Ezweni lanamuhla, abantu abaningi bayakungabaza ukugcwaliseka kwamaphupho abo, bangabaza amakhono abo engqondo futhi, ngenxa yalokho, bavimbele ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo sokuqaphela okuhle. Ngenxa yezinkolelo ezingezinhle ezizibekela zona, ezibuye zigxile ekungazini kahle, okungukuthi izinkolelo/izinkolelo ezinjengokuthi: “Angikwazi ukwenza lokhu,” “lokho ngeke kusebenze noma kunjalo,” “lokho ngeke kwenzeke,” "Angiqondile ukwenza lokho." ", "Ngeke ngiphumelele", siyazivimba, bese sizivimbela ekufezeni amaphupho ethu, siqinisekise ukuthi ukuthi sizivumela ukuba sibuswe ukungabaza kwethu bese singasebenzisi amandla ethu okudala aphelele.

Ungalokothi uzingabaze

Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuthi siphinde siziqaphele futhi singabe sisavumela ukuvinjwa izakhiwo zethu zengqondo ezingezinhle. Ukuphila kwakuklanyelwe ukudala izinto ezinhle, ukujabula, ukucindezela imingcele yethu futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukudala iqiniso elihambisana ngokuphelele nemibono yethu. Thina bantu singabadali bezimpilo zethu futhi sizilimaza thina kuphela uma sima unomphela endleleni yenqubo yemvelo yokuchuma, lapho sizigcina unomphela sibambeke emaphethini okuphila aqinile, abuye ahambisane nokwesaba nokungabaza. Yebo, okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile, imicabango nezenzo nazo zinendawo yazo. Yebo, izingxenye zethunzi kanye “nezimo zempilo ezimnyama” nazo zinokubaluleka kwazo.” Okokuqala, zisibonisa lokho okungahambi kahle ezimpilweni zethu, okwesibili, zisebenza kithi njengothisha abagcina befuna ukusifundisa isifundo esibalulekile, futhi okwesithathu, zisibonisa okwethu ukuntuleka kokuxhumana okungokomoya + okungokomoya futhi, okwesine, kuvame ukuba ngabaqalisi abanamandla esingakwazi ukuqala ngazo ukushintsha okubalulekile ezimpilweni zethu. Isazi-mlando saseBrithani nomdlali we-chess uHenry Thomas Buckle sathi: “Labo abangabuboni ubumnyama abasoze bakufuna ukukhanya.” Ikakhulukazi ezikhathini ezimnyama kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu, ikakhulukazi silangazelela ukukhanya, uthando futhi siza namasu ahlakaniphile ukuze sikwazi ukudala isimo sokuqaphela lapho ukukhanya nothando kukhona khona futhi. Singathola inzuzo enkulu ebunzimeni bethu, ngemuva kwalokho sibe nobuhlakani obukhulu futhi singakwazi nokuqala izinguquko ezibalulekile, ngokunokwenzeka senze izinqumo ezibalulekile ebesingeke sikulungele ukuzenza.

Imikhawulo ihlale iphakama engqondweni yakho, igcinwa ekungazini kwakho ngendlela yezinkolelo nezinkolelo ezingezinhle futhi ngenxa yalokho ihlale ikuthwalisa kanzima ukwazi kwakho kwansuku zonke..!!

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ungalokothi uvumele noma ubani ukuthi akutshele ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza okuthile noma ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza okuthile. Ungalokothi uvumele imikhawulo yabanye abantu abazibekele yona ikhawulele izenzo zakho bese uqala ukwenza obukade ufuna ukukwenza. Ayikho imingcele kulo mongo, kuphela imingcele esizibekela yona thina. Konke kuncike ekuqondeni kwengqondo yethu, ezinkolelweni zethu nasezinkolelweni zethu. Amandla okubona wonke amaphupho akho ajule phakathi kwawo wonke umuntu futhi kuncike kuphela kuwena ukuthi uyalisebenzisa yini leli khono noma uliyeke lingasetshenziswa.

Ungumdali onamandla wempilo yakho, ungenza ngokuzimela futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzikhethele ukuthi yimiphi imicabango nemizwa oyigunyaza engqondweni yakho nokuthi yini engekho..!!

Ungumdali weqiniso lakho siqu, ungumqambi wekusasa lakho nokuthi yini engenzeka ngokuzayo, inkambo eyengeziwe yempilo yakho, incike kulokho okwenzayo, ozizwayo kanye nokucabangayo namuhla. Ngakho-ke, zilungise futhi uqale ukuzibona ngokugcwele. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.