Ukuzithanda, isihloko abantu abaningi abasabhekene naso njengamanje. Umuntu akufanele afanise ukuzithanda nokuzikhukhumeza, ukuzazisa noma i-narcissism; okuphambene empeleni kunjalo. Ukuzithanda kubalulekile ukuze umuntu achume, ukuze afezeke isimo sokuqaphela lapho kuvela khona iqiniso elihle. Abantu abangazithandi, abanokuzethemba okuncane, Bafaka ubunzima emizimbeni yabo yenyama nsuku zonke, bakha umqondo ongemuhle futhi, ngenxa yalokho, bahehe kuphela izinto ezimpilweni zabo ekugcineni ezingezinhle ngokwemvelo.

Imiphumela ebulalayo yokuntula ukuzithanda

Isazi sefilosofi esidumile saseNdiya u-Osho sasho lokhu okulandelayo: Lapho uzithanda, uthanda labo abaseduze nawe. Uma uzizonda, uzonda abaseduze kwakho. Ubudlelwano bakho nabanye buwumfanekiso wakho kuphela. U-Osho ubeqinisile impela ngalesi sicaphuni. Abantu abangazithandi, noma abangazithandi kangako, ngokuvamile baveza ukunganeliseki kwabo ngokwabo kwabanye abantu. Kuvela ukukhungatheka, okubona ekugcineni kuzo zonke izimo zangaphandle. Kulo mongo, kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda ukuthi umhlaba wangaphandle umane uwukubonakaliswa kwesimo sakho sangaphakathi. Isibonelo, uma unenzondo, udlulisela lesi simo sengqondo sangaphakathi, le nzondo yangaphakathi, ezweni lakho langaphandle. Uqala ukubheka impilo ngeso elibi bese uhlakulela inzondo ngezinto ezingenakubalwa, ngisho nenzondo ngempilo uqobo lwayo.Kodwa le nzondo ibangelwa wena kuphela, iyinkomba ebalulekile yokuthi kuwe Ngisho kukhona okungalungile, ukuthi awuzithandi wena. , bangazithandi futhi mhlawumbe babe nokuncane kakhulu ukuzazi okungokwengqondo. Awunelisekile ngawe, ubona kuphela ububi ezintweni eziningi futhi ngaleyo ndlela uhlale uvaleleke ekudlidlizeni okuphansi. Lokhu kuphinde kubeke ubunzima emqondweni wakho futhi nokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yakho kuyama. Yiqiniso, uhlala ukhula ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, kodwa le nqubo yokukhula ingafika kuma. Abantu abangazithandi bavele bavimbe ukukhula kwabo ngokwengqondo, baphatheke kabi nsuku zonke futhi, ngenxa yalokho, baveze lokhu kunganeliseki kwangaphakathi.

Lokho oyikho, okucabangayo, lokho okuzwayo, okuhambisana nezinkolelo zakho nezinkolelo zakho, uyakhazimula bese uyaheha..!!

Amehlo akho aba buthuntu, ukukhanya kwakho kuyanyamalala futhi abanye abantu babone ukuntula kwakho ukuzithanda. Ekugcineni, uhlale ukhanyisa lokho okucabangayo, lokho okuzwayo nalokho oyikho. Yile ndlela kanye ukusolwa okuvame ukuvela ngayo ngenxa yalokhu kuntuleka kokuzithanda. Ungase usole abanye abantu ngokunganeliseki kwakho, wehluleke ukubheka ngaphakathi, futhi ubeke izinkinga zakho kwabanye abantu kuphela.

Khulula amandla akho futhi uqede ukuhlupheka ozenzele kona. Umqondo wakho wadala lokhu kuphambana futhi umqondo wakho kuphela ongaqeda lokhu kungafani!!

Kuvela izahlulelo futhi umphefumulo womuntu uya ngokuya uncipha. Ekupheleni kosuku, uhlala unesibopho ngempilo yakho. Akekho omunye umuntu onecala ngesimo somuntu, akekho omunye umuntu onecala ngokuhlupheka kwakhe. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, ukuphila sekukonke kuwumkhiqizo wengqondo yomuntu siqu, umcabango womuntu siqu ongokwengqondo. Konke owake wakubona, zonke izenzo, zonke izimo zokuphila, zonke izimo zemizwa, zivele kuphela esimweni sakho sokuqaphela. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu kubalulekile ukuqaphela lokhu futhi. Qonda ukuthi nguwe kuphela onesibopho ngesimo sakho sempilo futhi nguwe kuphela, ngosizo lwengqondo yakho, ongashintsha lesi simo. Kuncike kuphela kuwe kanye namandla emicabango yakho. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.