Emakhulwini eminyaka abantu babekholelwa ukuthi ukugula kwakuyingxenye evamile nokuthi imithi yayiwukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kulolu sizi. Imboni yemithi yayithenjwa futhi zonke izinhlobo zemithi zazithathwa ngaphandle kokubuza imibuzo. Nokho, okwamanje lo mkhuba uyancipha ngokusobala futhi abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bayaqonda ukuthi awudingi imithi ukuze uphile. Wonke umuntu unezihlukile Amandla okuziphilisa, okuthi uma esecushiwe, akwazi ukuqeda zonke izifo emzimbeni.

Amandla okwelapha emicabango!

Ukuze usebenzise amandla akho okuziphilisa, kubalulekile ukuqaphela amakhono akho engqondo futhi. Imicabango iveza impilo yonke futhi yakha isisekelo sobukhona bethu. Ngaphandle kwemicabango yethu besingeke sikwazi ukuphila ngokuqaphela futhi ngeke sikwazi ukuba khona. Imicabango inomthelela ophelele kwelakho iqiniso futhi ibalulekile ekubumbeni. Okucabangayo, okholelwa kukho kanye nalokho oqiniseka ngakho ngokuqinile kuhlale kuzibonakalisa njengeqiniso eqinisweni lakho siqu.

Ngokwesibonelo, uma uqiniseka ukuthi awunawo amandla okuziphilisa, kusho okufanayo nakuwe. Ngenxa yokukholelwa kwakho okuqinile kuwo, lo mcabango wakha ingxenye ebalulekile yokwazi kwakho. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuthi ungangabazi amandla akho okuziphilisa, ngoba ukungabaza kuvimbela amakhono akho engqondo kuphela. Konke kungenzeka, konke okungacatshangwa kungafezeka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umcabango ohambisanayo ungaba ongaqondakali kangakanani. Njengoba imicabango inomthelela ophelele esisekelweni somuntu esikhona, imicabango yokuphulukisa iletha izinguquko ezinhle emzimbeni. Ungathuthukisa kakhulu umthethosisekelo wakho ongokomzimba nongokwengqondo ngomzuzwana nje ngokwandisa izinga lakho lokudlidliza.

Kungani imicabango ithinta umzimba womuntu siqu?

Ekugcineni, yonke into empilweni iqukethe ukudlidliza, izimo ezinomdlandla futhi okufanayo kuyiqiniso ngemicabango yethu. Imicabango yethu iqukethe isakhiwo esicashile, esingaphelelwa yisikhathi, yingakho ungacabanga noma yini oyifunayo. Imicabango ayikho ngaphansi kokulinganiselwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ungacabanga noma iyiphi indawo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngaphandle kokuthi ube ngaphansi kwemikhawulo ethile.

Imicabango inamandla amakhulu okudala yingakho ungasebenzisa imicabango yakho ukuze ucabange izimo ezingapheli; indawo nesikhathi akunawo umthelela emicabangweni yakho. Imicabango, njengayo yonke into ekhona, ihlanganisa ngaphakathi ekujuleni kwamandla angaphelelwa yisikhathi futhi, ngenxa yomthetho we-resonance, ukwanda kwamandla njengoba isikhathi eside ugxila esitimeleni sokucabanga esihambisanayo. Izindlela zokucabanga ezingezinhle zidala isisekelo sakho esinamandla ukuthi sidlidlize noma sifinyele. Uma, nganoma isiphi isizathu, ngingajabule noma ngizwakalisa imicabango engemihle (ngokwesibonelo umbono wokuthi okuthile kungenzeka kimi) khona-ke lokhu kucabanga kufinyeza ngokuzenzakalelayo isimo sami sokuqina, izinga lami lokudlidliza (njengoba yonke into ekhona iqukethe kuphela amandla Izifundazwe ezihamba ngamaza, iqiniso lami lonke liqukethe kuphela amandla amsulwa; impilo yami yonke iwukuqagela nje kwengqondo kokwazi kwami ​​siqu). Imicabango emihle yenza isisekelo sakho esinamandla sidlidlizele phezulu. Ngokushesha nje lapho ngijabula noma ngicabanga izinto ezingenza ngizizwe nginethemba, khona-ke lonke iqiniso lami liba nesimo esigqamile.

