Wonke umuntu ulwela ukuthola uthando, injabulo, injabulo nokuzwana empilweni yakhe. Isidalwa ngasinye sithatha indlela yaso ukuze sifinyelele lo mgomo. Sivamise ukwamukela izithiyo eziningi ukuze sikwazi ukudala iqiniso elihle nelijabulisayo futhi. Siqwala izintaba eziphakeme kakhulu, sibhukude ekujuleni kolwandle futhi sinqamule izindawo eziyingozi kakhulu ukuze sinambithe lolu umpe lwempilo. Lona umfutho wangaphakathi osinika incazelo yomuntu, amandla ashayelayo agxile kakhulu emphefumulweni wawo wonke umuntu.

Ngibheke leyo njabulo

Sonke sihlale sifuna le njabulo futhi sithatha izindlela ezahlukene ukuze siphinde sithole uthando ezimpilweni zethu. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi wonke umuntu uchaza lo mgomo ngendlela yakhe ngayinye. Kwabanye abantu, impilo ihamba phambili, kuyilapho abanye bebona injongo yokuphila ebuhlotsheni obujabulisayo, ekuqaliseni umndeni lapho inhlalakahle yabalingani babo nezingane ikhuthaza khona ukuphila kwabo. Omunye angase abone izinga eliphezulu lenjabulo elingatholakala ekuzuzeni imali eningi. Eminyakeni yami encane, kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 kuya kwengu-22, lokho futhi kwakuyisifiso sami sangaphakathi. Ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi imali iyigugu elikhulu kunawo wonke emhlabeni wethu nokuthi imali kuphela engenza kube nokuthula kwangaphakathi. Ngathatheka ngalobu buqili. Ngibeka lesi sidingo ngaphezu komndeni wami, ngaphezu kwempilo yami futhi phakathi nalesi sikhathi ngaphishekela umgomo owagcina wangihlukanisa ngokwengqondo kuphela, umgomo owangenza ngazizwa ngigodola, wavala inhliziyo yami kodwa nokho ekugcineni wangilethela ukudabuka, ukuhlupheka kanye nokunganeliseki. Kodwa ngokuhamba kweminyaka isimo sami sengqondo ngalokhu sashintsha. Ngaqala ukugxila kakhulu emithonjeni engokomoya nengaqondakali futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngaqaphela ukuthi imali iyindlela ewusizo ekugcineni emphakathini wanamuhla, kodwa ukuthi ayikufezi. Ngabhekana nengqondo yami, ngokwazi kwami ​​futhi ngabona ukuthi uthando olukhona yonke indawo olwenza wonke umuntu abe yiqiniso. Uthando lwempilo, uthando lwabantu bakithi, lwazo zonke izidalwa ezikulomhlaba, uthando lwakho kanye nemvelo okuyifeza ngokuphelele impilo yakho.

Indlela entsha yokuphila

Imigomo yami yashintsha futhi indlela yami yokuphila yathatha izindlela ezintsha. Ngabheka ingaphakathi lami futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngaqonda ukuthi ukukhanya komphefumulo wami kungaphinde kukhanye futhi uma ngizithola, uma ngiqaphela ubuyena beqiniso obungaphakathi futhi ngiqala ukudala iqiniso elihle, elinokuthula futhi. Lolu lwazi, olungaphumi esisekelweni sakho konke ukuba khona, lwandisa ukwazi kwami ​​futhi lwanginika umfutho omusha ekuphileni. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke, inhloso yami kwakuwukuhlanganyela lokho engikutholile nabanye abantu; ngezwa isidingo esijulile sokusondeza abantu othandweni futhi ukuze ngikwazi ukudala umhlaba lapho isintu siphinde sibona ukwahlulela kwaso, sibabeke. eceleni futhi aqale ukuzenza futhi ukuze enze isimo seplanethi lapho uthando olungenamibandela lunqoba, isimo esingabuswa intukuthelo, inzondo, ukuhaha kanye nezinye izindinganiso eziphansi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngaphinde ngaqonda ukuthi lolu lwazi mayelana nokungabi bikho kwemvelo kokuphila luphinde luholele esimweni esihlangene sokwanda kokuqaphela kanye nezinga lokudlidliza leplanethi ukuthi lenyuke kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuqaphela kwabo okungaphelelwa isikhathi emkhathini kanye nezinqubo zokucabanga eziwumphumela, abantu banamandla amakhulu, izidalwa ezihlukene. Sonke singabadali beqiniso lethu futhi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, kunoma iyiphi indawo, sakha umhlaba ekugcineni owukuqagela kwengqondo kokwazi kwethu. Amanani owenza abe semthethweni engqondweni yakho enziwa emhlabeni. Umuntu othukuthele uzobuka umhlaba ngalo mbono futhi othile obonisa uthando ngeqiniso lakhe uzobuka umhlaba ngamehlo alo mthombo onamandla.

