Ezweni lanamuhla, amafilimu amaningi ahambisana nokuvuka okungokomoya kwamanje. Le quantum igxumela ekuvukeni futhi amakhono angokomoya eqiniso omuntu ethulwa ngendlela yomuntu ngamunye, ngezinye izikhathi ngokusobala kakhulu, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngendlela ecashile. Ngalesi sizathu ngike ngabuka amafilimu e-Star Wars futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule (Isiqephu 3+4). Amafilimu e-Star Wars ayengumngane wami njalo ebuntwaneni bami/ebusheni bami. Ngesinye isikhathi ngangingasenawo lawa mafilimu esikrinini sami, kodwa manje yonke into isingibambe futhi. Ngangilokhu ngibhekana nalawa mafilimu eqinisweni lami ngakho-ke ngabuka izingxenye zami ezi-2 engizithandayo futhi. Ngaphinde ngabona ukufana okuthakazelisayo nezenzakalo zezwe zamanje. Ikakhulukazi, ezinye izingcaphuno ze-Yoda zimangaze ngempela kulo mongo. Ngakho-ke ngingathanda ukubhekana nenye yalezi zicaphuno kulesi sihloko, ake sihambe.

Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa kuyindlela eya ohlangothini olumnyama

Ukuchaza yonke le nto futhi kafushane, Isiqephu sesi-3 sikhuluma ngoJedi Anakin Skywalker osemncane, ovumela ukuyengwa uhlangothi olumnyama lwamandla futhi ngenxa yalokho ulahlekelwe yikho konke, umkakhe, abangani, abeluleki kanye nemibono yokuqala. Uya ngokuya edidekile futhi azivumele ukuthi asetshenziswe nguSith Lord Darth Sidious onamandla. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokukhwabanisa ukwesaba kwakhe ukulahlekelwa. Uba nemibono namaphupho kaningi ngezinsolo zokufa okuseduze komkakhe amthandayo uPadmé. Njengoba eqiniseka ngaphakathi ukuthi le mibono ingagcwaliseka, ekugcineni ufuna iseluleko kuJedi Master Yoda.

Uhlala uheha lokho empilweni yakho lapho isimo sakho sokwazi sihambisana khona kakhulu..!!

Ngokushesha ubona ukungalingani kwakhe kwangaphakathi, ukudonsa kwakhe ohlangothini olumnyama lwamandla ngakho-ke kumnika iseluleko esibalulekile endleleni yakhe: ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa kuyindlela eya ohlangothini olumnyama. U-Anakin wayebonakala engaqondi ngempela ukuthi u-Yoda wayesho ukuthini ngaleso sikhathi.

Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa othandekayo ekugcineni kungaholela kulokho kulahlekelwa..!!

Nokho, ekugcineni le mpendulo yayihlakaniphe kakhulu futhi iqukethe isimiso esibalulekile. Uma wesaba ukulahlekelwa othile osondelene nawe, isibonelo abazali bakho noma intombi/isoka lakho, khona-ke lokhu kwesaba kuwumphumela wokuzicabangela futhi kungaholela ekugcineni lokho kwesaba kube ngokoqobo (ukudonsa lokho empilweni yakho ukuthi uphelele qiniseka, lokho okuhambisana nemicabango nezinkolelo zakho).

Ego noma umphefumulo, unquma

Nakulokhu, u-Anakin akazange alalele i-Jedi Master futhi waqhubeka ehlala esaba ukulahlekelwa umkakhe. Ngenxa yalokhu kwesaba, wabe esenza isivumelwano nenkosi emnyama. Lokhu kwamyenga okungukuthi ohlangothini olumnyama lwamandla ngokumtshela ukuthi umuntu angasindisa abathandekayo ekufeni ngosizo lohlangothi olumnyama lwamandla. Ekugcineni, u-Anakin waphendukela abangane bakhe kanye nabeluleki, kodwa walahlekelwa yikho konke. Wenza ngenxa yezimiso zobugovu/zobumnyama futhi ngemva kwalokho wanqotshwa impi nomeluleki wakhe. Waba nokusha okukhulu empini futhi wakhubazeka ngokuphelele. Ngaphambi kwalokho, waklinya umkakhe, okwathi ngemva kwalokho waquleka washona ngemva kokubeletha.

Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa kuka-Anakin kwaba ukudonsela ohlangothini olumnyama, ukudonswa koMqondo Wobugovu..!!

Walahlekelwa ukuthanda kwakhe ukuphila njengoba engakwazi ukukuthatha ngokuthi u-Anakin ujoyine uhlangothi olumnyama. Ngakho ekugcineni, u-Anakin walahlekelwa umkakhe, uhlangothi lwakhe olunomusa (okwesikhashana, bheka Isiqephu sesi-6), umeluleki wakhe, nakho konke okwake kwasho okuthile kuye. Intengo yohlangothi olumnyama, ingqondo yobugovu iphezulu. Ngakho-ke lesi simo singadluliselwa kithina ngendlela emangalisayo.

Ekugcineni, i-ego imelela uhlangothi olumnyama lwawo wonke umuntu, ukuthi umuntu ubhekana kanjani nalo, kodwa ekugcineni kumuntu ngamunye..!!

Thina bantu silwa nokuzazisa kwethu ngokuphindaphindiwe, sidabukile phakathi kwezenzo zengqondo nezobugovu. Lapho senza kakhulu ngokwengqondo yethu yokuzazisa, yilapho sidonsa kakhulu izimo nezimo ezimpilweni zethu ezibonakala ngokunganaki. Isibonelo, uma umlingani oyedwa ebuhlotsheni ehlala esaba ukulahlekelwa umlingani wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kwesaba ekugcineni kuholela ekulahlekelweni umlingani wabo.

Ukwazi kwakho kusebenza njengozibuthe, kudonsela empilweni yakho lokho okuhambisana nakho kakhulu..!!

Umuntu akasaphili esikhathini samanje, akasami emandleni othando, kodwa wenza ngombono ozenzele wona, umqondo wokuthi angalahlekelwa umlingani wakhe. Ngakho ukwazi njalo kuhambisana nokulahlekelwa. Umphumela uba izenzo ezingenangqondo ezigcina “zixosha” umlingani wakhe. Ngeke ukugcine kuwe lokho kwesaba. Ngesinye isikhathi, ukwesaba kwakho ukulahlekelwa kuzodluliselwa kumlingani wakho, okuvezwe ngokwesibonelo ngomhawu noma ngisho nokwesaba. Yonke le nto isuke idluliselwa kakhulu kumlingani wakho, kuze kube yilapho umlingani wakho engasakwazi ukubekezelela futhi angakushiya. Ngakho-ke, hlala unaka imicabango yakho futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, qaphela ukwesaba kwakho. Lapho uqhubeka umi esikhungweni sakho siqu kulokhu, ekulinganiseni kwakho kwengqondo, emandleni othando lwakho, kulapho udonsa khona izimo empilweni yakho ezihambisana nokuchichima nokuzwana. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, waneliseke futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.