Oh yebo, uthando lungaphezu komuzwa. Konke kuqukethe amandla okuqala e-cosmic azibonakalisa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Okuphakeme kakhulu kulezi zinhlobo amandla othando - amandla okuxhumana phakathi kwakho konke lokho. Abanye bachaza uthando ngokuthi "ukuzibona wena komunye," ukuqedwa kwenkohliso yokuhlukana. Ukuthi sizibona ngokwehlukana komunye nomunye empeleni kukodwa Inkohliso ye-ego, umqondo wengqondo. Isithombe esisemakhanda ethu esisitshela ukuthi: “Nangu nina, nangu mina; Ngingomunye umuntu ngaphandle kwakho."

Uthando lungaphezu komuzwa

Uma sisusa iveli isikhashana futhi sibheka ngale kwamafomu, sibona okuthile okujulile kukho konke okukhona. Ubukhona bamanje obungaphandle kwethu kanye nangaphakathi kwethu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Amandla okuphila akuyo yonke into. Ukuthanda kuwukuzicwilisa kula mandla okuphila nokubona ukuba khona kwawo endaweni yonke. Isisekelo salo lonke uzwelo.

Uthando lungamandla aphezulu

Amandla othando ahlanganisa zonke izimfanelo ezinhle njengenjabulo, ukuchichima, impilo, ukuthula nokuzwana. Unamandla okudlidliza okuphezulu kakhulu. Ngicabanga ukuthi kunento eyodwa ecace ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye njengamanje: Isintu sisempambana-ndlela. Kufanele sinqume ukuthi siyafuna yini ukuhamba endleleni yokuhlupheka nokuzibhubhisa noma indlela yothando, ukuzwana nokuthuthuka. Igebe phakathi kobumnyama nokukhanya alikaze libe likhulu kangako. Uma sifuna ukuyeka ukuzibhubhisa futhi sihambe endleleni eya enkululekweni, kufanele kube nokushintsha kokwazi. Ukuguqulwa kokwazi kude nokucekelwa phansi kanye nokuxhashazwa ngokweqile, kuya ekuqapheleni uthando nokuhlakanipha kwendawo yonke. Futhi niyazi ukuthini? Kukulowo nalowo kithi. Akekho omunye ozokwenza umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuthi siwenze. Ngamunye wethu unomthwalo wemfanelo namuhla wokuthuthukisa ukwazi uthando nemvelo enhle.

Umhlaba ongaphandle uyisibuko sesimo sethu sokuqaphela - kufanele siphile esikufunayo ngaphandle. Kufanele SIBE. Uthando lwethu akulona lwesikhashana..!!

Igcinwa kugridi Yomhlaba futhi inomthelela kithi nakuyo yonke enye into. Uthando yisimo sokuqaphela. Ake singene kulesi simo sokuqaphela ngokwengeziwe - ukuze sizakhele ukuzwana, wonke umuntu kanye nemvelo. Iyona kuphela indlela yokuphuma ekuhluphekeni.

Ungaqala kanjani NAMUHLA ukuzakhela uthando wena nabanye.

1. Ukuzindla Okulula

Ngibala leli “su” kuqala ngoba lifinyelela kude kakhulu futhi linomthelela kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakho. Uthando luzibonakalisa ezingeni elicashile njengokukhanya. Ukukhanya kuyinkampani yenethiwekhi yolwazi engakhokhiswa nganoma yiziphi izakhiwo. Ngokuzindla okulula ubona ngeso lengqondo izinhlobo zokukhanya ozidonsa futhi unothisa insimu yakho yamandla. Amandla okukhanya angaphinde abonakale kwabanye abantu noma izindawo. Njengoba incazelo enemininingwane eyengeziwe ingadlulela ngale kobubanzi, ungayithola kuwebhusayithi yami lapha i-athikili emayelana namasu okubona ngeso kanye lapha kanye nakho konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nokuzindla okulula. Uma ufuna ukwenza kube lula kuwena, ungalanda futhi ukuzindla kokukhanya okuqondisiwe kimi mahhala, ongafinyelela ngakho ukuphumula okuphelele ngemizuzu eyi-10 futhi okukuqinisa ngothando olusha namandla: https://www.freudedeslebens.de/

2. Hunga umuntu ubengakulindele! 🙂

Ukucabanga nje ngakho kungenza ngimamatheke. Abesilisa ikakhulukazi bavame ukuba nenkinga yokubonisa imizwa yabo. Amandla aba namandla lapho isivimbeli siphuka ngokuzumayo. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukubuka ukuthi amadoda amabili "aqinile" ayangana ngokuzumayo! Ngokuzayo uma uhlangana nomuntu omthandayo kusuka ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho, vele umange ngesizotha. Cha “njalo nje”, kumele kusuke enhliziyweni futhi kube nomuzwa. Ngiyazi ukuthi kungathatha umzamo omkhulu empucukweni yethu, okufanele ngempela isinikeze ukudla okucabangayo. Kodwa ngemva kwalokho uzozizwa umkhulu futhi amandla akho azokhanya!

