Imicabango imele isisekelo sobukhona bethu futhi inesibopho ngokuyinhloko ekukhuleni kwethu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Kulo mongo, kungosizo lwemicabango kuphela lapho kwenzeka khona ukuguqula iqiniso lomuntu siqu futhi akhuphule isimo sakhe sokwazi. Imicabango ayigcini nje ngokuba nethonya elikhulu ekuhlakanipheni kwengqondo yethu, kodwa futhi ibonakala ebuntwini bethu benyama. Mayelana nalokhu, imicabango yethu ishintsha ukubukeka kwethu kwangaphandle, iguqule izici zethu zobuso, isenze sibonakale sidabukile/sidlidliza esiphansi noma sidlidliza ngokusobala/okuphakeme. Esihlokweni esilandelayo uzothola ukuthi imicabango inethonya elingakanani ekubukekeni kwethu nokuthi imiphi imicabango ebonakala “ingenangozi” iyodwa engayenza.

Imiphumela Yokucabanga Emzimbeni

Kunenkinga eqinile yokuhlonza kulezi zinsuku. Ngokuvamile asazi ukuthi yini ekugcineni emele ubuyena bangempela futhi siphindelela sibhekana nezigaba lapho sibona ngokuzumayo okuthile okusha ngokuphelele. Uyaye uzibuze ukuthi uyini manje, yini emele imvelaphi yakho? Ingabe eyodwa ingumzimba, inqwaba yenyama/impahla ehlanganisa inyama negazi? Ingabe ukuba khona komuntu siqu kumelela inqwaba ye-athomu? Noma ingabe ungumphefumulo, isakhiwo sokudlidliza okuphezulu esisebenzisa ukwazi njengethuluzi lokuzwa impilo yakho? Ekugcineni, kubonakala sengathi umphefumulo umelela ubuyena bangempela bomuntu. Umphefumulo, ukukhanya okunamandla, isici sothando sawo wonke umuntu, simelela umnyombo wabo.Sisebenzisa ukwazi kwethu njengesisho sikamoya ukuze silolonge futhi sithuthukise izimpilo zethu. Siyakwazi ukubumba kabusha izimpilo zethu njengoba sifisa ngosizo lwemicabango yethu futhi singenza ngendlela yokuzikhethela futhi singazikhethela ukuthi yimuphi umcabango esingathanda ukuwuqaphela ezingeni lezinto ezibonakalayo. Imicabango iqukethe amandla adlidlizayo. Imicabango emihle inemvamisa yokudlidliza ephezulu futhi ngenxa yalokho yandisa imvamisa yokudlidliza yesimo sakho sokwazi. Imicabango engemihle, yona, iba nemvamisa yokudlidliza ephansi futhi ngenxa yalokho yehlisa imvamisa yokudlidliza yesimo sethu sokwazi.

Imvamisa yokudlidliza komuntu iyanquma ngokubukeka kwakhe kwangaphandle..!!

Imvamisa yokudlidliza yesimo sethu samanje sokwazi nayo ithinta umzimba wethu. Amaza okudlidliza aphansi avimba ukugeleza kwethu kwamandla, agxilisa indawo yethu ecashile, abambezele ama-chakra ethu ekujikelezeni kwawo, asiphuce amandla okuphila futhi aguqule ukubukeka kwethu kwangaphandle kube okungekuhle.

Izici zethu zobuso zihlala zivumelana nezinga lemicabango yethu..!!

Okucabangayo nokuzizwayo nsuku zonke kunomthelela omkhulu emzimbeni wakho. Ngokwesibonelo, izici zethu zobuso zivumelana nezinga lemicabango yethu futhi zishintshe ukubukeka kwethu ngendlela efanele. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu ohlale eqamba amanga, akalokothi akhulume iqiniso futhi othanda ukuhlanekezela amaqiniso ngokushesha noma kamuva uyobangela ukuba umlomo wakhe uphenduke kabi. Ngenxa yamanga, amaza okudlidliza aphansi ageleza ezindebeni zakho siqu, okugcina kuguqule izici zobuso bakho ngendlela engalungile.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe mayelana nezinguquko ekubukekeni kwangaphandle

