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Njengoba kushiwo kaningi emibhalweni yami, akukho okwenzeka ngengozi. Njengoba zonke izimo zingokomoya ngokwemvelo futhi zivela nasemqondweni, kulandela ukuthi ingqondo nayo iyimbangela yazo zonke izimo. Kuyafana nempilo yethu, okuthi ekupheleni kosuku ingabi umkhiqizo ongahleliwe, kodwa umphumela womoya wethu wokudala. Thina njengomthombo, lapho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kuzalwa khona, kunesibopho sezimo zethu zempilo (futhi yebo, kunezimo zempilo ezibucayi ezingenza kube nzima ukuqonda lesi simiso, kodwa ngisho nezimo ezibucayi zingalandelelwa emuva ohlelweni lwethu lomphefumulo futhi nazo esibhekana nayo emiqondweni yethu futhi sizalwe).

Yonke into inesizathu esikhethekile

Yonke into inesizathu esikhethekileNokho, izehlakalo zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi zizenzekele uma ungakwazi ukukuchazela, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi konke ukuhlangana kunencazelo ethile nencazelo efanayo. Akukho okwenzeka ngengozi futhi ngisho nezimo ezibonakala “zincane” zibonisa okuthile ngathi futhi zifuna ukudonsela ukunaka kwethu kokuthile. Kungase futhi kube nezinhlobonhlobo eziningi zokuhlangana. Isibonelo, ukuhlangana okuhlukahlukene nabantu, isibonelo, lapho uhlangana nomuntu ojwayelene naye ngemuva kweminyaka, noma ukuhlangana kwabantu kwansuku zonke. Izindlela zabantu ababili aziweli ngenhlanhla, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuhlangana kungase kubonakale kungasho lutho noma kwansuku zonke kangakanani (lesi sisho singasebenza kunoma yini, ngisho nasezindaweni ezithile). Kungokufanayo nangezilwane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ifika ekusebenzelaneni okuhambisanayo, noma ezilwaneni, ezivame ukungena emibonweni yethu, incazelo ingahlala iqanjwa ngakho, ngisho noma ingase ingabonakali kithi ngezikhathi ezifanele (njengoba singabadali bendawo yethu yangaphakathi. ukuthi, thina kuphela esingakwazi ukuveza izizathu ezihambisanayo noma uhlobo olukhethekile lokuhlangana - singakwenza lokho, kodwa akudingeki - singakwazi ukuhumusha izimo ngendlela enembile, sizihlaziye ngokunengqondo noma singazinaki ngokuphelele - konke wazalelwa kithi). Izilwane ezivame ukufika embonweni womuntu zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi izilwane ezinamandla futhi lezi zilwane ezinamandla zikhomba izici zendawo yomuntu yangaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyazi noma engazi (izilwane zibe zifanekisela izici ezigcwalisekile noma ezingagcwaliseki). Yiqiniso, leli qiniso ngokuvamile alinakwa. Njengaku ividiyo yami yakamuva mayelana nenkulumo yakho yokudala wachaza, umhlaba unohlaziyo kakhulu, ungokwesayensi futhi ugxile ku-EGO (amabhondi “omlingo” kanye nemiphumela ayinikezwa indawo futhi ngenxa yalokho umcabango wethu unomkhawulo), yingakho okukhethekile noma ngisho nezizathu zokuhlangana okuhambisanayo kumenyezelwa ukuthi zingabalulekanga futhi zingabi nasisekelo. Umlingo ongekho emiqondweni yethu kuphela, kodwa futhi ezingeni elihlangene lolwazi/ngokwengqondo futhi oxhumanisa ubukhona bonke, ungabanjwa ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Ukuba ngaphansi kwengozi kuqala lapho ufuna ingxenye yakho ngaphandle. - Senza..!!

Nokho, okokugcina, lesi simiso sencazelo singasetshenziswa kunoma yisiphi isimo. Kulo mongo, inhlanganisela yezinombolo ezihlukahlukene kanye namapheya kufanele kugqanyiswe ngokukhethekile, ngoba abantu abaningi bavame ukubona izinombolo ezihambisanayo ngezinsuku ezihlukene, isibonelo, babheka iwashi ledijithali futhi babone isikhathi: 19:19 p.m., ikakhulukazi ngokuphindaphindiwe. Phela, abantu abaningi babika isipiliyoni esinjalo (nami ngiye ngabhekana nalokhu kaningi - ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa namaviki ambalwa - ngicabanga ukuthi kusemfashinini okwamanje. izikhathi zamandla aphezulu isenzakalo esingabonakala kakhulu). Ekugcineni, lokhu akwenzeki ngenhlanhla futhi izinombolo ezihambisanayo bese zidonsela ukunaka kwethu kokuthile. Ikhasi wirsindeins.org ichaza kanje:

"Akukho ukuhlangana! Ngokushesha nje lapho siqaphela inhlanganisela yezinombolo ezifana no-11:11, 11:10, 11:12 noma 11:11:11, 11.11.1, kungaba izinombolo zedijithali zewashi likagesi, izinombolo zocingo, izinombolo zezinombolo noma iyiphi enye indawo, lokhu AKUKHO ukuqondana. Inhlanganisela yezinombolo ezishiwo ziyizinkomba ezinamandla kakhulu zomlayezo ovela emhlabeni kamoya.”

Lezi zinombolo zinikezwa nezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene (Ngizobhala nendatshana ehlukene ngakho - uma senginaso isithombe esiphelele sezincazelo ezihambisanayo - kukhona nokufunda okujabulisayo engizokuthenga.). Ekupheleni kosuku, kujabulisa kakhulu lapho ungathola okuhlangenwe nakho okuhambisanayo ngokwakho futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uqaphele futhi uzwe incazelo noma, ngamanye amazwi, umlingo wokuhlangana, ikakhulukazi maqondana nempilo/indalo yakho. Yebo, into efana nalena akumele yenzeke ngokungahleliwe, okungukuthi akufanele sikhathazeke ngokuhlangana okunjalo futhi sizame ukukhomba noma yisiphi isizathu kukho. Kunjalo, ungakwenza lokho nawe (bonke bangokuhlangenwe nakho) noma uthole ngezimo ezithile kamuva (lokho okwenzeka kimi kanye lapho ngibhekene nezinhlobo zezilwane ezifanayo ngaphakathi kombono wami ngokuphindaphindiwe amasonto aba) . Noma kunjalo, kimina lokhu kubhekisela ekuziphatheni okuphoqelekile okumsulwa. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana. 🙂

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