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Wonke umuntu noma yonke imiphefumulo ibilokhu ikulokho okubizwa ngokuthi umjikelezo wokuphindukuzalwa (ukuphindukuzalwa = ukuphindukuzalwa/ukufaniswa kabusha) iminyaka engenakubalwa. Lo mjikelezo omkhulu uqinisekisa ukuthi thina bantu sizalwa kabusha ngokuphindaphindiwe emizimbeni emisha, ngomgomo omkhulu wokuthi siqhubeke sikhula ngokwengqondo nangokomoya enyameni ngayinye kanjalo nasesikhathini esizayo. ngesinye isikhathi, ngemva kokuba umzimba womuntu ongenakubalwa, ukwazi ukuqeda le nqubo.

Izingxabano zesikhathi esidlule

Izingxabano zesikhathi esidlule

Isiphetho sifika lapho, ngemva kweminyaka eminingi yokuphila, siqala impumelelo ekhethekile futhi siletha ingqondo/umzimba/isimiso somoya wethu ekuqondaneni okuphelele. Lokhu kulandelwa isimo sokwazi esithuthuke kahle/esandisiwe lapho okuhle kuphela, okungukuthi imicabango evumelanayo nenokuthula ithola indawo yayo. Umuntu onjalo uyobe eseba umpetha wokuthatha kwakhe isimo somuntu futhi ube esezikhulule kuzo zonke izenzakalo zasemhlabeni. Wayezoba inkosi yemicabango yakhe + imizwelo futhi wayengeke esaba umlutha. Ubezobe eseziqhelelanisa ngokuphelele nendaba + nokucabanga okuphathekayo futhi aphile impilo enokuthula ezolile, enokuthula nokuzwana (Ubezovumelana naye kanye nempilo, ubengeke esaba ngaphansi kwezimiso ezimbili, ubengafaneleka ngokuphelele + - ukwahlulela). Nokho, kuze kube yileso sikhathi, thina bantu sizophila ezimpilweni ezingenakubalwa, siqhubeke sithuthuka, sazi imibono emisha yokuziphatha, sizikhulule ngokwengeziwe emaphethini ethu agxile ezintweni ezibonakalayo, sifunde ukuphinda sithathe isinyathelo emphefumulweni wethu futhi sihlakaniphe kakhudlwana ekubeni yinyama. lokhu Kukhona futhi lokho okubizwa ngokuthi inkathi yokuzalwa komuntu - lapho usuvele waba sesimweni somuntu kuze kube manje, yilapho umphefumulo wakho uba mkhulu). Yile ndlela kanye esisusa ngayo imithwalo ye-karmic nokunye ukungcola kwengqondo kusuka ekufakweni komzimba kuya ekufakweni komzimba. Kulo mongo kukhona nokulimala okuningi okubi ngokwengqondo kanye nezibopho ezivame ukuvela lapho umuntu ezalwa (okuyiqiniso hhayi kuphela ekufakweni kwenyama kokuqala) bese kuthi ekufakweni kwenyama okulandelayo, ikakhulukazi ekupheleni kokuzalwa kokugcina, kuyancibilika. Ekugcineni, le ballast yengqondo ngokuqinisekile iphinde ihlobane nazo zonke izingxabano ezingaxazululiwe esizithwala ngokuphindaphindiwe ezimpilweni zesikhathi esizayo bese siqhubeka nokulwa.

Lapho umuntu efa, uthatha zonke izinkinga zakhe, imithwalo ye-karmic nokunye ukungcola kwengqondo + okungokomoya kanye naye empilweni elandelayo. Kwenzeka konke lokhu kuze kuxazululwe izingxabano ezihambisanayo..!!

Isibonelo, uma umuntu engumlutha wotshwala futhi engakwazi ukuqeda lesi sidakamizwa, esalwa nalokhu kungqubuzana, khona-ke uzothatha le nkinga naye empilweni ezayo. Ngemva "kokufa" (ukushintsha kwemvamisa) kanye nokuphindukuzalwa okwalandela, umuntu ohambelanayo uyobe esephinde abe sengozini yokulutheka, ikakhulukazi otshwaleni. Kuphela uma ukulutheka kunqotshwa ngempumelelo empilweni yonke lapho umjikelezo unqamuka futhi nomthwalo wengqondo uyasuswa/ukhululwe. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, kukhona nenqwaba yezifo ezidlulela ekuphileni okulandelayo noma ezingalandelelwa zibuyele emuva ekuhlukeni kwengqondo komuntu siqu.

Mayelana nenqubo yokuziphilisa, kubalulekile ukuzikhulula kuzo zonke izingxabano futhi ulethe ingqondo yomuntu ekulinganiseni okuphelele..!! 

Ngakho-ke kunezifo ezivuka ngakolunye uhlangothi ngenxa yokudla okunomsoco (umsoco ongezona ezemvelo), ngakolunye uhlangothi zibangelwa ukungalingani kwengqondo (okubangelwa izingxabano ezintsha zokuzalwa komuntu) noma ngenxa nje yokungavumelani kwengqondo ekuphileni okudlule okuye kwabonakala futhi impilo yethu entsha (ingxenye yohlelo lomphefumulo). Lezi zifo-ke zimane ziwumphumela wezingxabano ezingaxazululiwe futhi zingaqedwa kuphela ngokuqaphela + ukuhlenga lezi zingxabano. Njengomthetho, kubonakala sengathi lezi zingxabano zizenza zizizwe empilweni elandelayo futhi zibhekane nathi. Ekugcineni, isimiso sokuxazulula ukungqubuzana siyasebenza lapha ngokuphathelene nokuziphilisa komuntu siqu. Uma ufuna ukuphinde uphile kahle ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ulethe eyakho ingqondo/umzimba/isimiso somoya ekulinganiseni, okungukuthi ukususa zonke izingxabano ozibekela zona. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.

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