Njengoba ngiye ngasho kaningi ezihlokweni zami, konke ukugula kumane kubangelwa ingqondo yethu, isimo sethu sokwazi. Njengoba ekugcineni yonke into ekhona iwukubonakaliswa kokuqaphela futhi ngaphandle kwalokho siphinde sibe namandla okudala okwazi, singazidalela izifo thina noma sizikhulule ngokuphelele ezifweni/sihlale sinempilo. Ngendlela efanayo, singakwazi futhi ukunquma indlela yethu eyengeziwe ekuphileni ngokwethu, singalolonga ikusasa lethu, siyakwazi ukuguqula iqiniso lethu futhi singadala impilo noma siyibhubhise esimweni esibhubhisayo.
Ukuziphilisa ngokulinganisa
Ngokuphathelene nezifo, lezi zihlale zibangelwa ukulinganisela kwangaphakathi okuphazamisekile. Isimo sokuqaphela esiqondaniswe kabi, okuvela kuso iqiniso elibonakala ngezimo ezingavumelani. Usizi, ukwesaba, ukucindezelwa kanye nemicabango/imizwa engemihle ngokujwayelekile nakho kuphazamisa ukulingana kwethu mayelana nalokhu, kusilahlekisele ekulinganiseni futhi kamuva kukhuthaze ukubonakaliswa kwezifo ezihlukahlukene. Ekugcineni, sichayeka ekucindezelekeni okungekuhle okuhlala njalo, singabi nayo inhlalakahle eyanele ngenxa yalokho bese sivele sakhe isimo somzimba lapho inqwaba yemisebenzi yomzimba iphazamiseka. Amangqamuzana ethu onakalisiwe (imvelo ene-acidic kakhulu yamaseli/ulwazi olubi), i-DNA yethu inethonya elibi futhi amasosha ethu omzimba aba buthaka unomphela (izinkinga zengqondo → ingqondo engahambisani kahle → ukuntula inhlalakahle → akukho bhalansi → okungenzeka kube umphumela wokudla okungezona kwemvelo → okune-acidic + indawo yamangqamuzana ampofu → amasosha omzimba abuthakathaka → ukuthuthukiswa/ukuthuthukiswa kwezifo), okubuye kukhuthaze ukukhula kwezifo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuhlukumezeka kwasebuntwaneni (futhi ukuhlukumezeka empilweni yakamuva), ukuboshwa kwe-karmic (izingxabano ezizimele nabanye abantu) nezinye izifunda ezisekelwe ezingxabanweni ziwubuthi empilweni yethu. Kulo mongo, lezi zinkinga zibuye zigcinwe ekwazini kwethu okuncane bese zifinyelela ukwazi kwethu usuku ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Ukuhlukumezeka kwasebuntwaneni, imithwalo ye-karmic, izingxabano zangaphakathi kanye nokunye ukuvinjelwa kwengqondo, okungenzeka ukuthi besikugunyaza emiqondweni yethu iminyaka engenakubalwa, sithanda njalo ukuthuthukiswa kwezifo..!!
Ngokuqondene nalokhu, ukuntula kwethu ukulinganisela, ukuntula kwethu ukuxhumana kwaphezulu futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuntula kwethu ukuzithanda kucaciswa ngokuphindaphindiwe kithi. Ngakho-ke zonke izingxenye zethu zethunzi zibonisa isiphithiphithi sethu sangaphakathi, izinkinga zethu ezingokwengqondo, ngokunokwenzeka ngisho nezehlakalo zempilo esingenakuqeda ngazo futhi esiqhubeka sihlupheka ngazo.
Isihluthulelo sempilo ephelele
Zonke izingxabano esingeke sikwazi ukuphela ngazo, izingxabano ezifinyelela ngokuphindaphindiwe ekuqapheleni kwethu usuku, kamuva zithwalisa ingqondo yethu / isimiso somzimba / somphefumulo futhi sikhuthaze izifo, kuze kuholele ekubonakalisweni kwezifo ezihlukahlukene ezimweni eziningi. Umdlavuza, isibonelo, uhlala unezimbangela eziyinhloko ezi-2, ngakolunye uhlangothi kungukudla / indlela yokuphila okungekhona okwemvelo, ngakolunye uhlangothi kuwukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi okubusa ingqondo yethu kuqala futhi okwesibili kusilahle ekulinganiseni. Noma kunjalo, yonke into engalingani kulokhu, ifuna ukulingana futhi ukuze ivumelane nendalo. Kufana nenkomishi yetiye eshisayo, uketshezi lulungisa izinga lokushisa kwalo libe ngelenkomishi nendebe ilingane noketshezi, ibhalansi ihlale ifunwa, isimiso esitholakala yonke indawo emvelweni. Ngasikhathi sinye, isimo sokuqonda esilinganiselayo sivuna ikhono lokuphila ngokugcwele lapha namanje.
Isikhathi samanje yisikhathi saphakade ebesilokhu sikhona, esikhona futhi esiyohlala sikhona. Singakwazi ukugeza phambi kwalesi samanje nganoma isiphi isikhathi, noma kuphi, esikhundleni sokudonsa amandla angalungile ekusasa lethu lengqondo + elidlule..!!
Ngale ndlela, umuntu ugeza ebukhoneni baphakade besikhathi samanje futhi akaweli esimweni lapho azivumela ukuba akhungathekiswe izingxabano/izimo ezedlule (icala) noma esaba ikusasa elingakabi khona. Ekugcineni, umuntu angaphinde anciphise impilo ibe yilezi zici ezilandelayo: uthando|ibhalansi|ukukhanya|imvelo|inkululeko, lezi izihluthulelo ezivula yonke iminyango yempilo enempilo nebalulekile. Impilo echumayo esikhundleni sokufa. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
