Imicabango nezinkolelo ezingezinhle kuyinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba ezweni lanamuhla. Abantu abaningi bazivumela ukuba babuswe imiqondo enjalo ehlala njalo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bavimbele injabulo yabo siqu. Imvamisa ukuya kude kangangokuthi ezinye izinkolelo ezingezinhle ezigxile ekucabangeni kwethu zingenza umonakalo omkhulu kunalokho umuntu angakucabanga. Ngaphandle kweqiniso lokuthi imicabango enjalo engemihle noma izinkolelo zingasehlisa unomphela imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, futhi zenza buthaka isimo sethu somzimba, zithwalise ingqondo yethu futhi zinciphise amakhono ethu engqondo/ngokomzwelo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, imicabango engalungile nezinkolelo zivimbela okuthile okubalulekile, futhi ekugcineni zisisiza ukuba sibhekane nokuntula futhi sivimbele injabulo yethu siqu.

Uheha empilweni yakho lokho okuhambisana nemvamisa yakho yokudlidliza

Ingqondo yethu (ukusebenzelana kokuqaphela kanye nokunganaki) kusebenza njengohlobo lukazibuthe futhi idonsela yonke into ezimpilweni zethu lapho uzibuthe wengqondo esebenza/ukwenzeka khona. Imicabango yona ihlanganisa amandla, izifunda ezinomfutho ezindindizela imvamisa ehambisanayo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuvame ukushiwo ukuthi umkhathi wethu uyindawo eyinkimbinkimbi ehlanganisa amandla, amaza, ukudlidliza, ukunyakaza kanye nolwazi. Kulo mongo, ingqondo yomuntu idonsela empilweni yomuntu lokho akucabangayo. Okucabangayo nokuzizwayo kuhlala kuzibonakalisa eqinisweni lakho futhi kukudonsela kakhulu empilweni yakho. Amandla ahlala edonsa amandla efrikhwensi efanayo (umthetho we-resonance). Amandla, imvamisa yokudlidliza, lapho ozwana khona unomphela, akhuphuka kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma usanda kuxabana nomngane wakho, lapho ucabanga isikhathi eside ngakho, yilapho uzizwa ungemuhle kakhulu, njengokuzizwa uthukuthele. Ngokuphambene, imicabango eyakhayo idonsela imicabango emihle kakhulu empilweni yakho. Uma ujabule, ucabanga ukuthi ujabule kangakanani nomlingani wakho wokuphila, khona-ke lo muzwa wenjabulo uzoba namandla uma ucabanga isikhathi eside ngawo noma isikhathi eside uhambisana nawo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, njengoba nje amaphethini enkolelo engemihle agxile ekungazini kahle kwakho futhi alokhu ebuyela ekwazini kwakho kosuku, abe nomthelela omubi empilweni yakho.

Uma ubheka impilo ngeso elibi, udonsa izinto ezingezinhle empilweni yakho, uma ubheka impilo ngeso elihle, ingqondo yakho idonsa izinto ezinhle empilweni yakho..!!

Isibonelo, uma ubheka impilo ngokungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi ngombono ongemuhle, ungenathemba, ucabanga kabi, uqiniseka ukuthi izinto ezimbi kuphela ezizokwenzeka kuwe noma ukuthi uphishekelwa ngisho neshwa, khona-ke lokhu kuzoqhubeka ukwenzeka. . Lokhu akubangelwa ukuthi uqalekisiwe noma impilo ingenamusa kuwe, yingoba isimo sakho sokuqaphela siheha empilweni yakho lokho ekugcineni okuhambisana nakho. Umkhathi awuhluleli ukuphila kwakho, kodwa unikeza kuphela lokho okufuna ngaphakathi kuwo, unikeza lokho ovumelana nakho ngokomqondo.

Umuntu nomuntu udala eyakhe impilo, eyakhe iqiniso, eyakhe iqiniso ngosizo lwemicabango yakhe..!!

Yilokhu okwenza impilo ihluke. Ngenxa yokuthi ungumdali wempilo yakho noma umdali weqiniso lakho siqu, wena ngokwakho udala ngemicabango yakho (yonke impilo iwumkhiqizo wemicabango yakho), ungazikhethela ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyidweba empilweni yakho. impilo yakhe nokuthi yini engekho . Kuhlale kuncike kuwena ukuthi uyayibona inhlanhla noma inhlanhla empilweni yakho. Ngalo mqondo hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.