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Sekuyiminyaka eminingana thina bantu sisenqubweni enkulu yokuvuka ngokomoya. Kulo mongo, le nqubo iphakamisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, yandisa kakhulu isimo sethu sokwazi futhi yandisa okungokomoya/okungokomoya yempucuko yabantu. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, kukhona futhi inhlobonhlobo yezigaba zenqubo yokuvuka ngokomoya. Ngendlela efanayo kukhona ukukhanyiselwa kokuqina okuhluke kakhulu noma ngisho nezimo zokuqaphela ezihluke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kule nqubo sidlula izigaba ezahlukene futhi siqhubeke sishintsha umbono wethu ngomhlaba, sibuyekeza ezethu izinkolelo, sifinyelela ekukholelweni okusha futhi sakhe umbono wezwe omusha ngokuphelele ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukubuka kwethu komhlaba okudala, okuzuzwe njengefa nokunemibandela kuyalahlwa futhi kuvuleke amathuba amasha. Eminyakeni yamuva, abantu abaningi bebesezigabeni zokuqala zokuvuka ngokomoya.

I-foreplay engokomoya

Ukugcwaliseka kwesimo esiphezulu kakhulu sokuqaphelaLesi sikhathi ngokuvamile sibonakala ngokuzazi njalo (ukunwetshwa kokuqaphela) futhi sibhekana noshintsho lwangempela. Imvamisa konke lokhu kuzazi, lokhu kukhukhula kolwazi, kuholela ekutheni sicwilise esiphithiphithini esizibekela sona izinyanga, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho neminyaka, okubuye kusekelwe ekucubunguleni lonke ulwazi olusha. Ngalesi sizathu, lesi sikhathi sivame ukuba nesivunguvungu kakhulu kithi, ngoba siphila esikhathini lapho sibhekene nezinguquko eziqhubekayo. Kodwa-ke, abantu bavame ukuhlala endaweni yabo yokunethezeka, abajwayele izinguquko eziqhubekayo noma ngokuvamile bakuthola kunzima ukwamukela izinguquko ezinkulu kalula.

Inqubo yokuqala yokuvuka ngokomoya ngokuvamile ithatha isikhathi esithile. Ukuphathwa ngokuqaphela kwalo lonke ulwazi olusanda kutholwa akwenzeki ngokuphazima kweso, kodwa kuyikhono ozithuthukisayo wena..!!

Ngakho-ke, le nqubo ithatha isikhathi eside, okubuye kuqinisekise ukuhlolwa okuphelele kwendawo yethu yokuqala. Nokho, lesi sikhathi, nakuba kungase kube isivunguvungu, kumane kuyisandulela esingokomoya. Yisikhathi esisilungiselela ukugcwaliseka kwesimo sokwazi okuphezulu kakhulu, umuntu othanda ukukhuluma ngalokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuvuswa okungokomoya kweqiniso.

Ukuze ukwazi ukubona isimo esiphakeme kakhulu sokwazi, kubalulekile ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga zomqondo womuntu. Ukwakhiwa kwe-subconscious engasayithumeli imicabango engemihle ekuqapheleni kwethu usuku..!!

Le nqubo, okungukuthi ukudalwa kwesimo sokwazi okuphezulu kakhulu, noma kunalokho ukwakhiwa kwesimo sokuqaphela esidlidliza ngemvamisa ephezulu kakhulu, sisebenza kuphela uma sihlakaza zonke izinkinga zethu ezingokwengqondo, ukuhlukumezeka, amanxeba engqondo avulekile, i-karmic entanglements. , njll. Umgomo uwukufezeka komcabango omuhle ngokuphelele, ukudalwa kwempilo ehambisana ngokuphelele nemibono yethu.

Ukuvuka okungokomoya kweqiniso

Ukulungiswa kabusha kwesimo sethu sokwaziNgaphezu kwakho konke, lokhu kuhlanganisa ukudedela yonke imilutha nokuncika, okungukuthi imicabango, esithola ngayo ukuncipha kwemvamisa yethu yokudlidliza ngokuphindaphindiwe. Ezweni lanamuhla, cishe bonke abantu baluthwe okuthile. Kungaba izinto ezifana nekhofi (i-caffeine), ugwayi, utshwala, insangu noma izinto ezivamile ezishintsha ingqondo, ukudla okuminyene (ukudla okusheshayo, amaswidi, imikhiqizo elula, amaprotheni ezilwane namafutha - ikakhulukazi inyama/inhlanzi, iziphuzo ezibandayo, njll.), noma abalingani/abantu esithembele kubo. Konke lokhu kuncika kubusa imiqondo yethu futhi kusivimbela ekutheni sikwazi ukwenza ngokuqaphela esikhathini samanje. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abanye abantu bavame ukwenza okuphambene nokuzazi kwabo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi umuntu uyayibona imithwalo yakhe azithwese yona, uyayiqonda futhi uyazi ukuthi angaziphilisa kanjani ngokuqondanisa kahle isimo sakhe sokwazi + ukudla okuhambisana nemvelo/okune-alkali, kodwa akakwazi ukuwenza lo mbono. . Kunalokho, uhamba emibuthanweni bese uzama ngawo wonke amandla akho ukuzikhulula kulo mjikelezo ononya. Kodwa-ke, ukwakhiwa kwesimo esiphakeme kakhulu sokuqaphela kudinga ukuphuma kulo mjikelezo ononya. Ngakho-ke ukuphaphama okungokomoya kweqiniso kuqala kuphela lapho sixazulula zonke lezi zinkinga zengqondo futhi, ngesisekelo salokhu, sakha iqoqo lemicabango emihle futhi (imicabango emihle = ukwanda kwemvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, imicabango engemihle = ukwehla kwemvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. ).

Umehluko phakathi kokwazi nesihlakaniphi ukuthi ohlakaniphileyo enza ngokuzimisela esikhundleni sokuphupha njengowazi..!!

Kuphela uma singakwazi ukwenza lokhu futhi lapho sithola khona ukwanda okusheshayo kwamakhono ethu acashile. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho umuntu eqaphela isimo esicace ngokuphelele sokwazi futhi uyohlale esendaweni efanele ngesikhathi esifanele. Noma ubani oyingcweti yale nqubo (ukukwazi ukubamba komuntu siqu) uyobe eseklonyeliswa ngokujabulela ukuphila okungakaze kubonwe ngaphambili. Sijabula ngokuphelele, siqondanise isimo sethu sokuqaphela kuphela ekuchichimeni futhi ngenxa yalokho sihehe yonke into ekuphileni kwethu ebesilokhu siyifuna ngaphambili (umthetho wokukhanga: awulethi into oyifisayo empilweni yakho .kodwa lokho oyikho futhi kukhanya). Kulo mongo, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bazobhekana nalesi sigaba esisha ohlelweni lokuvuka ngokomoya esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Isixuku esibucayi sabantu abavusiwe sizofinyelelwa maduze futhi abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bazokhipha izithiyo zabo zengqondo. Abantu abaningi maduze bazovuka emaphusheni abo futhi ekugcineni bathathe izimpilo zabo ezandleni zabo. Isikhathi lapho sasingaphansi kwesiphetho sethu siyaphela, kunalokho sithatha isiphetho sethu ezandleni zethu esikhathini esizayo. Kuyindaba yesikhathi kuphela (amasonto/izinyanga) kuze kube yilapho abantu abaningi bezozithola sebekuleli zinga elisha lokuqaphela ngemva kwayo yonke incarnations ezingenakubalwa. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.

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