Umuntu angaphinde akhulume ngokwanda kwemvamisa futhi lokhu kwanda kwemvamisa kunomphumela omuhle kumthethosisekelo womuntu ongokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, yonke into ebangela ukunciphisa ukudlidliza ikhuthaza ukugula, yingakho umona, inzondo, intukuthelo, umona, ukuhaha, ukucasuka, njll. kodwa futhi nokuba khona komuntu endaweni yonke. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukugula kungaba khona ngokomzimba kuphela lapho ingubo yomuntu ecashile igcwele ngokweqile. Lapho nje isisekelo sethu esinamandla sesifinyelele kulesi simo, sidlulisela ukungcola okucashile emzimbeni wethu wenyama, umphumela uba amasosha omzimba abuthaka akhuthaza ukugula.

Dala amandla okuziphilisa ngokuqiniseka nangokucabanga okuhle!

Ukuze kusebenze amandla aphelele okuziphilisa, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu akhulule izingubo zakhe ezicashile ngokusebenzisa i-positivity. Uma ujabule ngokuphelele futhi uvumela imicabango emihle kuphela kanye nezenzo ezinhle eziwumphumela, khona-ke unesisekelo esinamandla esizinzile. Uma futhi unolwazi lwamandla okuziphilisa futhi uqiniseka ngo-100% ukuthi ayasebenza, khona-ke azosebenza. Ukuze ufeze lokhu kucabanga, lezi zimo zengqondo, kufanele usebenze emnyombweni wokwazi kwakho, ukunemba. Okungatheng. Yonke imikhuba yethu kanye namaphethini okuziphatha anesimo agcinwa ku-subconscious futhi iyona kanye le mikhuba edinga ukushintshwa.

Lokhu futhi kuvame ukubizwa ngakho njengokuhlelwa kabusha kwe-subconscious. Nginesibonelo esincane salokhu, ake ucabange uphuza amanzi emvula futhi ngokuvamile ukuqaphela kwakho kungasikisela ngokuzenzakalelayo ukuthi kungakwenza ugule. Ngokushesha nje lapho lokhu kwenzeka, unethuba lokuzibandakanya nalo mcabango, okungukuthi ungena kulo mcabango noma ucabange ukuthi lo mcabango ungenzeka. Ngalokhu kwamukelwa kwengqondo, umuntu ubeka impilo yakhe engcupheni, ngoba uvumela umqondo walesi sifo engqondweni yakhe (isifo sizalwa ngokwengqondo futhi singazibonakalisa emzimbeni). Ukuze uguqule lolu hlelo, kufanele ukwenze kucace kuwena uma le micabango engaphansi ibonakala ukuthi akunjalo, ukuthi awukwazi ukugula ngenxa yamandla akho engqondo namandla okuziphilisa. Ngesinye isikhathi i-subconscious ngeke isakhiqiza noma ivumele imicabango yokugula ukuthi iphakame, kodwa izovumela kuphela umcabango wokuphulukisa ukuba uvele. Uma ngabe uphuza amanzi emvula, ukwazi kwakho kancane kungadala imicabango yempilo ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngokwesibonelo, ungase uzitshele ukuthi, “Yima kancane, ngingagula yini emanzini? Hhayi-ke angiphilile futhi ngisazoqhubeka nokuba njalo, izifo azikwazi ukuzibonakalisa emzimbeni wami, impilo kuphela."

Umuntu ube eseqondisa ukwazi kwakhe ukuthi kungabe kusacabanga ukugula, kodwa emicabangweni yempilo. Khona-ke usudale iqiniso elisha, iqiniso lapho ungabe usakwazi ukugula noma iqiniso lapho ungabe usazifaka ubuthi ngemicabango engemihle, kulokhu imicabango yokugula. Wonke umuntu ophilayo unamandla okuziphilisa futhi kukumuntu ngamunye ukuthi uyawasebenzisa noma cha.Ngalo mqondo, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile impilo yakho ngokuzwana.