Impilo yomuntu ihambisana ngokuphindaphindiwe nezigaba lapho umuntu ezithola ekwalasha ogcwele ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka. Lezi zigaba zibuhlungu kakhulu futhi zihambisana nomuzwa wenjabulo engafinyeleleki. Umuntu uzizwa elimele ngokujulile, akuzwakali nakancane ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo kwangaphakathi futhi uba nomuzwa wokuthi ukuphila akusenanjongo kuye ngokwakhe. Ungase uwele ekucindezelekeni okujulile futhi ungasakholelwa ukuthi isimo singathuthuka nganoma iyiphi indlela. Noma kunjalo, impilo ihlale inezahluko ezintsha ezigcinelwe wena, izahluko lapho kubhalwa khona indaba entsha, indaba ehambisana nenjabulo nenjabulo ejulile ekuphileni. Ukuthemba igama eliyisihluthulelo lapha. Kubalulekile ukuba nokholo empilweni noma kunalokho enjabulweni yakho ephindelelayo.

Impilo ihlale inenjabulo entsha ekubekele yona

Uthando ekugcineni luwumthombo wamandla, okungukuthi amandla amsulwa, angonakalisiwe alele ekujuleni kwegobolondo lawo wonke umuntu. Thina bantu siyakwazi ukuthola amandla okuphila phakade kulo mthombo ocishe ungapheli. Yebo, endaweni ethile umuzwa wothando ukunika ugqozi ekuphileni, iqinisekisa ukuthi siyaqhubeka futhi sidlule ngisho nasezigodini ezijulile. Ngalo mqondo, wonke umuntu ulwela ukukwazi ukuzwa uthando. Uthando, ukuthula kwangaphakathi, ukuzwana, injabulo kanye nenjabulo yimizwa enamandla kakhulu eyenza ukuphila kwethu kube nencazelo ejulile. Kulo mongo, wonke umuntu ufuna nje ukuphila kahle, akwazi ukuzwa uthando futhi akhule ngokuhlalisana ngokuthula. Endaweni ethile thina bantu siyalufuna lolu thando ngakho-ke senze konke ukuze sikwazi ukuzwa le mizwa ephakeme kunayo yonke. Noma kunjalo, thina bantu sihlala sizithola sikwalasha futhi sibhekana nezimo ezimnyama kakhulu. Izimo ezinjalo, ezibonakala zisibuyisela emuva ngokuphelele ekuthuthukisweni kwethu (ubuqili bokuzenzela) futhi zisenze sibhekane nokuhlupheka kwengqondo okubi kakhulu, futhi zenza mnyama umbono wethu ngempilo ekhanyayo nengenandaba esikhathini esifushane. Ezikhathini ezinjalo zokuphila, ngokuvamile awusiboni isizathu sokuhlupheka kwakho futhi ngokuzenzakalelayo ucabange ukuthi, okokuqala, izinto ngeke zibe ngcono futhi, okwesibili, ukuthi uzohlupheka.

Unesibopho sokuthi unombono omuhle noma omubi wemicabango engqondweni yakho kusemthethweni..!!

Kodwa akunjalo, empeleni okuphambene. Okokuqala, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi nguwe obangela ukuhlupheka empilweni yakho. Umuntu ungumdali wesimo somuntu futhi angakhetha ukwenza kube semthethweni/ukubona injabulo noma ukudabuka emqondweni wakhe. Yiqiniso, lokho kuzwakala kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza, ngoba izimo eziningi zigcwele umsindo ongemuhle kangangokuthi akunakwenzeka ukubona uhla lwemicabango ejabulisayo noma eyakhayo. Noma kunjalo, umuntu unomthwalo wemfanelo wokuthi uthola injabulo noma ukungajabuli. Kulo mongo, kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda ukuthi ingqondo yakho idonsa lokho ohambisana nakho ngokomqondo. Umuntu ongalokothi anikeze abanye abantu uthando noma ohlale evuka ngemicabango/izifiso ezimbi uzoqhubeka nokubaheha empilweni yakhe (The Law of Resonance).

