Izinkolelo ziyizinkolelo ezingaphakathi ezigxile ngokujulile ekucabangeni kwethu futhi ngaleyo ndlela zibe nomthelela omkhulu eqinisweni lethu kanye nenkambo eqhubekayo yempilo yethu. Kulo mongo, kunezinkolelo ezinhle ezizuzisa ukukhula kwethu ngokomoya futhi kunezinkolelo ezingezinhle ezibuye zibe nethonya elivimbelayo engqondweni yethu. Ekugcineni, nokho, izinkolelo ezingezinhle njengokuthi "Angimuhle" zehlisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza. Zilimaza i-psyche yethu futhi zivimbele ukugcwaliseka kweqiniso langempela, iqiniso elingasekelwe esisekelweni somphefumulo wethu kodwa ngesisekelo somqondo wethu we-egoistic. Engxenyeni yesibili yalolu chungechunge ngizongena enkolelweni evamile, ethi "Angikwazi ukukwenza" noma "Ngeke ukwenze".

Angikwazi ukukwenza lokho

Ezweni lanamuhla, abantu abaningi bahlushwa ukungabaza. Ezimweni eziningi siwabukela phansi amakhono ethu engqondo, sizibambe, futhi ngokwemvelo sicabange ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile, ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile. Kodwa kungani kungafanele sikwazi ukwenza okuthile, kungani kufanele sizenze abancane futhi sicabange ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile? Ekugcineni noma yini ingenzeka. Wonke umcabango uyenzeka, ngisho noma umcabango ohambisana nawo ubonakala ungaqondakali ngokuphelele kithi. Thina bantu ngokuyisisekelo siyizidalwa ezinamandla kakhulu futhi singasebenzisa ingqondo yethu ukuze senze into engokoqobo evumelana ngokuphelele nomcabango wethu.

Konke okwake kwenzeka kukho konke kwakungumkhiqizo womcabango, umkhiqizo wokuqaphela..!!

Yilokho futhi okukhethekile ngathi bantu. Yonke impilo ekugcineni iwumkhiqizo wemicabango yethu, umcabango wethu wengqondo. Ngosizo lwemicabango yethu siyakha futhi siguqule izimpilo zethu. Konke okwake kwenzeka emhlabeni wethu, zonke izenzo zomuntu, zonke izenzakalo, zonke izinto eziqanjiwe kuqala zahlala emqondweni womuntu.

Lapho nje singabaza okuthile futhi siqiniseka ukuthi ngeke sikwenze, nathi ngeke sikwenze. Ikakhulukazi njengoba isimo sethu sokwazi ke siphinde siphinde sihlangane nomcabango wokungawenzi, okwenza lokhu kube ngokoqobo..!!

 Noma kunjalo, sithanda ukubuswa izinkolelo zethu, singabaze amandla ethu angaphakathi futhi sivimbele amakhono ethu engqondo. Imisho enjengokuthi: "Ngeke ngikwenze", "Ngeke ngikwenze lokho", "Angisoze ngakuphatha lokho" iqinisekisa ukuthi nathi ngeke sikwazi ukwenza izinto ezihambisanayo.

Isibonelo esithakazelisayo

Isibonelo, kufanele ukwazi ukudala into ocabanga ukuthi awukwazi ukuyenza kusukela phansi. Kulo mongo, sithanda ukuthonywa abanye abantu futhi ngaleyo ndlela sivumele ukungabaza emiqondweni yethu. Nami, ngivumele abanye abantu ukuba bangithonye kulokhu izikhathi eziningana esikhathini esidlule. Ngokwesibonelo, ngasohlangothini lwami, insizwa ethile yake yathi kwakungeke kwenzeke ukuba abantu abadlulisela ulwazi lwabo olungokomoya banqobe umjikelezo wabo wokuphindukuzalwa. Angisakhumbuli kahle ukuthi kungani ayecabanga kanjalo, kodwa ekuqaleni ngavumela ukuqondiswa yikho. Okwesikhashana ngangicabanga ukuthi lo muntu wayeqinisile nokuthi ngangingeke ngikwazi ukunqoba umjikelezo wami wokuphindukuzalwa kulokhu kuphila. Kodwa kungani kungafanele ngikwazi ukwenza lokhu futhi kungani kufanele lo muntu abe neqiniso. Kwaze kwaba ngemva kwezinyanga ezithile lapho ngabona khona ukuthi le nkolelo yayimane nje iyinkolelo yakhe. Kwakuyinkolelo yakhe ayezidalele yona, ayeqiniseka ngayo ngokuqinile. Inkolelo engeyinhle eyaba yingxenye yeqiniso lami. Kodwa ekugcineni lokhu kuqiniseka kwakuwukuqiniseka kwakhe siqu kuphela, inkolelo yakhe yomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke kwaba okuhlangenwe nakho okubalulekile engakwazi ukuzuza kuso izifundo eziningi. Kungakho ngingasho into eyodwa kuphela kulezi zinsuku, nokuthi akufanele uvumele noma ubani akuqinisekise ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza okuthile. Ngakho-ke uma umuntu kufanele abe nenkolelo enjalo engalungile, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile uvunyelwe ukwenza kanjalo, kodwa umuntu akufanele akuvumele kumthonye. Sonke sakha okungokoqobo kwethu, izinkolelo zethu futhi akufanele kuthonywe izinkolelo zabanye abantu.

Wonke umuntu ungumdali weqiniso lakhe futhi angazikhethela ukuthi uqaphela yiphi imicabango, ukuthi uphila yiphi impilo..!!

Singabadali, singabadali beqiniso lethu futhi kufanele sisebenzise amakhono ethu engqondo ukuze sakhe izinkolelo ezinhle. Ngalesi sisekelo ke sidala iqiniso lapho konke kuba nokwenzeka kithi. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.