Njengoba kaningi kushiwo emibhalweni yami, wonke umuntu unemvamisa yokudlidliza ngakunye; ukunemba, ngisho nesimo somuntu sokwazi, okuvela kuso iqiniso, sinezakho ukudlidliza. Lapha umuntu ubuye athande ukukhuluma ngesimo somfutho, esisengandisa noma sinciphise imvamisa yaso. Imicabango engalungile inciphisa ukuvama kwethu, umphumela uwukucindezelwa komzimba wethu onamandla, omele umthwalo odluliselwa emzimbeni wethu wenyama. Imicabango emihle yandisa imvamisa yethu, okuholela ekutheni a ukususa ukuminyana kwemizimba yethu enamandla, okuvumela ukugeleza kwethu okucashile ukuthi kugeleze kangcono. Sizizwa silula futhi ngenxa yalokho siqinisa ukwakheka kwethu ngokomzimba + kwengqondo.
Umbulali omkhulu kakhulu wesikhathi sethu
Kulo mongo, kunezinto eziningi ezehlisa kakhulu imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Kodwa-ke, isisekelo sokuncishiswa noma ukwenyuka njalo kuyimicabango yethu siqu.Imicabango yenzondo, intukuthelo, umona, umhawu, ukuhaha noma ngisho nokwesaba kunciphisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Imicabango emihle, okungukuthi, ukugunyazwa kokuvumelana, uthando, isisa, uzwela nokuthula emoyeni womuntu siqu, bese kwandisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Kungenjalo kukhona ezinye izici, amathonya angaphandle afana ne-electrosmog noma ukudla okungekhona okwemvelo okungaba nomthelela omkhulu kumvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Omunye wababulali abakhulu bokudlidliza besikhathi sethu, uma kungeyena umbulali omkhulu wokudlidliza, kungenxa yokuntuleka kokuzithanda. Kulo mongo, ngisho nokuzithanda kubalulekile ukuze siphumelele (ungaphambanisi ukuzithanda nokuzitika noma ukuzikhukhumeza lapha). Ukuze udale umcabango omuhle ngokugcwele, ukuthola isimo lapho sihlala khona unomphela kumvamisa yokudlidliza okuphezulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sizamukele futhi, sizamukele futhi siqale ukuzithanda futhi. Ekugcineni, lokhu futhi kudala ukwamukelwa + uthando kwabanye abantu, kungaba kanjani ngenye indlela? Ngoba ekugcineni kosuku, sihlala sidlulisa/sifaka esathu isimo sangaphakathi emhlabeni wangaphandle. Isibonelo, umuntu engimaziyo wayevame ukubhala ekhasini lakhe le-Facebook ukuthi uyasizonda sonke. Ekugcineni, wayemane ezwakalisa ukuntula kwakhe ukuzithanda. Yayinganelisekile ngokuphila kwayo, ngokunokwenzeka ngisho nangezimo zayo siqu, futhi ngaleyondlela yahlanganyela nathi isifiso sayo sothando, noma kunalokho sokuzithanda. Awuboni umhlaba njengoba unjalo, kodwa njengoba unjalo. Abantu abathanda + bazamukela ngokwabo bese bebuka impilo ngalo mbono wothando (futhi, ngenxa yomthetho we-resonance, baphinde badonsele ezinye izimo ezimpilweni zabo ezinesimo esifanayo ngokuya ngemvamisa). Abantu, nabo, abangazamukeli bona, baze bazizonde, bese bebheka impilo ngombono ongemuhle, onenzondo.
Umhlaba wangaphandle uyisibuko nje sesimo somuntu sangaphakathi futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Indlela obona ngayo izinto emhlabeni ongaphandle, isibonelo uma ucabanga ukuthi bonke abantu bazokwenqaba + bazonda, ekugcineni kuyenzeka ngaphakathi kuwe kuphela..!!
Uveza ukunganeliseki kwakho emhlabeni wangaphandle, okuzokukhombisa lokhu kungalingani kwangaphakathi, ngokuphindaphindiwe njengesibuko. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuzithanda kubalulekile, okokuqala, uma kuziwa ekuchumeni kwethu futhi, okwesibili, uma kuziwa ekukhuleni kwethu kwengqondo + ngokomoya. Yebo, ukuntula ukuzithanda nakho kunesizathu. Ngale ndlela, izingxenye zethunzi zihlala zibonisa ukuxhumana kwethu okungokomoya okulahlekile + kwaphezulu phambi kwamehlo ethu futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu sisebenza njengabafundisi, njengezifundo ezifundisayo esingazitholela kuzo ulwazi olubalulekile. Simane sinomuzwa wokuthi kufanele sibhekane nokuthile futhi ukuze sifunde ukuzithanda futhi.
Abazithandayo bathanda labo ababazungezile, abazizondayo bazonda labo ababazungezile. Ngakho-ke ubuhlobo nabanye busebenza njengesibuko sesimo sethu sangaphakathi..!!
Lokhu kungase kubhekisele, isibonelo, ezinguqukweni zangaphakathi nezangaphandle ezingaba nomthelela omuhle kumqondo wethu. Noma isho ukudedela izimo zokuphila ezidlule, izikhathi lapho sisadonsa khona ukuhlupheka okuningi futhi esingakwazi ukukuqeda. Nokho, into eyodwa eqinisekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubi kangakanani kuwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukulahlekelwa uthando lwakho siqu kungase kuqine kangakanani, ngandlela thize uzophuma ekucindezelekeni kwakho, akufanele neze ukungabaze lokho. Ukuphakama ngokuvamile kulandela okuphansi. Ngendlela efanayo, amandla okuzithanda okuphelele alele emphefumulweni wawo wonke umuntu. Konke kumayelana nokukhulula lawo mandla futhi. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