Ukubuyisela ukuzithanda

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngabona ukuthi imizwa yangaphakathi imelela kuphela isibuko sezwe langaphandle futhi ngokuphambene nalokho (Umgomo we-hermetic wokuxhumana). Ngaqonda ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzitholela uthando lwakho futhi. Ukuzithanda akuhlangene nobugovu noma ukuzidla, kunalokho! Ukuzithanda kuyimpahla ebalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukudlulisela uthando nezinye izimiso ezinhle ezweni langaphandle futhi. Isibonelo, kunzima ukuthanda izwe langaphandle, abanye abantu, izilwane noma imvelo uma ungazithandi, ungazamukeli noma ungazazisi. Kuphela uma uzithanda wena futhi unebhalansi yangaphakathi kungenzeka ukudlulisa lo muzwa ezweni langaphandle. Uma uqala ukugxilisa ukuzithanda enhliziyweni yakho futhi, lolu thando oluqinile lwangaphakathi lukuholela ekubukeni izimo zangaphandle ngalo mzwelo omuhle. Lawa mandla angaphakathi ekugcineni aholela ekukhuthazeni izimpilo zazo zonke izidalwa ngothando lomuntu siqu namakhono ozwela omuntu. Yebo, kusekude ukuthi ukwazi ukuphinde ugxile kulokhu kuzithanda empilweni yakho, into efana naleyo ayivele yenzeke kuwe. Kudinga okuningi ukususa wonke amanani akho aphansi ukuze ukwazi ukwamukela ngokuphelele/ukuhlakaza ingqondo yakho yobugovu, enezimpande ezijulile kumqondo wakho. Kodwa umuzwa omnandi uma unowakho kuminyene ngamandla Qaphela izici zokuziphatha, uziqede futhi ubeke izifiso ezinhle esikhundleni sazo. Yilolu shintsho olunamandla, lokhu kubuyiselwa kokuzithanda, okwenzeka njengamanje kuwo wonke amazinga okuba khona kukho konke ukuphila. Umhlaba uyashintsha, isintu sesiphinde sabhekana nokwanda okumangazayo kwamakhono aso azwelayo futhi sesiqala futhi ukwakha isimo esihlangene lapho ubungqayizivele bempilo yonke buphinde buqashelwe futhi bube yigugu.

Ukudalwa komhlaba omusha

Kusukela manje kuya phambili, izahlulelo esizibekela zona esihlale sizidelela futhi sizigxeka ezinye izidalwa eziphilayo ziyandiza. Azisekho zonke izifiso eziphansi eziholele ekutheni sidale ukukhishwa okwamukelekile ngaphakathi kubantu abacabanga ngendlela ehlukile. Kusukela manje kuya phambili, konke ukudicilela phansi isithunzi okuholele ekutheni abantu bangakuqapheli ukuthi umuntu ubheka kanjani ucansi, ukukholwa kwabo kanye nokuhluka kwabo kuzondiza. Sisezinhlelweni zokudala futhi sihlangabezane nezwe lapho ukuthula nesisa kuzophinde kube khona futhi singazibheka njengenhlanhla enkulu ukuthi singabhekana nalezi zikhathi eduze. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile impilo yokubonga okujulile.

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