obuhlulekile, ubudlelwano bothando bangaphambili umuntu ayengeke abuqede. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isihloko sokudedela singaphinde sihlobane nabantu abangasekho, izimo zokuphila zangaphambili, izimo zezindlu, izimo zasemsebenzini, ubusha bomuntu obudlule, noma, ngokwesibonelo, namaphupho ahluleke ukufezeka kuze kube manje ngenxa yesimo somuntu. izinkinga ezingokwengqondo.  ...