Ukudedela isihloko esiye sasebenza kakhulu kubantu abaningi kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva. Kulo mongo, kumayelana nokudedela okwakho ukungqubuzana kwengqondo, mayelana nokudedela izimo zengqondo ezidlule okungenzeka ukuthi sisathola ukuhlupheka okuningi kuzo. Ngendlela efanayo, ukuyeka kuphinde kuhlobane nokwesaba okuhlukahlukene kakhulu, nokwesaba ikusasa, ukuthi yini, isibonelo, yini engase ilandele, noma sidedele ukuntula kwethu ukwazi, kuqede imijikelezo yethu enonya esizibekela yona, ebuye isivimbele ekuheheni izinto ezimpilweni zethu ezihloselwe thina.

Heha empilweni yakho konke okuhloselwe wena

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukudedela kungase futhi kubhekisele ezimweni zempilo eziyaxaka manje, isibonelo ubambiswano ngokuyisisekelo olungelona usizo kuphela kithi, ubambiswano olusekelwe ekuncikeni esingeke sikwazi ukuzikhulula kukho kamuva . Noma izimo ezimbi zasemsebenzini ezisenza singajabuli kakhulu usuku nosuku, kodwa asikwazi ukudweba umugqa wokugcina esihlabathini. Ngalesi sizathu, ukudedela kuyisihloko esibaluleke kakhulu kithina njengabantu. Endaweni ethile futhi kuyikhono eliye lalahleka ezweni lanamuhla. Thina njengabantu asifundiswa ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nezingxabano ngaphandle kwezinkinga, ukuthi singakwazi kanjani ukuqalisa izinguquko empilweni yethu ngaphandle kokuwela emgodini wemizwa ngenxa yalokho. Ekupheleni kosuku, kufanele sizifundise ubuciko bokudedela futhi. Ngisho, yebo wena, yebo wena kanye, ofunda lesi sihloko njengamanje, ungumdali weqiniso lakho siqu, ungumdali wempilo yakho, udala izinkolelo zakho + izinkolelo, unquma isiqondiso sempilo yakho. ingqondo yakho futhi ubophezelekile kukho konke ngezinqumo zakho. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ubuciko bokukhulula bungafundwa nguwe kuphela, futhi nguwe kuphela ongaqinisekisa ukuthi uthola indlela yakho yokubuyela ekuzinzeni ngokomzwelo. Abanye abantu bangakukhombisa indlela futhi bakusekele, kodwa ekugcineni kufanele uthathe le ndlela uwedwa.

Wonke umuntu ungumdali wempilo yakhe, ungumqambi wekusasa lakhe futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu angadala impilo evumelana ngokuphelele nemibono yakhe..!!

Nguwe kuphela ongazikhulula ekwakhiweni kwengqondo okungalungile futhi udale impilo futhi lapho izici ezinhle zohlelo lwakho lomphefumulo zifezeka. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, isihloko sokudedela siphinde sihlotshaniswe nokufezeka kwecebo lethu lomphefumulo noma ukugcwaliseka kwezici ezinhle zohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo.

Izici ezinhle zohlelo lomphefumulo wakho

Kulo mongo, wonke umuntu ubuye abe nomphefumulo wakhe, ubuyena bangempela, uhlangothi lwethu lwenhliziyo enomusa, oluzwelayo, olunyakazisa kakhulu, esihlonza ngalo ngendlela ethile, kuye ngezinga lesimo sethu sokwazi. Kulokhu, wonke umuntu unalokho okubizwa ngokuthi uhlelo lomphefumulo. Uhlelo lomphefumulo luwuhlelo oluchazwe ngaphambilini lapho zonke izifiso zethu, imigomo yokuphila, izindlela zokuphila, okuhlangenwe nakho okuchazwe ngaphambilini, njll. kusekelwe khona. Ukucaciswa kohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo kuqala ngaphambi kokuba sizalwe, lapho umphefumulo wethu usekufeni (inethiwekhi/izinga elinamandla elisebenzela ukuhlanganiswa, ukuzalwa kabusha kanye nokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo komphefumulo wethu siqu - akufanele kudidaniswe nokuphila kwangemva kokufa okusakazwa yi ibandla - kukhona okuhluke ngokuphelele kuleyo ncazelo) uhlela impilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Kulo mongo, kudalwa uhlelo oluphelele lwempilo yethu ezayo, lapho zonke izinjongo zethu, izifiso zethu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuzayo kuchazwa ngaphambili. Ekugcineni, zonke lezi yizimo umphefumulo wethu, noma ubuyena bangempela, obungathanda ukuzizwa empilweni elandelayo. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuchazwe ngaphambilini akudingeki ukuba kwenzeke 1:1; ukuchezuka kungenzeka njalo mayelana nalokhu. Nokho, ekugcineni, okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile nokuhle kugxilile kulolu hlelo lomphefumulo (umphefumulo wethu awuhlukanisi phakathi kokuhle nokubi, kodwa yonke into ihlolwa njengokuhlangenwe nakho okungathathi hlangothi, njengoba nje indawo yonke yethu ingahluleli amaphupho ethu + izifiso ngokwalesi simiso, njengoba nje umkhathi wethu ungahluleli amaphupho ethu + izifiso ngokwalesi simiso. uthola nje lokho oyikho nalokho okukhiphayo, noma ngabe kuhle noma kubi, akunandaba.

