Kunezinto empilweni ezidingwa yiwo wonke umuntu. Izinto ezingenakuthathelwa indawo + eziyigugu futhi ezibalulekile enhlalakahleni yethu yengqondo/ngokomoya. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuwukuvumelana thina bantu esikulangazelelayo. Ngendlela efanayo, uthando, injabulo, ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka okunikeza ukuphila kwethu ukukhanya okukhethekile. Zonke lezi zinto zixhumene nesici esibaluleke kakhulu, into wonke umuntu ayidingayo ukuze agcwalise impilo ejabulisayo futhi leyo inkululeko. Mayelana nalokhu, sizama izinto eziningi ukuze sikwazi ukuphila ngokukhululeka okuphelele. Kodwa iyini ngempela inkululeko ephelele futhi uyithola kanjani? Manje njengoba wonke umuntu esengumdali weqiniso lakhe siqu futhi unemibono yakhe yomuntu ngamunye ngempilo, udala izinkolelo nezinkolelo zakhe, wonke umuntu ubuye achaze inkululeko ngendlela yakhe.

Inkululeko - Isimo sokuqaphela

Noma kunjalo, wonke umuntu unombono oqondile wenkululeko, umgomo othile kulokhu, angathanda ukuwuqaphela empilweni yakhe. Kodwa ukufeza kanjani lokhu futhi iyini ngempela inkululeko? Ngokuyisisekelo, inkululeko iyisimo, ukunemba isimo sokuqaphela, lapho umuntu ozimele futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, impilo yamahhala ingavela. Impilo lapho sinenkululeko ephelele yokwenza izinto, ungavumeli inkululeko yethu yokuzikhethela ivinjelwe nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi senze okuhambisana nemibono yethu, qaphela ukuthi yini ebikhona ku-subconscious yethu iminyaka engenakubalwa ngendlela yamaphupho nemibono mayelana nokuphila. . Mayelana nalokhu, sivame ukuzama ngawo wonke amandla ethu ukufeza lawa maphupho futhi sithole ukuthula kuphela lapho la maphupho esefezekile (impela kubalulekile ukugxila ekufezekeni kwamaphupho akho - kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi lokhu kubonakaliswa kusebenze. Ukuze kuzwakale ngokuchichimayo kanye nokukhokhisa imicabango yomuntu siqu ngephupho ngemizwa eyakhayo, lesi simo sengqondo sisuke sigcinwa ku-subconscious. isikhathi empilweni yakho). Nokho, lokhu kuvame ukuvimba ukuqhubeka kwempilo yethu.

Amaphupho awafezeki uma umzamo wokufezeka uvela ngenxa yokuntula ukwazi..!!

Uma senza lokhu, sixosha amaphupho ethu kuphela esimweni sokuntula futhi singakwazi ukugxila kulesi sikhathi samanje, khona-ke sivame ukuziphuca ingxenye encane yenkululeko yethu. Asikutholi ukuphumula, asisaphili impilo elinganiselayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela sivimba amandla engqondo yethu.

Izithiyo, ama-blockades kanye nokuncika

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, inkululeko iphinde incike esimweni sethu samanje sokwazi noma ngisho nasekuhambisaneni nesimo sethu sokwazi. Kulo mongo, wonke umuntu unokuvinjwa kwengqondo okuhlukahlukene, imithwalo esizithwesa yona emi endleleni yokuthula kwethu kwangaphakathi ekupheleni kosuku futhi ikhuthaze isimo sokungazi kahle/esingalingani. Kungenzeka ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, ulila owayeyintombi/isoka futhi awukwazi ukuqeda lesi simo, noma abathandekayo abashonile, abaqhubeka bengena ekuqapheleni kwethu kwansuku zonke ngendlela yemicabango futhi babangele umuzwa wokudabuka kithi. Kungenjalo, kuvame ukuba yizinto (ugwayi, ikhofi, utshwala, ukudla okuminyene ngamandla, njll.) esithembele kukho noma ngisho nokuzibophezela okuzenzela thina (kumele ngenze lokhu, angikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakho, ngiyakudinga, njll.), okubuye kuthikameze ikhono lethu lokwenza. Zonke lezi zindlela esizinqumele zona zisiphuca inkululeko encane futhi zivimbela ukuthuthukiswa kwamandla ethu obuhlakani. Inkululeko, ngenxa yalesi sizathu, iyisimo sokuqaphela, empeleni isimo esiphakeme kakhulu sokuqaphela, okuvela kuso iqiniso lapho sijabule ngokuphelele futhi saneliseke ngalokho esinakho.

Imingcele nokuvinjwa kuvela emicabangweni yethu kuphela, emiqondweni yethu. Ngalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuthi uguqule indlela osebenza ngayo ingqondo yakho ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzela ukuqeda izithiyo zakho futhi..!! 

Isimo sokuqaphela lapho singasekho ngaphansi kwemingcele esizibekela yona kanye nezinkinga futhi singenayo noma yimiphi imicabango emibi kanye nokuvinjwa. Hhayi-ke, okungenani lokhu kungumbono wami siqu wenkululeko. Njengoba sekushiwo, wonke umuntu uchaza inkululeko yakhe futhi wonke umuntu unombono womuntu ngamunye wempilo. Noma kunjalo, kunento eyodwa eqinisekile, inkululeko iyinto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, into edingwa yilowo nalowo ophilayo ukuze akwazi ukuhlakulela ngokugcwele amandla aso futhi. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.