Konke okuhlangenwe nakho kunencazelo yako ejulile

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuqonda ukuthi zonke izimo, zonke izigaba zokuphila, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zimnyama kangakanani, zinencazelo ejulile, zisifundisa isifundo esibalulekile. Akukho ukuqondana okubonakalayo, yonke into ilandela uhlelo oluqinile, yonke into inencazelo yayo ejulile nesizathu esithile. Impela, ukuhlupheka kwakho nakho kunembangela ethile, isizathu esithile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izikhathi ezimnyama zokuphila, noma izikhathi lapho sizizwa kabi kakhulu, zisenza sibone ukuntula kwethu ukuxhumana nomhlabathi ongcwele. Bakwenza kucace kithi ngendlela ebuhlungu kakhulu ukuthi asinakho ukuzithanda okwamanje, ukuthi sibukela phansi ingqondo yethu engokomoya futhi sivumela ingqondo yethu (i-ego) enyakazayo enyakazayo isibuse ngokomoya. Lezi zimo zikhanyisa izingxenye zethu zethunzi phezulu futhi zilethe phambi kwamehlo ethu ngendlela enonya. Ezikhathini ezinjalo, sicelwa njalo ukuthi ekugcineni sizibheke, ukuze ekugcineni sikwazi ukuhamba ngenkuthalo indlela yokuzithanda. Ngakho-ke ukuzithanda kubalulekile. Umuntu ongazithandi, isibonelo, akakwazi ukuhlanganisa noma yiluphi uthando kumuntu wakubo, ngemvelo, kwezinye izidalwa eziphilayo noma ngisho nempilo ngokwayo. Ngakho-ke siyacelwa ukuthi sibheke izimpilo zethu ukuze sikwazi ukuguqula izimo zethu ngokusekelwe kulokhu, ukuze siphinde sijabule. Lezi zimo ekugcineni zisiza inhlalakahle yethu siqu, zisivumela ukuthi sikhule ngokwengqondo nangokomoya, zisithuthukise ngokwengeziwe futhi zisiqhubekisele phambili ekuphileni.

Izikhathi ezibuhlungu kakhulu empilweni zivusa umuntu..!!

Izifundo ezinkulu kakhulu ekuphileni zifundwa ngobuhlungu. Lezi zikhathi ezimnyama ziyingxenye yempilo yethu futhi zivusa amandla ethu angaphakathi. Umuntu oye waphila ebuhlungwini benhliziyo obujulile futhi obone kwalasha wokuhlupheka kwakhe angaba ngokoqobo, impilo yangempela ngemva kwalokho. Ungena kulesi simo ubuthaka bese uphuma kuso ngamandla. Ekugcineni, ngemva kokwehla okukhulu, ukukhuphuka okunamandla kukulindile futhi. Yile ndlela impilo ekugcineni ebunjwe ngayo. Ngenxa yomthetho wesigqi nokudlidliza, ngeke kube ngenye indlela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sakho singaba sibi kangakanani, ekupheleni kosuku esinye isigaba sempilo sikulindele esizogcwala i-joie de vivre, uthando nenjabulo. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuqina kuzoba kuhle kakhulu ngemuva kwalokho kunangaphambili.

Ngemva kokuba usuwele kwalasha, ibhalansi yangaphakathi nokuzinza kubuyela empilweni yakho..!!

Uwunqobile owakho kwalasha obuhlungu futhi umile nje esiqongweni sentaba futhi ubheka emuva endaweni eye yalolongwa izenzakalo ezingenakubalwa, indawo engokwengqondo nengokomzwelo ekubonisa ukuthi usuhambe ibanga elingakanani ekuphileni . Kungakanani manje osekubuyise ukuzithanda kwakho futhi ulwe nekhono lokujabula nokujabula. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.