Sonke singabantu sidala ukuphila kwethu, okungokoqobo kwethu, sisebenzisa okwethu ukucabanga kwengqondo. Zonke izenzo zethu, izehlakalo zempilo kanye nezimo ekugcineni ziwumkhiqizo wemicabango yethu, yona exhumene kakhulu nokuma kwesimo sethu sokwazi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izinkolelo nezinkolelo zethu zigeleza ekudalweni/ekwakhekeni kweqiniso lethu. Lokho okucabangayo nokuzizwayo mayelana nalokhu, okuhambisana nezinkolelo zakho zangaphakathi, kuhlala kuzibonakalisa njengeqiniso empilweni yakho siqu. Kodwa kukhona nezinkolelo ezingezinhle eziholela ekutheni sizibambele mathupha. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu manje sengiqale uchungechunge lwezihloko engikhuluma kuzo ngezinkolelo ezihlukahlukene ezivimbayo.

Umuntu akakwazi ukukhanyiseleka ngokugcwele?!

Ezihlokweni zokuqala ze-3 ngingene ezinkolelweni zansuku zonke kulo mongo: "Angimuhle","Angikwazi ukukwenza lokho","Abanye bangcono/babaluleke kakhulu kunami“Kodwa kulesi sihloko ngizophinde ngikhulume ngenkolelo ecace kakhudlwana, ewukuthi umuntu akanakukhanyiseleka ngokugcwele. Maqondana nalokhu, esikhathini esithile esidlule ngafunda ukuphawula komuntu owayeqiniseka ngokuqinile ukuthi umuntu akanakukhanyiseleka ngokugcwele. Omunye, ngakolunye uhlangothi, wacabanga ukuthi yayingeke ibe khona impumelelo emjikelezweni wokuphindukuzalwa. Nokho, lapho ngifunda lezi zinkulumo, ngaqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi lezi kwakuyizinkolelo zabo kuphela. Kodwa-ke, ekugcineni awukwazi ukwenza izinto zibe jikelele, ngoba phela thina bantu sakha iqiniso lethu futhi ngaleyo ndlela izinkolelo zethu ezihlobene. Okubonakala kungenakwenzeka kumuntu oyedwa, nakho, kuyenzeka komunye umuntu. Awukwazi nje ukwenza izinto zibe ziningi futhi uveze ukuvinjwa kwakho okuzibekele wena kwabanye abantu, noma awukwazi ukwethula izinto njengento engokoqobo/ukulunga ngokujwayelekile, ngoba wonke umuntu uzenzela owabo iqiniso futhi unombono womuntu ngamunye ngempilo. Ngakho-ke lesi simiso singadluliselwa ngokuphelele kule nkolelo yokuzibekela yona. Uma othile eqiniseka ukuthi umuntu akakwazi ukukhanyiselwa ngokugcwele, khona-ke lowo muntu ngeke akwazi ukukufeza, okungenani kuze kube yilapho lowo muntu eqiniseka.

Awukwazi ukudlulisela izinkolelo nezinkolelo zakho kwabanye abantu ngoba ziwumkhiqizo wemicabango YAKHO YEngqondo..!!

Kodwa lokho kuyisici esisodwa kuphela seqiniso lakhe futhi asisebenzi kwabanye abantu. Phela, iqiniso lokuthi lokhu akufanele kusebenze linamandla futhi ngenkolelo "Angikwazi ukukwenza lokho"uxhumekile. Nokho, kungani umuntu kungafanele akwazi ukuzitholela ukukhanyiselwa ngokugcwele, kungani kungafanele akwazi ukweqa umjikelezo wakhe wokuphindukuzalwa.

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Ekupheleni kosuku noma yini ingenzeka futhi kungenzeka futhi ukwakha inhlanganisela yemicabango eqondile, ukuthola isimo esicace ngokuphelele sokuqaphela noma ukunqoba ubukhona bomuntu obukabili. Yiqiniso, wonke umuntu kufanele azitholele ngokwakhe ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani. Ngokwami, ngithole eyami indlela futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngithole isisombululo, into engenzeka, nayo esekelwe emfundisweni yami engizidalile noma ekukholelweni kwami. Uma ufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe ngalokhu, ngingancoma izihloko ezilandelayo: Umjikelezo Wokuphindukuzalwa - Kwenzekani lapho ukufa kwenzeka?, Inqubo Ye-Lightbody Nezigaba Zayo - Ukwakheka KobuNkulunkulu Bayomuntu, I-Force Awakens - Ukutholwa Kabusha Kwamakhono Omlingo. Noma kunjalo, sonke sihamba ngendlela yethu kulokho futhi singazikhethela ukuthi singazibona kanjani izinto ezithile. Ngendlela, mayelana nokuvezwa kwezinkolelo kwabanye abantu, umuntu wake wangitshela ukuthi abantu ababika okuhlangenwe nakho okungokomoya okuye kwawenza umsebenzi wabo ngeke bakwazi ukunqoba umjikelezo wabo wokuphindukuzalwa. Kwakuyinkulumo eyaba nethonya elinamandla kimi ngaleso sikhathi futhi yangenza ngangabaza amakhono ami. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile ngabona ukuthi lokhu kwakuwukukholelwa kwakhe kuphela futhi kwakungahlangene nhlobo nami.

Wonke umuntu uzakhela ezakhe izinkolelo nezinkolelo, azidalele eyakhe impilo, eyakhe iqiniso futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, imibono yomuntu ngamunye ngempilo..!!

Uma ecabanga ukuthi lokhu kunjalo empilweni yakhe, khona-ke esimweni esinjalo ngeke akwazi ukunqoba le nqubo ngenxa yezinkolelo zakhe ezivimbelayo. Ekugcineni, lokhu kwakuyinkolelo yakhe nje, ukuvinjwa kwakhe okuzidalele, angeke akwazi ukukudlulisela empilweni yami. Awukwazi ukukhulumela abanye abantu ubatshele ukuthi into kumele ibe njani, lokho akwenzeki ngoba wonke umuntu uzakhela okwakhe okwangempela, izinkolelo zakhe kanye nemibono yakhe ngempilo. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.