Kwezinye izingosi ezingokomoya ngokuvamile kuthiwa ngenxa yenqubo yokuvuka ngokomoya, umuntu angashintsha ngokuphelele ukuphila kwakhe futhi, ngenxa yalokho, afune abangane abasha noma angabe esakwazi ukuzihlanganisa nabangane bakudala ngemva kwesikhashana. Ngenxa yokuthambekela kwengqondo okusha kanye nemvamisa esanda kuqondaniswa, ubungeke usakwazi ukuhlonza abangane bakho bakudala futhi ngenxa yalokho uzoheha abantu abasha, izimo zokuphila nabangane empilweni yakho. Kodwa ingabe likhona iqiniso kuwo nhlobo noma ingabe ulwazi oluyisigamu oluyingozi kakhulu olusatshalaliswayo. Kulesi sihloko ngizofika ekugcineni kwalo mbuzo futhi ngichaze okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​​​kulokhu.

Ukunyuka kwemvamisa = Abangane abasha?

Yebo, kufanele ngiqale ngikhulume ukuthi kuneqiniso elithile esitatimendeni. Ekupheleni kosuku, kubukeka sengathi uhlala uheha izinto empilweni yakho ezihambisana ne-charisma yakho. Isibonelo, uma ubusebenza esilaheni futhi kungazelelwe waqaphela ukuthi yonke impilo iyigugu futhi awusakwazi ukuhlobana "nomkhuba wokuhlaba" (ukubulala izilwane) nganoma iyiphi indlela, khona-ke ubuyoshintsha ngokuzenzakalelayo umsebenzi wakho. futhi ulethe umsebenzi omusha noma isimo esisha empilweni yakho. Lokho kungaba umphumela ongokwemvelo wolwazi olusanda kutholwa. Kambe kungaba njalo yini nakubangane bakhe, okusho ukuthi umuntu ngeke esakwazi ukuzihlanganisa nabangane bakhe ngenxa yolwazi asanda kuluthola, ukuthi useziqhelelanisa nabo futhi ahehe abantu/abangane abasha empilweni yakhe? Kulo mongo, kukhona ukunyakaza kwakamuva okuveza ingokomoya (ubuze bomqondo) njengobudemoni, abathi umuntu kufanele alahlekelwe/adedele abangani bakhe bakudala. Ekugcineni, lokhu kuwulwazi oluyingxenye oluyingozi olusatshalaliswayo futhi lungase luholele abanye abantu ukuthi bakholwe. Kodwa kuwukungathembeki, okubuye kube nohlamvu lweqiniso kuphela. Lokho kuwukugomela okungeke kwenziwe obala nganoma iyiphi indlela.

Uhlala udweba empilweni yakho lokho okuhambisana ne-charisma yakho, okuhambisana nezinkolelo zakho nezinkolelo zakho..!!

Yebo akhona amacala anjalo. Ake ucabange unezinto ezicasulayo ngokwakho ngobusuku obubodwa, ufika esiphethweni sokuthi yonke into ephilayo ibalulekile, noma ukuthi ipolitiki imane isakaza ukwaziswa okungelona iqiniso, noma ukuthi uNkulunkulu empeleni ungumoya omkhulu ogcwele yonke indawo (ukwazi) okuphuma kuwo wonke umuntu indlela yokudala futhi ungawusebenzisa. bese utshela abangani bakho ngakho, kodwa uzokwenqatshwa kuphela.