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuyenzeka futhi ukufunda isimo somuntu samanje sokuqaphela ngokusekelwe esimweni sobuso bakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, imicabango evumelanayo ishintsha izici zethu zobuso ngendlela eyakhayo. Umuntu ohlale ekhuluma iqiniso, othembekile, futhi ongawahlanekezeli amaqiniso nakanjani uyoba nomlomo obonakala umnandi kithi njengabantu, okungenani kubantu abakhuluma iqiniso noma, okungcono kakhulu, abanemvamisa yokudlidliza ephezulu futhi akhangwe kuyo. Ngiye ngaqaphela lesi simo kaningi kimina. Ngokwesibonelo, ngaba nezigaba ekuphileni kwami ​​lapho ngangibhema khona ukhula oluningi. Ngenxa yokusetshenziswa kwami ​​okuphezulu ngaleso sikhathi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngaba nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo, ama-tics, ukucindezelwa, imicabango engalungile / ye-paranoid, okwaba nomthelela ophawulekayo ekubukeni kwami ​​kwangaphandle. Ngaphandle nje kokuthi ngangingaqondile kakhulu ngalezi zikhathi, ngabonakala ngilufifi ngokuphawulekayo, amehlo ami alahlekelwa ukukhanya kwawo, isikhumba sami saba nesici futhi izici zobuso zami zakhubazeka ngendlela embi. Njengoba ngangazi ukuthi lokhu kwawushintsha kangakanani umzimba wami, lo mphumela waba mkhulu kakhulu kunalokho obekulindelwe. Ngenxa yokungakhiqizi kahle kwami, ukukhathala kwami ​​njalo, ukungakwazi kwami ​​ukubhekana nempilo ngendlela efanele - okwagcina kungicindezela njalo, ngenxa yemicabango engemihle, ngangizibona ngilahlekelwa ukukhanya kwami ​​usuku nosuku.

Phakathi nezigaba zokucaca kwengqondo ngakwazi ukubona ukuthi isimo sami sobuso sashintsha kanjani saba ngcono..!!

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngaphinde ngawuthola ngokuphelele umoya wami wokuthakasela ngezigaba zokucaca. Ngokushesha lapho ngiyeka ukwenza lokho futhi, ngenza ukuphila kwami ​​ngaphansi kokulawula, ngakwazi ukudla kangcono futhi, ngaba nokuzethemba okwengeziwe, ukucabanga okuhle futhi ngokuvamile ngaba nokujabula kakhudlwana, ngakwazi ukuqaphela indlela ukubukeka kwami ​​kwangaphandle okwashintsha ngayo kwaba ngcono. Amehlo ami acwebezela, izici zobuso bami zabonakala zivumelana ngokwengeziwe futhi wawungabona futhi umcabango wami omuhle. Ekugcineni, lo mphumela ungenxa yemvamisa yethu yokudlidliza.

Ngosizo lwemicabango yethu siyakwazi ukuguqula imizimba yethu ibe ngcono..!!

Ukuphakama kwemvamisa yesimo sethu sokwazi, kulapho isisekelo sethu esinamandla sikhanya khona, yilapho i-charisma yethu iba nenhle futhi ivumelana. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuyatuseka ukwakha iqoqo elihle lemicabango ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Umuntu ocabanga ngokuvumelana kakhulu, onokuthula, ongenazisusa ezicashile, ophatha abantu akanye naye ngothando, akanalo nhlobo ukwesaba noma ezinye izinkinga ezingokwengqondo/zemizwelo noma, uma sikubeka ngenye indlela, uyavela umuntu odale ukulinganisela kwangaphakathi. muhle kakhulu/othembekile/ocace kakhulu njengomuntu ogcwele ukwesaba nezinkinga zengqondo. Ngalesi sizathu, thina bantu siyakwazi nokushintsha imizimba yethu ibe ngcono futhi lokhu kwenzeka ngokushintsha/ukuguqula ezethu izinqubo zokucabanga ezisimeme. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.