Ukuthola ukucaciseleka kwengqondo okuphelele kuwumzamo onzima odinga inani elikhulu kakhulu lezimo okufanele kuhlangatshezwane nazo. Indlela yokufeza lo mgomo ivame ukuba namatshe kakhulu, kodwa umuzwa wokucaca kwengqondo muhle ngendlela engachazeki. Ukubona kwakho siqu kufinyelela kubukhulu obusha, isimo sakho sokuqaphela siyaqiniswa futhi ukugula okungokomzwelo, kwengqondo nomzimba/ukuvinjwa kuncibilika ngokuphelele. Kodwa-ke, kuyindlela ende yokufinyelela esimweni sokucaciswa kwengqondo okuphelele futhi kulesi sihloko ngizochaza ngokuqondile indlela yokubeka umgomo onjalo esenzweni.

Ukukhululwa kwengqondo ekuncikeni ngokomzimba

Ukuze kuzuzwe isimo esicace ngokuphelele ngokwengqondo, kuyadingeka ukukhipha ingqondo emzimbeni noma kuhloswe ukukhulula ukwazi komuntu siqu ekuncikeni ngokomzimba, ukuluthwa okusibophezela emzimbeni ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi kunciphise amandla ethu okuzimisela. Noma yimiphi imilutha ezifiphaza ukwahlulela kwethu, zicindezela amakhono ethu engqondo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zibusa isimo sethu sokwazi, zifiphaze isisekelo sethu esinamandla futhi, kulo mongo, zifiphaze ezethu ingqondo. Ungagxili kakhulu, wethuke kakhulu, ungabi nandaba, uphelelwe isineke, ulahlekelwe ubungqabavu futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, unciphise ukuxhumana nempilo yakho. ingqondo. Lokhu kuncika ngokomzimba nakho kuyakwazi ukuguqula ubuntu bomuntu, okubuye kube ngenxa yokuthi umqondo womuntu wokuzazisa uthola ubukhona obuningi ngenxa yalokho. Lo mqondo unesibopho sokukhiqiza konke ukuminyana kwamandla noma lo mqondo unesibopho sokuba semthethweni kwemicabango engemihle engqondweni yomuntu. Lapho umuntu enqotshwa ukulutheka, kulapho ukuxhumana nomqondo wokuzazisa kuba namandla ngalo mqondo. Umphumela uba ukwehliswa okwengeziwe kokudlidliza komuntu siqu, okubuye kube nomthelela ohlala njalo kumthethosisekelo womuntu ongokomzimba nengqondo. Amasosha omzimba womuntu aba buthaka, indawo yamangqamuzana iyawohloka, isimiso senhliziyo nemithambo yegazi sonakalisiwe futhi amathuba okuthola ukugula anda kakhulu. Kulo mongo, ukwehla kwemvamisa yokudlidliza komuntu, isimo sokwazi siba buthuntu ngasikhathi sinye.

Imicabango engemihle ifiphaza isimo sethu somqondo!!!

Esinye isici esinesibopho sokufinyeza isisekelo sakho samandla imicabango yethu. Imicabango imele igunya eliphakeme kunawo wonke elikhona futhi yakha isisekelo esiyisisekelo sempilo yethu. Konke kuvela emicabangweni futhi ngosizo lwemicabango yethu sibumba izimpilo zethu. Lapho i-spectrum yethu yobuhlakani iba ngcono, yilapho isimo sethu sokuqaphela siya sicaca. Ngokombono ongabonakali, imicabango eyakhayo imelela amandla okudlidliza okuphezulu noma ukukhanya okunamandla futhi yandise imvamisa yomuntu yokudlidliza. Imicabango engemihle, yona, ishubisa isisekelo sethu esinamandla, yehlise imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, futhi ifiphaze isimo sethu sokwazi. Ukuze uzuze ukucaca okuphelele kwengqondo, kubalulekile ukwakha iqoqo lemicabango eyakhayo ngokuphelele. Kuphela lapho umuntu esefinyelele isimo esinjalo futhi edonsa iqiniso elihle kulo mkhakha wemicabango emihle, kungenzeka ukuthi afinyelele isimo esicacile ngokwengqondo. Okuxhumene nalokhu, kunjalo, ukunqoba imilutha. Ngokuyisisekelo, ukulutheka kubangelwa imicabango yethu kuphela. Umuntu ubhema ugwayi kuphela ngenxa yokucabanga ugwayi. Yiqiniso, okufanayo kuyasebenza nasekudleni okunciphisa izinga lethu lokudlidliza. Ukudla okusheshayo, amaswidi, ukudla okulula, njll. nakho kudliwa ngenxa nje yomcabango walokho kudla. Lapha kuyadingeka ukuthi uhlele kabusha i-subconscious yakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kwethu Okungatheng zonke ziyizitimela zomcabango ezinesimo, ngokuvamile umuntu ukhuluma ngalokho okubizwa ngokuthi uhlelo. Lokhu kuhlelwa, noma kunalokho lezi zitimela zokucabanga ezigxiliwe, ziphushwa kaningi ekwazini kwethu kwansuku zonke futhi zilindele ukuphila yithi. I-subconscious ayihlukanisi phakathi kwezinhlelo ezingezinhle nezinhle, ibhekana kakhulu nemicabango esiyiphila nsuku zonke. Ngenxa yalokhu, umuntu obhemayo ubhekana kaningi nemicabango kagwayi. Uma umuntu eyeka ukubhema isikhathi eside, kuba ntekenteke kakhulu ukubambelela esenzweni se-subconscious. Ukuze wakhe inqwaba yemicabango eyakhayo, kuyadingeka futhi ukuhlela kabusha okwakho ukuqonda. Imicabango eyakhayo eyengeziwe oyenza ibe semthethweni engqondweni yakho phakathi nosuku, izokhuthaza kakhulu isimo sakho sokwazi.

Umuzwa wokucaca kwengqondo awuchazeki !!!

Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuyeka izikhuthazi ezithile kuyibekela imingcele eqinile izinga lokuphila kwabo. Kukholakala ukuthi ukuzijabulisa kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komuntu futhi kuyadingeka emqondweni womuntu phakathi. Kodwa ekugcineni kubonakala kuhluke kakhulu. Ukuphika okungaguquki kuphushela amandla akho phezulu, kukwenza ucace, kukukhulule emandleni amabi futhi kuqinisekise ukuthi uba nenjabulo enkulu futhi ujabule ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Uzuza ubungqabavu obengeziwe futhi ukwazi ukubhekana nemicabango nemizwa kangcono kakhulu. Umthethosisekelo wakho womzimba nengqondo uba ngcono kakhulu futhi i-spectrum yakho yengqondo iba yinhle kakhulu. Ungabe usuzwa ngempela ukuthi umzimba, ingqondo nomphefumulo kuya ngokuya kuba nokuzwana. Uzizwa uphila kakhudlwana, unamandla ngokwengeziwe, ulinganisela ngokwengeziwe, ungakwazi ukubhekana nezimo, imizwelo nemicabango kangcono kakhulu futhi uthola nokuthakasela okuthakazelisayo. Uma othile egwema kuzo zonke izinto eziluthayo amasonto noma izinyanga, futhi enza ezemidlalo futhi adle ngokwemvelo/ngokunempilo ngokuphelele, abanye abantu bazobonakala njengomuntu ohlukile. I-charisma yakho ibe nomthelela okhangayo kakhulu kwabanye abantu, ikakhulukazi kwabobulili obuhlukile. I Amehlo acwebile, icwebezela ngokoqobo futhi ibonise isimo sengqondo esilinganiselayo, esiphile kahle. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.