Lesi sihloko silandela ngokuqondile esihlokweni esedlule mayelana nokuthuthuka okuqhubekayo komqondo wakho (chofoza lapha ukuze uthole isihloko: Dala umqondo omusha - MANJE) futhi ihloselwe ukudonsela ukunaka odabeni olubalulekile ikakhulukazi. Hhayi-ke, kulo mongo kufanele kuphinde kuthiwe kusenesikhathi ukuthi singenza amaphutha amangalisayo esikhathini samanje sokuvuka ngokomoya.

Yiba amandla ofisa ukuwabona

Ngokwenza kanjalo, singathola indlela yethu yokubuyela kithi ngokuqinile kakhulu futhi ngenxa yalokho sivumele iqiniso libonakale elihambisana ngokuphelele nemibono yethu yangempela. Kodwa-ke, ngosuku, kuyadingeka ukuthi ukubonakaliswa okuhambisanayo kushiye indawo yokunethezeka yomuntu siqu, okungukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi sizinqobe ukuze sikwazi ukuphula yonke imingcele esizibekele yona (yini ongayicabanga - usazivimba ngezinga elingakanani?). Akukhona nje ukuthi bathi ukuphila kwangempela kuqala ngale kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka. Esinye isicaphuna esiveza umlingo ohilelekile yilesi: “Uma ufuna ukuthola into ongakaze uhlangabezane nayo, kufanele wenze into ongakaze uyenze”. Ekugcineni, lesi sicaphuni sishaya esikhonkosini, ngoba ngaphakathi kwendawo yethu yokunethezeka, ungase usho phakathi kwezinqubo zethu zansuku zonke nezakhiwo zansuku zonke (ukwazi kwansuku zonke okufingqiwe - okungenani kubambeke lapho sivumela iqiniso libe ngokoqobo nsuku zonke elihambisana nokungagcwaliseki), sihlala sibonisa isimo sempilo sona esisekelwe kulezi zakhiwo zansuku zonke. Ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukuzwa okuthile okusha ngokuphelele, kufanele uqale ngokuzinqoba noma ukusetha imizwa emisha yansuku zonke kuwe ukuze ukwazi ukudala izakhiwo ezintsha ngokuphelele njengomphumela. Ekugcineni, kubonakala kanje: Ukuphila kwethu konke kuwumkhiqizo wemicabango yethu. Yonke into esiyibona ngaphandle ekugcineni imele ukubonakaliswa kwesimo sethu sengqondo.Izwe lonke elingaphandle ngakho-ke limelela isimo sethu sangaphakathi. Ngakho-ke sihlala siheha ezimpilweni zethu lokho esiyikho nesikukhiphayo, okuhambisana nendawo yethu yangaphakathi. Ngenxa yalokho, bonke abantu kanye nazo zonke izimo zokuphila zimelela ukubonakaliswa okuqondile kwezwe lethu langaphakathi.amandla ethu ayisisekelo). Lokhu kusebenza kuyo yonke imisebenzi yethu, noma ngabe umsoco (yemvelo noma engeyona eyemvelo), Ukunyakaza (ngaphezulu noma ngaphansi), Sebenza (ngenjabulo noma ngaphandle kwentokozo, ngokwesifiso sethu esingaphakathi noma cha) njll. Nokho, konke lokhu kubonisa inguqulo yamanje yethu ngakho-ke sihlala sibonakalisa okuhambisana nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwansuku zonke ngaphandle. Ngakho-ke, uma sifuna ukuzwa okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele, khona-ke kufanele senze into ebesingeke siyenze, kufanele sizinqobe ngokuphelele futhi sithathe indlela entsha.

Akukho okushintshayo uze uzishintshe futhi kungazelelwe konke kushintshe..!!

Isibonelo, lapho ngiqala ukuya ehlathini nsuku zonke futhi ngibuye ngiqoqe futhi ngiphuze amakhambi okwelapha nsuku zonke (Nalokho kwangilahlekisela ngokuthile engingakunqoba - phambilini bengikwesaba - ukushoda), kamuva ngakhanga ezinye izimo ekuphileni kwami ​​ezazisekelwe kula mandla noma ezazihambisana nawo (Ubambiswano, ubungane, amathuba amasha mayelana nomsebenzi wami, njll. Ngabonakalisa imvamisa yami entsha/isimo sami esisha somqondo ngaphandle, izimo ezintsha zaba yimiphumela yesimo sami sangaphakathi esishintshile - ngaphandle kokuthi ngikwazile ukumunca amandla. yehlathi nsuku zonke futhi wabuye wabhekana nokwaziswa “Heil” nsuku zonke. lapho umoya womuntu siqu kanye nendawo yeseli kwakuqondiswe “ensindisweni” noma ukuphulukiswa/ubungcwele). Kwakunjalo nangemisebenzi yezemidlalo eyayihlobene ngokuqondile nokuphula indawo yami yokunethezeka. Ekupheleni kosuku kufanele sizibuze into eyodwa: Yini esifuna ukuyithola ngaphandle?! Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukukhombisa isimo esiqinile/esigcwalisekayo, yiba namandla/uzigcwalise futhi wenze izinto ezihambisana naso. Shiya okuthile osekukudala kukukhathaza, isibonelo (uhlelo/ukwakhiwa kwengqondo) futhi kukugcina ungabi namandla/ugcwaliseke (dedela/dedela), okuqeda ukuhlupheka bese kwenzeka izimangaliso. Simane sihehe ezimpilweni zethu lokho esiyikho kanye nalokho esikukhiphayo, lokho okuhambisana namandla ethu ayisisekelo. Lapho sigcwalisa indawo yethu yangaphakathi ngenjabulo nangokukhululeka, yilapho sikhanga kakhulu izimo ezisekelwe ebunganini kanye nokukhululeka ezimpilweni zethu. Unalokhu engqondweni bangane, sebenzisa amandla amanje aqinile futhi uqale ukuveza impilo entsha ngokuphelele esekelwe inala. Izimo ezingcono kakhulu zikhona zalokhu. Yiba amandla ofisa ukuwabona. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana. 🙂

Ukuqeqesha ngakho konke kungamandla - ngizokusiza empilweni yakho ❤