I-subconscious ingxenye enkulu futhi efihleke kakhulu yengqondo yethu. Izinhlelo zethu, okungukuthi izinkolelo, izinkolelo kanye neminye imibono ebalulekile ngempilo, igxile kukho. Ngalesi sizathu, i-subconscious nayo iyisici esikhethekile somuntu ngoba inesibopho sokudala iqiniso lethu. Njengoba ngike ngasho kaningi emibhalweni yami, yonke impilo yomuntu ekugcineni iwumkhiqizo wengqondo yakhe, umcabango wakhe wengqondo. Lapha sithanda ukukhuluma ngokuqagela okungabonakali komqondo wethu. Kodwa-ke, umoya awugcini nje ngokuhlanganisa ukwazi kwethu, kodwa umoya ekugcineni usho ukusebenzisana okuyinkimbinkimbi kokuqaphela kanye nokunganaki okuvela kukho konke okungokoqobo kwethu.
Hlela kabusha i-subconscious
Sisebenzisa ukwazi nsuku zonke njengethuluzi lokubumba izimpilo zethu. Ngenxa yalokhu, singakwazi ukwenza izinto ngendlela esizinqumela ngayo futhi sizikhethele ukuthi yimiphi imicabango esiyenza ibe semthethweni ezingqondweni zethu futhi esingakwenzi. Singazikhethela ukuthi sihlela kanjani ikusasa lethu, ukuthi iyiphi indlela esizoyithatha esikhathini esizayo, esasicabanga ukuthi sizoyiqaphela ezingeni lezinto ezibonakalayo, singalolonga ngokukhululekile indlela yethu yekusasa ekuphileni futhi sidale impilo ehambelana ngokuphelele neyethu. imibono. Noma kunjalo, ukuqonda kwethu siqu nakho kugeleza kulo mklamo. Eqinisweni, i-subconscious ibalulekile ekudaleni iqiniso elilungile ngokuphelele ngokwemvelo. Kulo mongo, ukuqonda kwethu kungase kufaniswe nekhompyutha eyinkimbinkimbi lapho kufakwa khona zonke izinhlobo zezinhlelo. Lezi zinhlelo nazo zingalinganiswa nezinkolelo, izinkolelo, imibono ngempilo, isimo esijwayelekile kanye nokwesaba nokuphoqeleka. Lolu hlelo luhlala lufinyelela ukwazi kwethu kwansuku zonke futhi lube nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwethu.
Isiqondiso somqondo wethu siqu sinquma ukuphila kwethu. Ikakhulukazi, izinkolelo ezidalwe wena, izinkolelo kanye nemibono ngempilo nakho kunquma ukuqhubeka kwempilo yethu..!!
Inkinga ngalokhu ukuthi i-subconscious yabantu abaningi igcwele izinhlelo ezingezinhle ngakho-ke kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi thina bantu sidale impilo ebonakala ngokuziphatha okungekuhle. Mayelana nalokhu, ngokuvamile izinkolelo nezinkolelo zangaphakathi ezisekelwe ekwesabeni, enzondweni noma ekulimazeni. Lezi zinkolelo, izimo zengqondo nezinkolelo ngokuvamile zibukeka kanje:
- angikwazi ukukwenza lokho
- lokho akusebenzi
- Angilungile ngokwanele
- ich bin nicht schon
- Kuzomele ngikwenze lokhu kungenjalo kuzongehlelwa amashwa
- Ngiyakufuna/ngiyakudinga lokhu kungenjalo ngeke ngizizwe kahle/ngaphandle kwalokho anginalutho
- Angizange
- akazi lutho
- uyisilima
- Anginandaba nemvelo
- impilo imbi
- Ngihlushwa amabhadi
- abanye bayangizonda
- Ngiyabazonda abanye abantu
Ekugcineni, zonke lezi yizimo zengqondo nezinkolelo ezingezinhle ezakha iqiniso elibi elingagcini nje ngokulimaza thina, kodwa lingalimaza nalabo abasizungezile. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, kubonakala sengathi ingqondo yethu isebenza njengozibuthe onamandla, idonsela ekuphileni kwethu konke ehambisana nakho. Isibonelo, uma uqiniseka ukuthi unebhadi futhi kwenzeka izinto ezimbi kuphela kuwe, khona-ke lokhu kuzoqhubeka kwenzeka. Hhayi ngoba impilo noma indawo yonke inombono ongemuhle ngawe, kodwa ngoba wena ngokwakho udala impilo esekelwe emibonweni yakho mayelana nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile okunjalo kukhangwa ngokuzenzakalelayo. Konke kuncike ekuqondeni kwesimo sethu sokwazi futhi lokhu kungashintsha kuphela uma sibuyekeza izinkolelo zethu nezinkolelo zethu ngempilo bese sizishintsha. Ngokwesibonelo, eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngaphambi kokuba ngihlangane nezinto ezingokomoya, ngangingumuntu onokwahlulela futhi ozeyisa kakhulu. Lesi simo sengqondo sokwehlisa izinga kwabanye abantu sasiyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yami, ngingumuntu onganakile, ngakho ngahlulela ngokuzenzakalelayo yonke into nawo wonke umuntu owawungahambisani nowami umbono wezwe. Kodwa-ke kwafika usuku lapho, ngenxa yokwanda okunamandla kokuqaphela, ngathola ukuqaphela ukuthi mina ngokwami anginalo ilungelo lokwahlulela izimpilo zabanye abantu noma imihlaba yabo yokucabanga. Ngokokuqala ngqá ekuphileni kwami ngabona ukuthi isimo sami sengqondo sasinecala futhi sasingalungile kangakanani futhi ngaqala ukwakha umbono omusha, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ongenakwahlulela ngempilo.
Ulwazi lwami ngaleso sikhathi lwashiswa ekwazini kwami futhi ngenxa yalokho ngathola, ngokokuqala ngqa, ukuhlelwa kabusha kokungazi kwami..!!
Ezinsukwini ezalandela, lolu lwazi olusha lwavutha ekwazini kwami futhi njalo lapho ngizahlulela mina noma abanye abantu, ngangiwumisa ngokushesha lo mdlalo, okungenani ngokwezahlulelo zami. Ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa, ngase ngihlele kabusha ingqondo yami kangangokuthi ngangingasahluleli izimpilo zabanye abantu noma imicabango yabo. Ngalahla izimo zengqondo zami ezimbi zangaphambili ngase ngizakhela impilo entsha, impilo engavele ngayeka ukwahlulela abanye abantu kodwa ngaqhubeka nokuhlonipha nokwazisa izimpilo zabanye abantu.
Ukuphila okuhle kungavela kuphela emqondweni oqondile, umqondo ongasathonywa izinkolelo nezinkolelo ezingezinhle..!!
Ekugcineni, lokhu futhi kuyisihluthulelo sokuthola impilo enhle. Kumayelana nokubukeza izinkolelo zethu ezingezinhle, izinkolelo kanye nemibono yethu ngempilo, sikubone bese sakhe isisekelo lapho kuvela khona iqiniso elihle kuphela. Imayelana nokuhlela kabusha ukwazi kwethu futhi noma ubani oyingcweti lobu buciko, ekugcineni, angakwazi ukudala impilo abazuza kuyo kakhulu kanye nalabo abaseduze nabo. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
