Yonke into eyake yenzeka endaweni enkulukazi yayinesizathu. Akukho okushiywe ngengozi. Nokho, thina bantu sivame ukucabanga ukuthi izinto zenzeka ngengozi, ukuthi ukuhlangana nezimo ezithile ekuphileni kwethu zavela ngengozi, ukuthi asikho isizathu esihambisanayo sezenzakalo ezithile zokuphila. Kodwa akukho ukuqondana, ngokuphambene nalokho, konke okwenzekile, okwenzekayo futhi okuzokwenzeka empilweni yomuntu kunencazelo ekhethekile futhi akukho lutho, akukho lutho olungaphansi "kwesimiso senhlanhla" esibonakala sikhona.
Ukuziqondanela nje, umgomo nje womqondo we-3-dimensional
Ngokuyisisekelo, ukungahleliwe kuwumgomo nje olethwe ingqondo yethu ephansi, enezinhlangothi ezi-3. Lo mqondo ubhekene nakho konke ukucabanga okungalungile futhi ekugcineni uholela kithina bantu ukuthi sizigcine sivalelwe ekungazini okuzenzela thina. Lokhu kungazi kuhlobene ngokuyinhloko nolwazi oluphakeme, olubuye lusinike ngokusebenzisa kwethu ingqondo enembile singanikezwa unomphela, ulwazi oluvela emkhathini ongabonakali futhi olutholakala phakade kithi. Ngokwenza kanjalo, sicabanga ekwakhiweni kwenhlanhla ngokushesha nje lapho kwenzeka okuthile esingakwazi ukuzichaza thina, isibonelo isimo esingasiqondi, isenzakalo esingakakwazi ukusiqonda isizathu saso futhi yingakho kubhale njengokuqondana. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi azikho ukuqondana. Impilo yomuntu yonke, yonke into eyake yenzeka, yayinesizathu esiqondile, imbangela ehambisana nayo. Lokhu kuphinde kuhlotshaniswe nomgomo wembangela nomphumela, othi wonke umphumela unembangela ehambisanayo nokuthi yonke imbangela ikhiqiza umphumela. Phela awukho umphumela ongavela ngaphandle kwesizathu esihambisanayo, ingasaphathwa eyenzeke. Lona umthetho ongenakuguqulwa obulokhu uthinta izimpilo zethu kusukela ekuqaleni kokuba khona kwethu. Konke ukwenzeka kunesizathu, futhi leso sizathu savela ngenxa yesizathu. Ezimweni eziningi ngisho uyisizathu salokhu. Konke okwenzeke kuwe empilweni, impilo yakho yonke ingalandelelwa emuva emicabangweni yakho. Ukwazi kanye nezinqubo zokucabanga eziwumphumela zimelela igunya eliphakeme kakhulu elikhona, umuntu angaphinde akhulume ngegunya lokuqala, ngoba zonke izenzo umuntu azenzile futhi azozenza empilweni yakhe zingafezeka kuphela ngesisekelo semicabango yesenzo esihambisanayo. .
Imbangela yanoma yimuphi umphumela, imicabango yethu!
Uma ubheka emuva kuyo yonke impilo yakho, zonke izinqumo ozenzile, wonke umcimbi owanquma ngawo, zonke izindlela ozihambile zazihlala ziyimiphumela yemicabango yakho. Uhlangana nomngane, khona-ke ngenxa yomcabango wokuhamba ngezinyawo, khona-ke ngenxa yokuthi uqale wacabanga ukuhamba futhi waqaphela umcabango ngokwenza isenzo. Yilokho okukhethekile ngempilo, akukho okwenzeka ngenhlanhla, yonke into ihlale iphuma emicabangweni. Konke owake wakwenza empilweni yakho kwavela kuqala emcabangweni wakho. Wena noma ukwazi kwakho bekuyimbangela yalokho okwenzeka kuwe empilweni. Unqume ukubeka umcabango esenzweni futhi nguwe kuphela onesibopho semizwa oyizwayo nsuku zonke. Uzizwa kabi, khona-ke ngoba wena ngokwakho unoboya emcabangweni oye waphila ngomuzwa ongemuhle. Kodwa ungazikhethela ukuthi uvumela imicabango engalungile noma eyakhayo engqondweni yakho. Uhlale unesibopho salokho okunqumayo empilweni nokuthi imiphi imicabango oyisebenzisayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, impilo yakho yonke isivele inqunywe kusengaphambili ngendlela ethile. Yonke imicabango umuntu angayiveza engqondweni yakhe isikhona kakade, igxiliswe echibini elingapheli lolwazi olusengqondweni. Ungakhetha ukuthi yisiphi isitimela somcabango ofuna ukusidala/ukuthwebula futhi. Uma ucabanga ngento entsha ngokuphelele, khona-ke lowo mcabango usuvele ukhona, umehluko nje ukuthi ukwazi kwakho bekungakaze kuhambisane nemvamisa yomcabango. Umuntu angaphinde akhulume ngomcabango angakaze awuqaphele ngaphambili. Lesi simo siphinde sisho ukuthi singazithathela isiphetho sethu. Singazikhethela ukuthi siyilolonga kanjani impilo yethu yamanje nokuthi sikwenzani ngayo. Singabadali benjabulo yethu futhi isimo esisiqaphelayo ohlelweni ukuthi esikukhethayo ekugcineni yilokho okufanele kwenzeke hhayi okunye.
Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuzuzisa kakhulu ukuphila kwethu siqu ukwakha umbono omuhle ngokwengqondo, ngoba lena yiyona ndlela kuphela ukuthi iqiniso elihle lingavela kule micabango emihle, iqiniso lapho umuntu eqaphela khona ukuthi akukho ukuqondana, kodwa wena uqobo uyisizathu salokho okwenzeka kuwe. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
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