Wonke umuntu unomthwalo wemfanelo wokuthi unolwazi oluhle noma olubi, noma ngabe uvumela imicabango eyakhayo noma engemihle engqondweni yakhe..!!

Ngenxa yenkululeko yethu yokuzikhethela, singakwazi ukuzinqumela thina futhi sikhethe ukuthi sizuza okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle noma okungalungile (ukudlidliza okuphezulu/ukukhanya okunamandla noma ukudlidliza okuphansi/isipiliyoni esiminyene ngamandla). Ngisho noma konke okwenzeka ezimpilweni zethu kuhlobene nokugcwaliseka kwecebo lethu lomphefumulo, okungukuthi, umuntu owanquma ngokuzithandela ukuphuza nsuku zonke futhi ngesikhathi esithile efa ngenxa yalokho - khona-ke lokhu kungaba yingxenye yohlelo lwakhe lomphefumulo, sisalwela ukufezeka kwempilo enhle, ukufezeka kwezici ezinhle zohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo.

Ukuvumela ukuya mayelana nezici ezinhle zohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo

Ukufeza lokhu, ukudedela kuyinto ehamba phambili. Kuphela uma sikwazi ukubhekana nezingxabano zethu ezedlule, lapho sizihlukanisa nezimo zokuphila ezisimeme, sithatha isinyathelo kuqala futhi siqale izinguquko, yilapho kuphela lapho sizobona khona ngokuzenzakalelayo zonke izici ezinhle zohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo. Ekugcineni, uheha izinto ezinhle ezihloselwe wena empilweni yakho. Nami nginesibonelo esincane salokhu: maphakathi nonyaka odlule, intombi yami ngaleso sikhathi yahlukana nami, okwangethusa kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuphila kwami ​​konke kwakugxile kuye futhi angikwazanga ukumyeka. Ngenxa yalokho, ngabhekana nokuhlupheka okukhulu ngenxa yokuncika kwami ​​engangizidalele futhi ngazizwa ngibuhlungu kakhulu usuku nosuku. Ngesinye isikhathi ngakwazi ukudweba umugqa esihlabathini futhi ngamdedela. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ngiba ngcono khona kancane kancane ngaphinda ngakhanga izinto ezinhle empilweni yami. Ngakho-ke ngahlangana nomlingani wami wamanje futhi ngathola injabulo entsha futhi. Kodwa ukube angizange ngidedele, khona-ke konke bekuyohlala okufanayo, ngabe ngiqhubekile nokuzizwa kabi futhi ngingakaze ngilungele ubuhlobo obusha, ngabe ngiqhubekile nokuzwa izici ezingezinhle zohlelo lwami lomphefumulo kuze kube yilapho. Ngabe ngenza ukugxuma. Ekupheleni kosuku, izenzakalo ezinjalo zingabuye zifaniswe nohlobo lokuhlolwa, izenzakalo ezibalulekile zokuphila ezifuna ukusifundisa isifundo esibalulekile, ngokuyisisekelo isifundo sokudedela.

Kuphela uma sikwazi ukuzihlukanisa nezingxabano zethu ezingokwengqondo futhi, lapho sesikwazi ukuyeka futhi sizivule futhi ekugcwalisekeni kwesikhala esihle, siphinde siqaphele izici ezinhle zohlelo lwethu lomphefumulo ..!!

Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu enhlalakahleni yakho, enhlalakahleni yakho engokomzwelo nangokomoya, ukudedela, ukuzehlukanisa nemicabango ehlala njalo kanye nezimo zokuphila ezingezinhle eziwumphumela. Kulapho kuphela lapho uzoheha khona izinto ezinhle empilweni yakho ezihloselwe wena, akukho kungabaza ngalokho. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.