Ulwazi oluyingxenye eyingozi

Ezimweni ezinjalo kungaba yiqiniso, okungenani uma abangani bakho becabanga ukuthi konke lokhu kuwumbhedo, kungase kubangele ingxabano bese ningazwani nhlobo. Esimeni esinjalo, umuntu angadonsela abangane abasha empilweni yakhe futhi angahlangani nabangane bakudala. Ekugcineni, lokhu kungavela ngenxa yokuthinteka esikhundleni sokucindezelwa (“Kufanele udedele abangani bakho bakudala”). Nokho, lokhu kungaba yisibonelo esisodwa kuphela. Konke kungase kuhluke ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, utshela abangani bakho ngakho futhi bakulalele ngomdlandla, bajabule ngolwazi futhi bazame ukubhekana nalo. Noma utshela abangani bakho ngakho, okungenzeka bangakwazi ukwenza okuningi ngakho ngemva kwalokho, kodwa noma kunjalo njengawe, bafuna ukuqhubeka nokuba ngabangane nawe futhi bangakuvezi nakancane ukuthi bakugcone noma bakwehlulele ngemibono yakho emisha. Kunezimo ezingenakubalwa ezingase zenzeke. Izimo lapho umuntu engathola khona ukwaliwa, noma izimo lapho umuntu eqhubeka nokuba nobungane. Ngokwesibonelo, endabeni yami ubungane bami baqhubeka bulondolozwa. Kulo mongo, ngibe nabangane abakhulu abangu-2 iminyaka eminingi. Ezikhathini zangaphambili asikaze sihlangane nezihloko ezingokomoya, sasingazi lutho ngengokomoya, ipolitiki (i-financial elite and co.) kanye nezinye izihloko ezinjalo, okuphambene kwakunjalo. Kodwa ngobunye ubusuku ngafikelwa yimicabango ehlukahlukene.

Ukuhlwa okukodwa kwashintsha impilo yami yonke. Ngenxa yokuzazi, ngawubuyekeza wonke umbono wami womhlaba ngase ngishintsha indlela yokuphila kwami..!!

Ngenxa yalokho, ngangibhekana nalezi zinkinga nsuku zonke futhi ngashintsha zonke izinkolelo nezinkolelo zami. Yebo ngabatshela abangane bami ababili abakhulu ngakho ngobunye kusihlwa. Ngangingazi kahle ukuthi babezosabela kanjani kulokho, kodwa ngangazi ukuthi babengeke bangihleke ngenxa yalokho noma ubungane bethu bungaphela ngenxa yalokho.

Umuntu akufanele enze izinto ngokujwayelekile

Kwaqale kwaba yinqaba kakhulu kubo bobabili, kodwa abazange bangihlekise ngakho futhi banikeze nokukholelwa kancane. Okwamanje, sekudlule iminyaka emi-3 kusukela ngalolo suku futhi ubungane bethu abukaphukanga nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa buye bakhula. Yiqiniso, sonke singabantu aba-3 abahluke kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi abanemibono ehluke ngokuphelele ekuphileni noma ifilosofi ngezinye izinto, siphishekela ezinye izinto futhi siphishekele ezinye izithakazelo, kodwa sisengabangane abakhulu, abantu abangu-3 abathandanayo njengabazalwane. Abanye babo sebeze bahlakulela ingokomoya futhi bayazi ukuthi umhlaba wethu osekelwe olwazini olungaqondile ungumkhiqizo wemindeni enamandla (obekungeke kube yimfuneko - kumane kwenzeka kanjalo). Ngokuyisisekelo, sonke sisahola izimpilo ezi-3 ezihluke ngokuphelele futhi nokho, lapho sihlangana futhi ngempelasonto, siqondana ngobumpumputhe futhi sizwa ukuxhumana kwethu okujulile komunye nomunye, silondoloze ubungane bethu obukhulu futhi singalokothi sazi ukuthi yini ezoma phakathi kwethu. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngingavumelana kancane nalesi sitatimende sokuthi “ungalahlekelwa yibo bonke abangani bakho bakudala ngenxa yenqubo yokuvuka ngokomoya”. Kuyisitatimende esingeke senziwe jikelele nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kukhona abantu okunje ngabo, abantu abenqabana ngokuphelele ngenxa yemvamisa/imibono nezinkolelo futhi abasafuni ukuba nento yokwenza nomunye, kodwa kukhona nabantu noma ubungane abangekho. bonke abathintwe yilokhu bayathinteka futhi baqhubeke nokuba khona ngenxa yalokho. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.