Ukuzithanda okuqinile kwakha isisekelo sempilo lapho singagcini nje ngokuthola inala, ukuthula nenjabulo, kodwa futhi siheha izimo ezimpilweni zethu ezingasekelwe ekuntuleni, kodwa ezikhathini eziningi ezihambisana nokuzithanda kwethu. Noma kunjalo, ezweni lanamuhla eliqhutshwa uhlelo, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abanomuzwa onamandla wokuzithanda (Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana nemvelo, cishe noma yiluphi ulwazi ngemvelaphi yomuntu - engazi ngobungqayizivele nobukhethekile bomuntu), ngaphandle kweqiniso lokuthi sidlula ezinqubweni eziyisisekelo zokufunda ngaphakathi kokuzalwa komzimba okungenakubalwa, okuthi ngakho sikwazi ukufinyelela amandla eqiniso okuzithanda futhi ngemva kwesikhathi esithile (inqubo yokuba siphelele).

Susa ukuntula - gxilisa wena ngobuningi

Ukuthi bayanda abantu abasohlelweni lokuphatha isimo sabo somuntu ngenxa yoshintsho oluhlangene oluhlanganisa konke (njengoba kungase kube nzima kwabanye abantu ukucabanga) kanye nokusondela kumvelo yabo yangempela ngokusekelwe ekuzithandeni, kodwa akuhloselwe ukuba ingxenye enkulu yalesi sihloko. Ngingathanda ukugxila kakhulu kumuntu wethu wangempela, ngokusekelwe ebuningini, futhi ngiveze nokubaluleka kwesikhashana kwezakhiwo zethu ze-EGO. Kulo mongo, ngenxa yobuntu obuhlukahlukene be-EGO, thina bantu sivame ukudala iqiniso (lapho sizicwilisa khona ngenxa yezizathu zokuzivikela), okubuye kuvele esimweni sokuqaphela lapho ukuntula ukuzithanda kukhona khona. . Ngenxa yalokho, sisuke siheha izimo ezimpilweni zethu ezingasekelwe phezu kokuchichimayo kodwa ekuntuleni. Ekugcineni, lokhu kubhekisela ezimweni zempilo ezihluke kakhulu esibhekana nazo ngaleso sikhathi futhi ngokuvamile zididaniswa nenala yangempela ngephutha. Isibonelo, singaheha ozakwethu esimweni sokuntula, kodwa-ke kuba ozakwethu bobudlelwano nabo abahlangabezana nezinhlaka zokuntula okuhambisanayo futhi kulokhu basebenzela ukuchuma kwethu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo ngendlela ekhetheke kakhulu. Kuyavunywa, izingxabano ezingaxazululiwe nezinye izakhiwo zivame ukuvela phakathi kobudlelwane, kodwa lokhu kunekhwalithi ehluke ngokuphelele lapho sidonsa umlingani ngenkathi sisondelene kakhulu nemvelo yethu yeqiniso (ngisho noma kunezimo lapho sobabili sihamba ndawonye , sibheke ukugcwala, ukunyathela/inkosi, - Kepha njengoba kwaziwa, okuhlukile kuqinisekisa umthetho).

Ngenkathi ngiqala ukuzithanda ngokweqiniso, ngazikhulula kunoma yini eyayingeyona impilo kimi, ukudla, abantu, izinto, izimo nanoma yini eyayilokhu ingidonsela phansi, kude nami. kodwa manje ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu “ukuzithanda”. - UCharlie Chaplin..!!

Umuntu uhlala edonsa ngokuzenzakalelayo empilweni yakhe lokho abayikho kanye nalokho abakhazimulayo, okuhambisana nemvamisa yabo. Umthetho oyisisekelo ongenakuguqulwa, yebo, empeleni osithinta unomphela ngenxa yekhono lethu lokuzwakala (Yonke into ingamandla, imvamisa, ukudlidliza → umoya).

Ukusondela esimeni sethu sangempela

Njengoba sihamba endleleni eya ekuzithandeni kwethu noma endleleni eya ebuntwini bethu bangempela, siphinde sithintane nabantu abahluke kakhulu nezimo zonkana ezenzweni zomuntu. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sibhekana nobuntu obuhlukahlukene be-EGO endleleni yokuba siphelele, siphinde sihehe izimo zokuphila ezihambisanayo, okungukuthi izimo ezihambisana nesakhiwo sethu sesikhashana se-EGO, esingasoleki neze, ngokuphambene, ngoba njengoba sekushiwo ngenhla Njengoba kushiwo. esigabeni, kungaleso sikhathi kuphela ukuthi sikwazi ukubona izakhiwo ezihambisanayo ngendlela eqondile. Ubuntu obuhambelanayo be-EGO nabo babaluleke kakhulu kulo mongo, ngoba nje basinika umazisi. Kungenjalo, njengoba singaqapheli ubunjalo bethu bangempela (inala, uthando, ubunkulunkulu, imvelo, iqiniso, ukuhlakanipha, ukuthula, njll.), singazizwa silahlekile ngaphakathi (besingeke sibe nenkomba yangempela). Umuntu ohlangabezana nobuntu obuhambisanayo, isibonelo, umuntu okhomba ngokuqinile ngempahla ephathekayo, ngakho-ke udinga lokhu kuhlonza ukuze abe nesakhiwo sesikhashana azokhipha kuso amandla (uma lokhu kukhomba kweneliswa ukutholwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo, lokho kungaba okuhambisana nomuzwa omuhle okwesikhashana). Kodwa-ke, ubuntu obunjalo be-EGO buholela ezinkingeni eziningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngenxa nje yokuthi busekelwe ekusweleni kunenala efana nemvelo yethu yangempela.

