Umqondo we-egoistic uhambisane/ulawule izingqondo zabantu izizukulwane ezingenakubalwa. Lo mqondo usigcina sibambeke obishini oluminyene ngamandla futhi ngokwengxenye unembangela yokuthi thina bantu sivame ukubheka impilo ngemibono engemihle. Ngenxa yalo mqondo, thina bantu sivame ukukhiqiza ukuminyana okunamandla, sivimbe amandla ethu emvelo futhi sinciphise imvamisa lapho isimo sethu sokwazi sinyakaza khona. Ekugcineni, ingqondo ye-EGO inguzakwethu onyakazisa kancane emqondweni wethu wengqondo, yona enesibopho semicabango eyakhayo, okungukuthi, ukuphakamisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Kulo mongo, umuntu uyezwa kaningi muva nje ukuthi sekuqhamuke isikhathi lapho isintu sizoqala sazi umqondo waso we-EGO bese okwesibili siwunikeze uguquko futhi.
Ukushintsha kwe-EGO
Ngokuyisisekelo, uguquko olukhulu lomqondo wabo wokuzazisa olwenzeka kubantu abaningi njengamanje. Ekugcineni, kumayelana nokuqaphela nokwamukela izingxenye zethu zethunzi, okungukuthi izici ezingezinhle zomuntu, izingxenye ezibuye zibe nemvamisa yokudlidliza ephansi, zivimbele inqubo yethu yokuphulukisa yangaphakathi, ukuze sikwazi ukuhlakaza/ukusebenza ngokusebenzisa ukuboshwa kwe-karmic endala. futhi. Ukuhlukumezeka okuhlukahlukene ngokuvamile kuwumphumela womqondo wethu wokuzazisa, izikhathi lapho siye salolonga khona okwethu iqiniso ngomqondo wethu ophansi we-EGO. Lokhu kuhlukumezeka (izinto ezingezinhle – ezigxile ekujuleni kwethu Okungatheng) ngokuvamile banesibopho sezifo zesibili kamuva futhi kuthinta isimo sethu somzimba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi uguqule ingqondo yakho ye-EGO, ngaphambi kokuthi wamukele izingxenye zesithunzi futhi, kubalulekile ukuqaphela umqondo wakho wokuzicabangela. Kubaluleke kakhulu esinyathelweni sokuqala ukuphinde wazi ngalo mqondo futhi, ukuqonda ukuthi umuntu ubelokhu engaphansi kwengqondo kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe lapho umuntu eqala ngokudala umcabango ongemuhle futhi okwesibili abone izenzo ezingezinhle. Kuphela lapho umuntu ebona ingqondo yakhe ye-EGO futhi eqonda futhi ukuthi lesi sakhiwo esinemvamisa ephansi, esicindezela imvelo yomuntu yeqiniso, sigcina ingqondo yomphefumulo womuntu ihlola, khona-ke kuba nokwenzeka ukuthola ukusetshenziswa okuhle kulo mqondo ongemuhle.
Yamukela yonke into ngawe, ngisho nezinhlangothi zakho ezingezinhle! Uyivula kanje indlela ezokwenza uphelele..!!
Kuleli qophelo kufanele kushiwo futhi ukuthi akukhona ukwenqaba izici zomuntu ezingezinhle, kodwa mayelana nokuzamukela. Umuntu kufanele njalo azamukele ngokugcwele futhi azazise zonke izingxenye, ngisho nalezo ezingezinhle ngokwemvelo, njengesibuko esibalulekile sesimo somuntu sangaphakathi. Zithande ngokuphelele, yamukela yonke into ngawe, yazisa ngisho nezingxenye zakho zethunzi, ukungalingani kwangaphakathi kwakho, leso yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuba uphelele ngaphakathi.
