Njengoba kushiwo izikhathi eziningana ezihlokweni zami, imicabango yakho kanye nemizwelo yakho igeleza esimweni sokuqoqa ulwazi futhi siyiguqule. Wonke umuntu oyedwa angakwazi ngisho nokuba nomthelela omkhulu esimweni esihlangene sokuqaphela futhi kulokhu futhi aqalise izinguquko ezinkulu. Noma yini esiyicabangayo kulo mongo, nayo ehambisana nezinkolelo nezinkolelo zethu, ngakho-ke njalo kubonakala kuqoqo futhi ngenxa yalokho futhi siyingxenye yeqiniso elihlangene.

Ushintsho esimweni sokuqoqa ulwazi

Ekugcineni, ithonya elikhulu esingalisebenzisa lihlobene nezinto eziningi ezihlukahlukene. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, thina bantu sixhunywe kuyo yonke indalo ezingeni elingabonakali / elingokomoya / lengqondo futhi, ngenxa yalokhu kuxhumana, singakwazi ukufinyelela yonke into nawo wonke umuntu. Thina bantu ngokwesisekelo siyinto eyodwa nendawo yonke/indalo futhi indawo yonke/indalo inye nathi. Uma kungenjalo, umuntu angakha lokhu ngendlela ehlukile futhi athi thina bantu ngokwethu simelela indawo yonke eyinkimbinkimbi, umfanekiso oyingqayizivele wendalo, okuthi, ngenxa yobukhona bawo obungokomoya, ngenxa yamakhono ayo engqondo, akuthinti ukuphila kwayo kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuphila kwayo. yezinye izinkulumo ezingokomoya/ezaziyo zingashintsha. Thina bantu singabadali beqiniso lethu futhi sihlala sakha izimo ezintsha zokuphila futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, izimo zokuqaphela (isimo sethu sokuqaphela sishintsha njalo, njengoba nje nokwazi kwethu kukhula njalo.||Ngokwesibonelo, uyashintsha. okuthile okusha, thola isipiliyoni esisha, khona-ke ukuqonda kwakho kuyanda nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, okubuye kuguqule isimo sakho sokuqaphela - uma ulele embhedeni kusihlwa, ngokuqinisekile ngeke uzwe isimo sokuqaphela kusukela ngosuku olwedlule) .

Ukuqonda komuntu kwanda ngokuqhubekayo noma kwanda ngenxa yokuhlanganiswa njalo kolwazi olusha, unomphela..!!

Ngenxa yamakhono ethu engqondo, singamane siguqule kakhulu isimo sokwazi. Imicabango yethu, imizwa yethu futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, izenzo zihlale zifinyelela imihlaba yemicabango yabanye abantu futhi zingababangela ngisho nokuthi benze izinto noma babhekane nezinto ezikhona ngempela ngokwazo - into eyenzeke kimina engiyibone izikhathi eziningi. .

Isibonelo esithakazelisayo

Ngokwesibonelo, manje sengiyekile ukubhema futhi angisaphuzi nekhofi. Kunalokho, njalo ekuseni lapho ngivuka, ngizenzela itiye le-peppermint ukuze lingisize ngijwayele. Ngiliphindaphinde le nqubo yasekuseni izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi ngake ngabona okuthile okuthakazelisa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke izolo ngihlale phansi ku-PC, ngavula isiphequluli futhi kungazelelwe ngabona umlayezo omusha we-YouTube - oboniswe kimi phezulu kwesokudla ngisebenzisa insimbi ngase ngiwuchofoza. Kungazelelwe ngaboniswa amazwana e-YouTube amasha sha lapho umuntu ebhale khona ukuthi akasaliphuzi ikhofi futhi esikhundleni salokho useshintshele etiyeni elifakwe esikhwameni ukuze azisize azikhumule. Ngaleso sikhathi kwadingeka ngimamatheke futhi ngokushesha ngakhumbula lesi simiso. Ngavele ngaqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi mhlawumbe ngangikhuthaze umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye ukuthi akwenze lokhu ngemicabango nangezenzo zami, noma ukuthi umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye + okungenzeka ukuthi abanye abantu abaningi babengikhuthaze ukuba ngikwenze ngokwengqondo (kodwa ingqondo yami yabonisa ukuthi kimi ukuthi ngikhuthaze lo muntu ukuthi enze njalo, ngoba nje okuthunyelwe kubonakala sengathi umsebenzisi ubekwenza lokhu izinsuku ezimbalwa). Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, umzuzu onjalo awuhlangene nhlobo nethuba (ayikho into enjengokuthi kwenzeke ngengozi noma kunjalo, isimiso sendawo yonke esibizwa ngokuthi imbangela nomphumela).

