Amandla emicabango yakho awanamkhawulo. Ungabona yonke imicabango noma, kangcono, ukuveze ngeqiniso lakho. Ngisho nezitimela zomcabango ezingacacile, ukugcwaliseka kwazo esikungabaza kakhulu futhi mhlawumbe nokuhleka kwangaphakathi ngale mibono, kungabonakaliswa ezingeni lezinto ezibonakalayo. Ayikho imingcele kulo mqondo, kuphela imingcele ozibekela yona, izinkolelo ezingezinhle (Akunakwenzeka, angikwazi ukukwenza, akunakwenzeka) ukuthi massively ume endleleni yokuthuthukiswa kwamandla engqondo yomuntu siqu. Noma kunjalo, ekujuleni kwawo wonke umuntu kukhona amandla angenamkhawulo okuthi, uma esetshenziswa ngendlela efanele, akwazi ukuqondisa impilo yomuntu endleleni ehluke ngokuphelele/enhle. Sivame ukungabaza amandla engqondo yethu, singabaza amakhono ethu futhi sicabange lokho ngokomzwelo wemvelo ukuthi sasingadalelwe izinto ezithile futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu siyonqatshelwa ukuphila okuhambisanayo.
Amandla emicabango angenamkhawulo
Kodwa lokhu kuwukukhohlisa, umthwalo ozithwese wona ekugcineni othinta kakhulu ukuqhubeka kwempilo yethu. Sidala izinkinga ezingokwengqondo futhi sizivumele zisiqondise. Kulo mongo, ngokuvamile asiwasebenzisi amandla engqondo yethu, singabhekani nawo, kodwa kunalokho siqondisa isimo sethu sokuqaphela ezenzakalweni ezimbi. Ngale ndlela sivumela imicabango engemihle emiqondweni yethu futhi ngenxa yalokho sidonsele ezinye izimo ezimbi zokuphila ezimpilweni zethu. Umthetho we-resonance uhlala usinikeza izimo, imicabango, izehlakalo ezihambisana nemvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Amandla ahlala eheha ukudlidliza kwamandla ngefrikhwensi efanayo. Kulokhu, iqiniso elihle lingavela kuphela esimweni sokuqaphela okuhle. Ukuntula ukwazi (anginakho, kodwa ngiyakudinga) kudonsela ukuntula okwengeziwe, ukugxila kwenala (enginakho, angikudingi, noma nganelisekile) kudonsela inala eyengeziwe. Lokho ogxile kukho kuzogcina kungene empilweni yakho. Ngakho-ke ayikho into efana nenhlanhla nokuqondana, noma isiphetho esicatshangwayo esingenakugwenywa. Kukhona kuphela imbangela nomphumela. Imicabango edala umphumela ohambisanayo futhi ibuyele kuwe ekupheleni kosuku. Ngalesi sizathu, ungathatha isiphetho sakho ezandleni zakho futhi uzikhethele ukuthi ufuna ukudala impilo egcwele injabulo noma impilo egcwele amagalelo aphansi (ayikho indlela eya enjabulweni, ukujabula kuyindlela).
Indaba yakho ingelinye lamathuba amaningi. Ngakho-ke khetha ngokucophelela futhi udale impilo efanelana ngokuphelele nemibono yakho. Sebenzisa okukhangayo kazibuthe kweyakho ingqondo..!!
Amathuba nawo awanamkhawulo kulokhu. Ungakwazi ukunquma inkambo eyengeziwe yempilo yakho ngokwakho, noma nini, noma kuphi. Kunenqwaba yezimo, izimo noma izehlakalo zempilo ongaziqaphela. Ukukhethwa kwezimo zengqondo kukhulu, akupheli, futhi ungakhetha owodwa wale micabango futhi uwenze ube ngokoqobo ngokugxila ngokuphelele kuwo. Ingabe ufuna ukuba ubani? Yini enye ongathanda ukuyizwa? Udinga ini? Impilo ibukeka kanjani ngokwemibono yakho? Ungaphendula yonke le mibuzo bese usebenza ekuvezeni lezo zimpendulo/imibono.
Ukuqondanisa esakho isimo sokuqaphela kubalulekile ukuze uthole ukuphila okuhle. Kusuka emqondweni oqondile kuphela okungavela iqiniso elihle..!!
Impilo yakho, ingqondo yakho, isimo sakho sokuqaphela kanye namandla akho okucabanga angenamkhawulo ongakha ngawo impilo ngokwemibandela yakho. Ngakho-ke, ungawabukeli phansi amandla engqondo yakho, unganqotshwa isiphetho ozibekele sona, kodwa qala futhi ukukhipha amandla angenamkhawulo wengqondo yakho, kuncike kuwe kuphela. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, waneliseke futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
