Kungase kuzwakale njengokuhlanya, kepha impilo yakho imayelana nawe, ukukhula kwakho ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Lokhu akufanele kudidaniswe ne-narcissism, ukuzikhukhumeza noma ngisho nokuzazisa, ngokuphambene nalokho, lesi sici sihlobene kakhulu nenkulumo yakho yaphezulu, kumakhono akho okudala futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke esimweni sakho sokwazi okukodwa - okuvela kuso iqiniso lakho lamanje . Ngalesi sizathu, uhlala unomuzwa wokuthi umhlaba ukuzungezile kuphela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini engenzeka ngosuku, ekupheleni kosuku ubuyela kuwe embhedeni, ulahlekile emicabangweni yakhe futhi uba nalomuzwa oyinqaba njengokungathi impilo yakhe iyinkaba yendawo yonke.
Ukwembuleka komgogodla wakho wobuNkulunkulu
Ezikhathini ezinjena uhlezi unawe nje, uphila impilo yakho kunokuthi unamathele emizimbeni yabanye abantu bese uzibuza ukuthi kungani kunje. Ngisho noma ucabanga ngezimpilo zabanye abantu ezikhathini ezinjalo, kusuke kumayelana nawe kanye nobudlelwano bakho nabantu okukhulunywa ngabo. Ngokuvamile kule nqubo sibukela phansi lo muzwa futhi, ngokuzenzakalelayo sicabanga ukuthi akulungile ukucabanga kanjalo, ukuthi kuwubugovu, ukuthi thina ngokwethu asiyona into ekhethekile futhi siyizidalwa ezilula ezimpilo yazo engenayo incazelo. Kodwa akunjalo. Wonke umuntu uyisidalwa esiyingqayizivele nesihehayo, umdali okhethekile wezimo zakhe, kamuva futhi eziba nomthelela omkhulu esimweni sokuqonda esiyiqoqo. Ezimpilweni zethu, nokho, akukhona nje ukugxila enhlalakahleni yethu, njalo kubhekise kowethu "mina". Kumayelana nokwembula ingqikithi yethu yobunkulunkulu futhi, okuholela ekutheni sigunyaze umuzwa othi "WE" emoyeni wethu, siphinde sibe nozwelo ngokuphelele futhi sithande abantu esiphila nabo, imvelo + nezilwane ngaphandle kwemibandela.
Ukuphila kwethu akuzuzisi kithi ukuze sikwazi ukuzinakekela phezu kokuzalwa kwenyama okungenakubalwa, kodwa sikwazi ukwakha isimo sokuqaphela lapho umuntu enenhlalakahle yayo yonke indalo egxile unomphela. Isimo sokuqonda esilinganiselwe lapho kungeke kuphinde kuvele ukungezwani..!!
Lokhu futhi kuyinqubo ethatha isikhathi esithile, ngokuyisisekelo lena ngisho inqubo eyenzeka phezu kwenani elingenakubalwa lokuthatha isimo somuntu futhi elifika esiphethweni enyameni yokugcina.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwekhono lomuntu lokuzibonakalisa
Kulo mongo, le nqubo ibe isiholela kithina bantu ukuthi siphinde sibe nokuxhumana okuphelele noBUKHONA bethu bobunkulunkulu. Lesi sici sesingaphakathi kwethu kakade, njengoba nje nomhlaba wonke uyingxenye yethu. Lonke ulwazi, zonke izingxenye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isithunzi/embi noma ilula/ilungile, yonke into ingaphakathi kwethu, kodwa akuzona zonke izingxenye ezisebenzayo ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngendlela efanayo, kukhona uhlangothi olunesihe, olunothando olungenamibandela, oluzwelayo futhi olungahluleli kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa luhlala lucashe ethunzini lemiqondo yethu yobugovu. Kuwuhlangothi lwethu lokudlidliza/oluhle ngokuphelele, okuthi uma seluvela, kusho ukuthi thina njengabantu siphinde siphelezelwa/sakheke ngokuphelele ukuhlakanipha, uthando nokuzwana. Ngalesi sizathu, lokhu kuthuthukiswa akuhlangene nhlobo nobugovu noma i-narcissism, empeleni okuphambene kunjalo, ngoba ukuhlonza izici zakho zothando zaphezulu/okungenamibandela kuzuzisa iplanethi yonke. Ngenxa yalokho, ubeka eceleni izingxenye zakho ze-EGO futhi, ngendlela ethile, unakekele abantu bakini, imvelo kanye nezwe lezilwane. Awusanyatheli yonke le mihlaba eyahlukene, ulahle zonke izahlulelo zakho futhi ubona ubunkulunkulu kukho konke okunye (konke okukhona kuwukubonakaliswa kukaNkulunkulu). Uba yisibukeli esithule salokho okwenzekayo, awusasizwa isidingo sokuqondisa abanye abantu, ukuba nesimo sengqondo esibi noma ngisho nokushiya “isimo sakho sokudlidliza esiphezulu sokuqaphela”. Usuqondana kakhulu nendawo yakho, nomhlaba nazo zonke izici zawo. Ekugcineni, lokhu kusho ukuthi sinethonya elihle kakhulu esimweni sokuqoqa ulwazi.
Yonke imicabango + yethu yansuku zonke + imizwa igeleza ingene esimweni sokuhlangana sokwazi futhi isishintshe. Ngalesi sizathu, thina bantu siphinde sibe nomthelela omkhulu ezimpilweni zabanye abantu..!!
Mayelana nalokhu, yonke imicabango yethu, imizwelo, izinkolelo, izinkolelo nezinhloso zethu zigelezela esimweni esihlangene sokwazi futhi sikuguqule. Lapho abantu beba nomcabango ofanayo, lo mcabango uzibonakalisa ngokushesha eqinisweni elihlangene. Lapho abantu beba nombono ongemuhle futhi, ngokwesibonelo, becabanga “ngezenzo ezisekelwe ekungabini nabulungisa,” yilapho lokhu kungabi nabulungisa kuzobonakala ngokushesha emhlabeni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi kubukeka sengathi lapho uzazi ngokwengeziwe, lapho uqaphela ngokwengeziwe amandla akho okubonakaliswa, kulapho umuntu ohambisanayo ethonya kakhulu isimo esihlangene sokwazi.
Eminyakeni ezayo, ukuphaphama okungokomoya kwamanje kanye noshintsho oluhambisana nalo lweplanethi kuzoqina, kubangele isimo esihlangene sokuqaphela senze ama-giant jumps..!!
Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, uJesu Kristu wakwazi futhi ukuletha ukubonakaliswa okunamandla ngesikhathi sakhe nangezikhathi lapho kunobumnyama obuphelele. Wahlanganisa isimiso saphezulu sothando olungenamibandela futhi ngalokho washintsha sonke isimo seplanethi. Yiqiniso, udoti omningi wenziwa ngakho futhi ngenxa yokuqonda okuhlangene okunamandla, umhlaba waqhubeka nokulala ebumnyameni (inhliziyo ebandayo, ukugqilazwa, njll.). Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yeNkathi esanda kuqalwa ye-Aquarius, isimo sokuqwashisa esihlangene sithuthuka kakhulu futhi abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bathola ukuxhumana okuqinile nesisekelo sabo saphezulu. Ngenxa yalokho, lokhu kusho nokuthi abantu abaningi baya ngokuya bezwela futhi baba nomthelela omuhle emoyeni ohlangene. Ngakho-ke kuyindaba yesikhathi ngaphambi kokuba kuqale ukusabela okukhulu kweketango, okuzosiholela thina bantu “ezweni elisekelwe ebulungiswa nokuzwana”. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
