Esikhathini sokuphila, thina bantu sibhekana nezinhlobonhlobo zokuqaphela nezimo zokuphila. Ezinye zalezi zimo zigcwele injabulo, ezinye ngokungajabuli. Isibonelo, kunezikhathi lapho sinomuzwa wokuthi yonke into ngandlela thize iza kithi kalula. Sizizwa silungile, sijabule, sanelisekile, sizethemba, sinamandla futhi sijabulela izigaba ezinjalo ezikhuphukayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nathi siphila ezikhathini zobumnyama. Izikhathi lapho nje singazizwa kahle, singaneliseki ngokwethu, sibhekana nemizwa yokucindezeleka futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo sizwa sengathi silandelwa amabhadi. Ezigabeni ezinjalo ngokuvamile sifinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ukuphila akunamusa kithi futhi asikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke kanjani, kungani sidale isimo sokuqaphela esihambisana phakade nokuntula esikhundleni sokuchichima.
Konke kuvela kuwe
Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu ube esecwila esiphithiphithini esisengqondweni ngokusobala esithatha isilinganiso esikhulu nakakhulu. Nokho, ekugcineni, sihlala silishaya indiva iqiniso elibalulekile futhi lelo iqiniso lokuthi sinomthwalo wemfanelo ngezimo zethu. Ekupheleni kosuku, konke kwenzeka ngaphakathi kwethu. Yonke impilo ekugcineni iwukuqagela okungabonakali/ngokwengqondo kwesimo sethu sokwazi. Konke umuntu akubonayo, akubonayo, akuzwayo noma akuzwayo mayelana nalokhu akukhona okwenzeka ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi kuyena.Yonke into yenzeka ngaphakathi kuyena, umuntu ubhekana nakho konke okungaphakathi kuye futhi konke kuvela kuye. Kulo mongo, ungumdali wempilo yakho hhayi omunye. Wena ngokwakho unokuqonda, imicabango yakho futhi udale iqiniso lakho. Kwenzekani kuwo nalokho okuvunyelwe kuncike kumuntu ngamunye. Ngendlela efanayo ncamashi, umuntu ubuye abe nesibopho ngemicabango futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, imizwa umuntu ayenza ibe semthethweni engqondweni yakhe.
Ungumdali wesimo sakho sokwazi. Konke ohlangabezana nakho empilweni kwenzeka njalo emqondweni wakho..!!
Ngokwesibonelo, uma ukhashelwe umngane omuhle, kukuwe ukuthi ukuvumele kukulimaze kangakanani. Ungangena kukho futhi ukhathazeke ngakho amasonto amaningi, ugxile kukho futhi udonsele ukugxeka kuyo amasonto.
Ukulungiswa kabusha kwesimo sakho sokwazi
Noma ubheka yonke le nto futhi njengesenzakalo esingenakugwenywa ongathola kuso izifundo ezibalulekile. Nokho, ekugcineni awukwazi ukusola abanye abantu ngezinkinga nezimo zakho (ngisho noma kuhlale kulula kakhulu). Uzibandakanya nezinto ngokwakho, vumela izitimela zokucabanga ngokwazi kwakho futhi unqume ngezimo ezithile zempilo. Injalo impela indlela okusebenza ngayo ngenjabulo nokungajabuli. Akuveli ngaphandle, akugcini nje ukundiza kithi, kodwa kokubili kuvuka ngaphakathi kwethu. "Ayikho indlela eya enjabulweni, ngoba injabulo iyindlela"! Sihlale sinomthwalo wemfanelo wokuthi sidala injabulo, injabulo nokuzwana ekuqapheleni kwethu, noma ngabe siqinisekisa ukungajabuli, ukudabuka kanye nokungaphatheki kahle emiqondweni yethu. Zombili zihlale zihlobene nokuma kwesimo somuntu sokwazi. Ekugcineni, umuntu uhlala eheha empilweni yakhe lokho okuhambisana nemvamisa yokudlidliza yesimo sakhe sokwazi. Uma uzizwa kabi, unganelisekile futhi unokungalingani kwangaphakathi, khona-ke ukwazi kwakho kuhambisana nalezi zinto ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngenxa yalokho, akukho okuzoshintsha ezimweni zakho, ngokuphambene nalokho, uzodonsela imicabango enjalo empilweni yakho. Izimo zokuphila ngeke zibe ngcono futhi uzoqhubeka nokubona ukuwohloka kwesimo sakho. Amandla ahlala edonsa amandla anamandla afanayo. Okucabangayo nokuzizwayo, okuhambisana nezinkolelo zakho nezinkolelo zakho, kuya ngokuya kudonseka empilweni yakho.
Umuntu uhlale edonsa izinto empilweni yakhe ezigcina zihambisana nokudlidliza kwesimo sakhe sokwazi..!!
Umuntu ojabulayo, onelisekile futhi obongayo, isibonelo, uzozikhanga ngokuzenzakalelayo lezi zinto ezimpilweni zakhe. Isimo sokwazi komuntu sibe sesihambisana nobuningi nokuzwana. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu uzoheha futhi ahlangabezane nento efanayo. Ngalesi sizathu, ukuqondanisa kwesimo sethu sokwazi kubalulekile. Kuphela uma sikwazi ukuhambisana nenjabulo nokuzwana kulo mongo lapho sizophinde sibonakalise kokubili unomphela eqinisweni lethu.
Ngokulungisa kahle isimo sethu sokwazi, sizokhanyisa izimpilo zethu futhi sizoheha ngokuzenzakalelayo izimo ezintsha zempilo ezizungezwe injabulo..!!
Izinkinga azikwazi ukuxazululwa kusukela esimweni sokuqaphela okungekuhle. Kuphela uma sishintsha i-spectrum yethu yengqondo futhi, silahla imikhuba emidala futhi siqala ukubuka impilo ngemibono emisha, sizokwazi ukuletha ukuhleleka kabusha kwesimo sethu sokwazi. Kuncike kumuntu ngamunye ngokwakhe. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
