Ukuze uzuze ingqondo ecacile futhi ekhululekile, kubalulekile ukuzikhulula ekubandlululweni kwakho. Wonke umuntu ubhekana nokucwasa ngandlela thize ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe futhi umphumela walokhu kubandlulula ezikhathini eziningi kuyinzondo, ukubandlululwa okwamukelekayo kanye nezingxabano eziwumphumela. Kepha ukucwasa akusizi ngalutho; ngokuphambene nalokho, ubandlululo lukhawulela ukwazi kwakho futhi kulimaze umzimba wakho. kanye nesimo sengqondo. Ukucwasa kwenza kube semthethweni inzondo engqondweni yomuntu futhi kunciphisa ubuntu babanye abantu bube buncane.

Ubandlululo lunciphisa amandla engqondo yomuntu

Ubandlululo lunciphisa ukwazi komuntu futhi yiyo kanye indlela enganciphisa ngayo ingqondo yami eminyakeni eminingi edlule. Eminyakeni eminingi edlule ngangingumuntu ogcwele ubandlululo. Ngaleso sikhathi, kwakunzima kimina ukubheka ngale kwemibono yami futhi ngangingakwazi ukubhekana ngokufanele noma ngaphandle kokucwasa ngezihloko ezithile noma imibono yabanye abantu eyayingahambisani nombono wami wezwe onesimo. Ukuphila kwami ​​kwansuku zonke kwakuhambisana nobuthuntu bokwahlulela kanye nokuzilimaza ngokwengqondo futhi ngenxa yomqondo wami wokuzazisa osuthuthuke kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi, angikwazanga ukubona lolu hlelo lokukhawulela. Kodwa ngolunye usuku lokhu kwashintsha ngoba kungazelelwe ngathola ukuqonda ngobusuku obubodwa ukuthi akulungile ukwahlulela ngokumpumpuzela izimpilo zabanye abantu, ukuthi awunalo ilungelo lokwenza kanjalo; lokhu ekugcineni kudala inzondo kanye nokukhishwa ngaphandle okwamukelekayo ngaphakathi kwabanye abantu abacabangayo. Esikhundleni sokwahlulela, kufanele usebenzelane ngendlela efanele nomuntu noma isihloko okukhulunywa ngaso; kufanele usebenzise amakhono akho okuzwela esikhundleni sokugcona abanye ngokuziphatha nezenzo zabo.

Ngenxa yalezi zimo zengqondo ezintsha, ngakwazi ukukhulula ukwazi kwami ​​futhi ngibhekane ngaphandle kokubandlulula ngolwazi ngaphambili olwalubonakala luyinto engaqondakali futhi engelona iqiniso kimi. Imibono yami yobuhlakani yayivame ukulinganiselwa kakhulu, ngoba yonke into eyayingahambisani nombono wami wezwe engiwuzuze njengefa kanye nemibandela yayihlekwa ngokungenaluzwela futhi ibhalwe njengokuwumbudane noma okungalungile. Nokho, ngenhlanhla lokhu kushintshile ngokuphazima kweso futhi namuhla ngiyaqaphela ukuthi ukwahlulela kuwumphumela wokungazi, kwengqondo yomuntu siqu ephansi. Lo mqondo wokuzazisa, obuye ubizwe ngokuthi yi-supra-causal mind, uyindlela yokuvikela ngokomoya esanikezwa thina bantu ukuze sikwazi ukuzwa umhlaba okabili. Lo mqondo ubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukuzwa ukwehlukana kokuhlangana okungcwele okusendaweni yonke. Ngaphandle kwalo mqondo besingeke sikwazi ukuzwa izici eziphansi zempilo futhi ngeke sikwazi ukubona lokhu kwakha, ingasaphathwa eyokuhlomula kukho.

Zombili izinhlangothi zohlamvu lwemali olufanayo zibalulekile

Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ube nezinto eziphikisanayo empilweni, ukuthi ubhekane nezinhlangothi zombili zohlamvu lwemali esikhundleni sokukodwa nje. Isibonelo, umuntu angaqonda kanjani ukuthi ukwahlulela kukhawula ingqondo yomuntu uma ukwahlulela bekungekho? Umuntu angaluqonda futhi alwazise kanjani uthando uma, ngokwesibonelo, bekunothando kuphela?

Kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ufunde isigxobo esibi sesici ukuze ukwazi ukuzwa noma ukwazisa isigxobo esihle futhi ngokuphambene nalokho (Umgomo we-polarity nobulili). Ngaphandle kweqiniso lokuthi ubandlululo lukhawulela ukwazi kwethu, lulimaza nomthethosisekelo wethu ongokomzimba nongokwengqondo. Ekugcineni, ekujuleni, yonke into ekhona iqukethe izimo ezinamandla kuphela, zamandla adlidliza ngamaza. Kufana ncamashi nazo zonke izimo zempahla. I-matter ekugcineni iwukwakha nje okungelona iqiniso, amandla afingqiwe kakhulu anezinga lokudlidliza elicinene elinamandla kangangokuba libonakale kithi njengento ebalulekile. Umuntu angaphinde akhulume ngamandla ajiyile azulazula ngefrikhwensi ephansi. Njengoba umuntu kukho konke ukugcwala kwakhe (okungokoqobo, ukwazi, umzimba, amagama, njll.) kuqukethe kuphela izimo ezinomdlandla, kunenzuzo empilweni yomuntu ukuba ibe nezinga lokudlidliza elikhanyayo. Ukungalungi kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo amandla aminyene/aminyene futhi ukubukeka kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo kususwe ukuminyana/amandla okukhanya.

Ukungaboni kahle amandla afingqiwe

Uma isimo sakho somdlandla siminyene, kulapho usengozini enkulu yokugula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ngoba umzimba ominyene onamandla wenza buthaka kakhulu amasosha omzimba. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukugqugquzela impilo yakho kakhulu ngamandla amahle/okudlidliza okuphezulu. Lokhu kungafezwa ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi enye indlela yokufeza lokhu ukubona bese uqeda ubandlululo lwakho.

Lapho nje wehlulela okuthile, kungaba ngumuntu noma lokho umuntu akushilo, udala ukuminyana okunamandla futhi unciphise amakhono akho engqondo. Bese unciphisa izinga lakho lokudlidliza elinamandla ngokusekelwe ekwahluleleni. Kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho ususa ukwahlulela ku-bud futhi wamukela abanye abantu ngobunjalo babo obuphelele njengoba benjalo, uma uhlonipha, uhlonipha futhi ukwazisa ukuhluka kwawo wonke umuntu, ngibe sengiqeda lo mthwalo ozibeke wona kanye nonciphisa ukwazi. Khona-ke awusatholi ukugxeka kulezi zimo zansuku zonke, kodwa kunalokho ukuzuza. Awusahluleli impilo yomunye umuntu, kodwa kunalokho uhlonipha umbono wakhe futhi awusazikhathazi ngemiphumela engemihle yesahlulelo. Ngisho ukuthi, kungani umuntu kufanele abheke enye impilo njengento encane noma ahlulele? Wonke umuntu oyedwa unendaba ethokozisayo futhi kufanele yaziswe ngokugcwele ngobuntu bakhe. Ekugcineni, uma sihlonipha ngokuphelele ubuntu bethu, sonke siyefana, ngoba sonke siqukethe umthombo ofanayo onamandla. Umuntu kufanele alihloniphe ngokugcwele iqiniso lezinye izidalwa eziphilayo, akukhathaliseki ukuthi umuntu wenzani empilweni yakhe, imuphi ubulili anabo, ukholo analo enhliziyweni yakhe, iyiphi inkolo ayenzayo nokuthi imiphi imicabango anayo kweyakhe. ingqondo yenziwe ibe semthethweni. Sonke singabantu, abafowethu nodadewethu, umndeni owodwa omkhulu futhi iyona kanye indlela okufanele sonke siziphathe ngayo, sibonana njengengxenye ebalulekile yempilo yethu.