Izinhlobonhlobo zezinkolelo zigxile ekwazisweni kwawo wonke umuntu. Ngayinye yalezi zinkolelo inemvelaphi ehlukene. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izinkolelo ezinjalo noma izinkolelo / amaqiniso angaphakathi avela ngemfundo futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukahlukene esikuqoqayo ekuphileni. Kodwa-ke, izinkolelo zethu zinethonya elikhulu kumvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, ngoba izinkolelo ziyingxenye yeqiniso lethu. Izitimela zomcabango ezithunyelwa ngokuphindaphindiwe ekwazini kwethu kwansuku zonke bese senziwa yithi. Nokho, ekugcineni izinkolelo ezingezinhle zivimba ukuthuthukiswa kwenjabulo yethu. Baqinisekisa ukuthi sihlala sibheka izinto ezithile ngendlela engalungile futhi lokhu kunciphisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Kulo mongo, kunezinkolelo ezingezinhle ezibusa izimpilo zabantu abaningi. Ngakho-ke ngizokwethula enkolelweni evamile esigabeni esilandelayo.
Angimuhle
Ezweni lanamuhla, abantu abaningi bahlushwa i-inferiority complexes. Yilokho kanye abantu abaningi abangazizwa bebahle. Laba bantu ngokuvamile banesithombe esithile esihle engqondweni, isithombe esifanele umuntu okufanele ahambisane naso ngendlela ethile. Umphakathi kanye nemithombo yezindaba yethu ilokhu iphakamisa isithombe esithile esifanelekile kithi, isithombe okufanele sihambisane naso abesifazane nabesilisa. Ekugcineni, lezi zizathu nezinye ziholela eqinisweni lokuthi abantu abaningi ezweni lanamuhla bamane bazithole bengabahle, abaneliseki ngabo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, baze baphathwe yizifo zengqondo. Phela, lokhu futhi kuwumthwalo omkhulu psyche yomuntu siqu, isimo somqondo wakhe siqu.
Lapho ubheka kakhulu injabulo, uthando kanye nokubukeka okuhle kwangaphandle ngaphandle, kulapho uziqhelelanisa khona nomthombo wakho wangaphakathi wenjabulo..!!
Abantu abangazicabangi ukuthi bahle bahlala bebhekene nokunganeliseki kwabo mayelana nalokhu futhi bahlupheka ngenxa yalokho ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kodwa ekugcineni akufanele sivumelane nanoma yisiphi isithombe esihle esinqunywe kusengaphambili, kodwa kunalokho siqale ukuthuthukisa ubuhle bethu futhi.
Thanda futhi wamukele ubunjalo bakho
Mayelana nalokhu, ubuhle bomuntu buvela ngaphakathi bese buzibonakalisa ngokubukeka kwangaphandle, ngokomzimba. Izinkolelo zakho zibalulekile ku-charisma yakho. Isibonelo, uma uqiniseka ukuthi awumuhle, awukho lokho noma, noma ekujuleni kwakho usuvele ukhona, kodwa uma uqiniseka ngaphakathi ukuthi awumuhle, khona-ke uphinde ukhiphe lokhu ngaphandle . Abanye abantu bayobe sebezwa lokhu kuqiniseka okungaphakathi. Ezimweni eziningi, ngeke bakwazi ukubona ubuhle bakho ngoba ubukela phansi ubuhle bakho. Ngokuyisisekelo, wonke umuntu muhle futhi wonke umuntu angathuthukisa ubuhle bakhe bangaphakathi. Mayelana nalokhu, kubalulekile ukuba siqale ukuzemukela futhi sizithande futhi. Isibonelo, umuntu ozithandayo futhi oneliseke ngokuphelele ngokwakhe unomoya othakazelisayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, sihlala siheha ezimpilweni zethu lokho esiqiniseka ngakho ngokuphelele, okuhambisana nemicabango nemizwelo yethu.
Okuhambisana nezinkolelo zakho nezinkolelo zakho, udonsa kakhulu empilweni yakho..!!
Isibonelo, uma uqiniseka unomphela ukuthi awumuhle, khona-ke nakanjani uzodonsela izimo empilweni yakho lapho uzobhekana khona nokunganeliseki kwakho kwangaphakathi. Umthetho we-Resonance, lokho okukhiphayo, ukuheha empilweni yakho. Amandla aheha amandla okuvama kokudlidliza okufanayo.
Ukuphila kufana nesibuko. Isimo sakho sengqondo sangaphakathi sihlala sibonakala ezweni elingaphandle. Umhlaba awunjalo, unjena..!!
Ngakho-ke uma unganelisekile ngokubukeka kwakho, mhlawumbe uze wenqabe umzimba wakho, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuphuphuthekiswa yizinkambiso zomphakathi, izivumelwano kanye nemigomo. Yima eduze kwesimilo sakho, ngomzimba wakho, ngobunjalo bakho. Kungani kungenjalo? Kungani kufanele ube mubi kakhulu, umubi noma ube nesiduli kunabanye abantu? Sonke sinomzimba, sinokuqonda, sakha iqiniso lethu futhi sonke siwumfanekiso wendawo engabonakali, enobunkulunkulu. Ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukungaziqhathanisi nabanye abantu, lapho nje uqala ukuzamukela futhi, uzothola i-charisma ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu esizoheha abanye abantu. Konke kuncike kuwe kuphela, ekukholelweni kwakho kwangaphakathi, izinkolelo, imicabango nemizwa. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, waneliseke futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