Uthando nozwelo yizisekelo zokuthula emhlabeni - kuwo wonke amazinga. – Dalai Lama..!!

Ngokubambisana, isibonelo, awukwazi ukunikeza umlingani wakho inkululeko, noma ubungenza, ngenxa yokungazethembi kwakho (ukuzethemba = ukuzazi wena - ubuyena beqiniso, ngokusekelwe kokuchichima / imvelo, ubunkulunkulu, njll.) kanye nokuma kwempahla (okwangaphambili ngokwesibonelo esishiwo) kuletha zonke izinhlobo zemikhawulo kanye nezinkinga. Ukuntula ukwazi kwabo bobabili abalingani kuzobe sekuhambisana nemizwa engagcwaliseki. Ukuthi bobabili babona la maphethini ndawonye, ​​bakhule ndawonye, ​​bahlukane noma bahlale ngaphakathi kwaleli phethini kuze kube sekupheleni kokuba senyameni kuncike kuwe, ngisho noma izimo ezingcono kakhulu zikhona njengamanje ukuze uphume ebuntwini bakho be-EGO noma ukuqaphela lokhu. amaphethini esimeme.

kwenzeka isimangaliso

Njengoba njengamanje sihamba ngesivinini esikhulu Inkathi yegolide Njengoba siqhubekela kulokhu, futhi ngenxa yalokho, abantu abaningi basondela kakhulu esimeni sabo sangempela, izimo ezihluke ngokuphelele zizovela. Ngokushesha nje lapho usondela emvelweni yakho yeqiniso, yebo, usubonile futhi wasusa izakhiwo eziningi zokuntula futhi usuphokophele ekupheleleni, izimangaliso ziyenzeka ngempela, ngoba lapho-ke siheha izimo zempilo, abalingani namaphethini ezimpilweni zethu. bese kuhambisana nemvelo yethu yeqiniso (imvamisa yemvelo yeqiniso). Khona-ke kuwunala wemvelo lapho ngokuzenzekelayo, ngokusuka ezinhliziyweni zethu, sidonsa lokho okwakuhloselwe imvelo yethu yangempela. Ukuhlangana okuhambisanayo bese kuhambisana namandla ahluke ngokuphelele futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukujula ngenxa yokuvuthwa kwengqondo. Izibopho eziningi zinqanyuliwe futhi ukungabi namibandela kanye nenkululeko iza kuqala. Ubambiswano-ke nalo lubonwa ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Ukuthintwa nokuphulula kuvela ekuvulekeni/ukugcwala kwenhliziyo enamandla futhi kungakwenza, ngendlela ewumlingo, kukwenze uthuthumele ngaphakathi. Ukuxhumana ngokwengqondo kukhanya kakhulu ngamandla, ngoba nje uqaphela (ukuheha) lokhu kuxhumana, okuvela ekugcwaleni kwakho siqu. Le nala yemvelo ibuye ihambisane nokulola zonke izinzwa zethu. Lapho usebenzelana nawe kanye nomhlaba, uba nengqondo kakhulu futhi uthola ukubona okubukhali, ukuzwa, ukuhogela kanye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, nomuzwa.

Indlela eya ekuchichimeni kwemvelo kwenzeka kuyo yonke incarnations futhi ingase ibe namatshe futhi ibe nzima. Ngokufanayo, ayikho indlela evamile wonke umuntu okufanele ayithathe eya enaleni. Ngenxa yobuntu bethu nangenxa yokuthi simelela indlela, iqiniso kanye nempilo uqobo, kubalulekile lapha ukuba sizithole, sizifundise, sithembele endleleni yomuntu siqu kanye nemvelaphi yomuntu. Singabadali beqiniso lethu futhi sisebenza ngezihloko ezihlukene ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke izindlela zethu zihluke ngokuphelele futhi wonke umuntu udinga izifiso zakhe eziyingqayizivele, ngisho noma, ekupheleni kosuku, ziholela egunyeni elifanayo, okungukuthi esimweni sangempela saphezulu..!!

Amandla akho anamandla engqondo akuvumela ukuthi uqonde ukuthi yonke into inencazelo yayo nokuthi uhlala usendaweni efanele futhi usendaweni efanele. Ngokuhambisana nalokhu, nathi senza kakhulu ngokusuka ezinhliziyweni zethu futhi sizizwele ubuwena esifunde ukumthanda kuzo zonke izici zaso. Yebo, ngenxa yesimo sethu sangempela, ngenxa yobuningi obuhambisana nakho, siphinde sibe nokuzithanda okuqinile ngesikhathi esifanayo. Futhi ngenxa yezikhathi zamanje ezinamandla kakhulu, sonke singaya ngokuya esimeni esihambelanayo. Ikakhulukazi lapho sivumela izinhliziyo zethu ukuba zivuleke futhi zizinikele ekuvukeni okungokomoya/komoya. Kuyobe sekwenzeka izimangaliso. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana. 🙂

Ngijabule nganoma yikuphi ukwesekwa 🙂