3. Nikeza othile isipho esinengqondo

Uma zingenamibandela, izipho zibonakaliswa ubuhle. Umuntu ucabanga ngawe, othile ukwenzela umzamo, othile ufaka isikhathi kuwe. Emasikweni amaningi, izipho ziwuphawu olubalulekile. Phakathi kwamaNdiya, izipho zinikezwa njalo njengophawu lobungane futhi ukuze wonke umuntu athole okuthile kukho. Angisho noma yini ehlala nje engekho ongayisebenzisa. Kufanele ucabange ngempela, yini umuntu eshodayo njengamanje? Yini ayithandayo, inhliziyo ilele kuphi? Akufanele kube khona “izizathu” zokuthi kungani unikeza okuthile. Hhayi ukuthi "ngikunika lokhu ngoba ungifuna..." kodwa "... ngoba ngifuna uzizwe ujabule futhi uthola okuthile kukho."

4. Tshela umuntu ukuthi wenzani kahle, lapho amakhono akhe alele futhi umkhuthaze emaphusheni akhe

Ngokuqinisekile usuyibonile kakade indlela okuzizwa ngayo lapho othile ekunika amandla ngendlela yesikhuthazo esihle. Izipho ezinjalo zomlomo zingakunika amandla, ugqozi kanye nesibindi esisha sokubhekana nempilo. Kwesinye isikhathi okudingekayo nje ukugudluza kancane ukuze uqale uchungechunge lwemicimbi. Uma ugqugquzela othile emaphusheni akhe, uthola ugqozi olusha lokusebenzisa amathalente akhe, ngokufanelekile ukuze kuzuze wonke umuntu. Ngokwenza lokhu udala i-karma eningi eyakhayo wena nabanye. Ingabe ukhona omaziyo ongasebenzisa isikhuthazo esithile njengamanje? Ungafinyelela kuye bese uthi, "Hhayi, bengifuna ukusho ukuthi wenza umsebenzi omuhle impela. Unekhono elihle futhi kuyajabulisa ukukubona ulisebenzisa. Qhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle! Ngisemva kwakho."

5. Zenzele okuthile okuhle wena nomzimba wakho - konke kubuyela kuwe

Uthando aluhlobene nje nabanye abantu noma yini ngaphandle. Ukuzithanda kuyisici esibalulekile sothando. Yidla ukudla okunempilo, phefumula umoya omusha, vivinya umzimba emvelweni futhi usebenzise imisipha nemisipha yakho. Umzimba wakho wenzelwe wona. Phila njengoba imvelo ihloselwe wena ngangokunokwenzeka. Thatha isikhathi, isikhathi sokuba wedwa, isikhathi sokuphefumula ujule. Ungakwazi ukunikeza kuphela lokho onakho. Ungakwazi ukuthanda abanye amaphesenti ayikhulu kuphela uma nawe uzithanda wena. Thola ibhalansi empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Lahla izinto ezikugulisayo, zicekele phansi i-aura yakho futhi zifiphaze ukwazi kwakho.

6. Tshala imali yakho ezinhlelweni zokuthula nentuthuko esikhundleni sokusebenzisa okungenanjongo

Imali ingamandla angathathi hlangothi. Kusezandleni zethu ukuthi sikuchitha entweni engenamsebenzi noma siyisebenzisela ukusindisa umhlaba. Nginezinhlangano zosizo ezimbalwa ekade ngixhumana nazo futhi engingazincoma ngoba imali iya lapho okufanele iye khona.
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7. Xolisa kubantu oke waxabana nabo

Uma ungakakwenzi. Ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu nakho kungathatha umzamo omkhulu. Ukuvuma icala, ukwamukela iphutha kanye nokufuna ukwenza kangcono. Kodwa kuwuphawu olukhulu lokuhlakanipha, uthando nokuzimisela ukufunda. Inhlonipho kunoma ubani onqoba i-ego yabo futhi ofuna ukufunda emaphutheni abo. Sivamise ukuthwala izingxabano ezindala nathi iminyaka ngeminyaka, amandla angaxazululiwe adala izinkinga nokuvinjwa ngokungazi. Vuka futhi udedele la mandla amadala! Ukuthethelela nokudedela amaphutha kubalulekile ngokufanayo.

8. Ukubekezelelana bukhoma nozwelo - hlonipha imibono yabanye

Wonke umuntu usesimeni sakhe sokwazi. Wonke umuntu ubona umhlaba ngombono ohlukile. Uma sifuna ukudala uthando olwengeziwe emhlabeni, kufanele siphile - lokhu kuhlanganisa ukwamukela nokuhlonipha imibono yabanye. Akudingekile ukuba sikholise wonke umuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi - uma isikhathi silungile, ulwazi luza ngokuzenzakalelayo. Kufanele sihloniphe ukukhetha kwabanye ukuze sifunde isifundo ngendlela enzima kakhulu. Sikhululekile lapho kungasadingeki silandele ukuphoqelelwa ukukholisa abanye! Abaziyo ubukhulu babo bavumela abanye okwabo. Ngiyethemba kakhulu ukuthi ngikwazile ukukukhuthaza ukuthi wakhe uthando oluthe xaxa nokuqwashisa empilweni yakho - ngokwakho, abanye, imvelo kanye noshintsho. NGIYABONGA kakhulu naku-Yannick, ongenze ngakwazi ukushicilela lokhu okuthunyelwe lapha! Ngokubambisana singenza umehluko!
Uma ufuna ukufunda okwengeziwe ngengokomoya, ukuzindla nokuthuthukiswa kokwazi,
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~ UChris wakho ovela kuJoy of Life ~

Isihloko sesivakashi sikaChris Böttcher (injabulo yokuphila)