Akukho okucatshangwa ukuthi kwaqondana njengoba yonke into ekhona isekelwe esimisweni sembangela nomphumela. Ngokuphathelene nalokho, imbangela yawo wonke umthelela otholakalayo uhlala ungokwengqondo/engokomoya..!!

Ngakho-ke abantu abaningi bamane balulaza amakhono abo obuhlakani, bawehlise aba buncane, bazenze bancane futhi ngokuvamile bachithe izikhathi ezinjengalezi njengezehlakalo ezihlekisayo noma ngokuvamile ngokuthi "ukuqondana".

Sebenzisa amandla akho amangalisayo

Noma kunjalo, izikhathi ezinjalo azihlangene nhlobo nokuzenzekela, kodwa kunalokho zingalandelelwa emuva ekuxhumekeni komuntu siqu kanye namandla akhe engqondo. Ekugcineni, thina bantu sixhunywe kuyo yonke into esezingeni elingabonakali futhi sinethonya elikhulu esimweni sokwazi. Lapho abantu abaningi benza isenzo esihambisanayo, kulapho lesi senzo sizibonakalisa ngamandla eqoqweni. Lapho abantu beba nenqubo yokucabanga ehambisanayo futhi babhekane nayo, yilapho abantu bezobhekana khona nendlela yokucabanga enjalo. Isibonelo, okwamanje sisesigabeni esinweba ngendlela emangalisayo futhi abantu abaningi baphinde bathola ulwazi lwabo ngokwabo. Eminingi yale mibono okwamanje isakazeka njengomlilo wequbula (ngokwesibonelo ulwazi lokuthi singabadali beqiniso lethu) futhi ngaphandle kokusabalala ezingeni lezinto ezibonakalayo (abantu abatshela abanye abantu ngakho), lokhu kuhlobene nethonya elihlangene. Njengoba abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe njengamanje bezuza ukuzazi okufanayo, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe babhekene nolwazi oluhambisanayo noma, kangcono, ulwazi oluhambisanayo olusezingeni elingokomoya. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, akukho okutholakele okusha, okungenani hhayi ngomqondo ojwayelekile. Isibonelo, uma uqaphela ukuthi yonke into iyinto eyodwa futhi eyodwa iyinto yonke, khona-ke qiniseka ukuthi othile uke waba nenqubo yokucabanga efanayo noma ngisho nomuzwa ofanayo ngaphambili nokuthi waphefumulelwa ukuzuza lokhu kuzazi ngenxa yalo muntu ( Lapho kumayelana nokuzazi okungokomoya, akufanele nanini silizibe iqiniso lokuthi kwakunamasiko aphambilini athuthukile ayenalolu lwazi ngqo).

Lapho sima kakhulu emandleni ethu okudala, kulapho isimo sethu sokuqaphela siba siphezulu, yilapho umuzwa wethu uthuthuka ngokwengeziwe futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, kulapho siqaphela ngokwengeziwe ukuthi singathonya/siguqule isimo sokuqaphela esiyiqoqo ngemicabango yethu. , kulapho kunamandla ekugcineni futhi kuba nomthelela wethu..!!

Uma kungenjalo, ngingaphinde ngiphawule lapha ukuthi yonke imicabango isivele ikhona / ikhona futhi / ifakwe unomphela esithombeni esikhulu (igama elingukhiye: Amarekhodi e-Akashic - yonke into isivele ikhona, akukho lutho ezingeni elingokomoya / elingabonakali elingekho linikeza). Ngakho-ke, imicabango yethu inomthelela omkhulu esimweni esihlangene sokwazi kanye nalokho esiqondisa kakhulu ukugxila kukho, lokho esigxila kukho kakhulu, okuya ngokuya ngokuya ngombono wethu, kuthandeka kakhulu kithi futhi kubonakale ncamashi. ngendlela efanayo eqinisweni elihlangene.

Lokho esiyikho kanye nalokho esikukhiphayo, lokho esikucabangayo nesikuzwa kakhulu, kuhlale kuzibonakalisa esimweni sokuqaphela..!!

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuhle kakhulu ukuba sinake futhi isimo sombono wethu siqu. Njengoba imicabango/izenzo zethu siqu zingashintsha isimo sokuqaphela esihlangene (futhi siphinde sisiguqule nsuku zonke), kufanele nakanjani sithathe umthwalo wezenzo zethu futhi sivumele imicabango evumelanayo + enokuthula emiqondweni yethu. Lapho abantu abaningi kulo mongo beqeda isiphithiphithi sabo esingokwengqondo futhi badale impilo futhi ebonakala ngesisa nokuthula kwangaphakathi, kunamandla futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngokushesha le micabango/imizwa eyakhayo izogqugquzela isimo sokuhlangana sokwazi. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.