Emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka abantu bebelokhu bedidekile ngokuthi umuntu angayihlehlisa kanjani inqubo yakhe yokuguga, noma ukuthi kungenzeka yini lokhu. Izinhlobonhlobo zezinqubo sezisetshenzisiwe kakade, izinqubo ngokuvamile ezingaholeli emiphumeleni efiselekayo. Noma kunjalo, abantu abaningi bayaqhubeka nokusebenzisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene, bazame zonke izindlela ukuze nje bakwazi ukwehlisa inqubo yabo yokuguga. Imvamisa umuntu ulwela ukuthola ubuhle obuthile, ubuhle esidayiselwa umphakathi kanye nabezindaba njengento ecatshangwayo yobuhle. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, izinhlobonhlobo eziningi zokhilimu, amaphilisi nezinye izindlela zikhangiswa ngamandla abo wonke, ukuze izinkinga ezicatshangwayo esizivumela ukuba zihanjiswe emakhanda ethu ziphenduke zibe inzuzo. Ekugcineni, abanye abantu bachitha imali emikhiqizweni engabazuzisi.
Amandla angenamkhawulo wesimo sakho sokuqaphela
Kodwa konke kungaba lula kakhulu. Izimpendulo zokunciphisa inqubo yokuguga komuntu siqu, izimpendulo zempilo ephelele nobuhle azikwazi ukutholakala ngaphandle, kodwa okuningi kakhulu ngaphakathi kwethu. Kulo mongo, umuntu angakwazi futhi ukubambezela inqubo yakhe yokuguga, njengoba nje elapha noma yisiphi isifo. Kodwa-ke, iphrojekthi enjalo ayisebenzi ngamaphilisi noma ama-creams okuthiwa asenza sibonakale sibasha, kodwa konke kwenzeka ngezindlela ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi mayelana nemicabango yethu futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi mayelana nokudla okunomphumela. Njengoba kushiwo kaningi ezihlokweni zami, yonke into ekhona iyinkulumo yengqondo/engokomoya. Impilo yethu yonke, zonke izimo zokuphila kwethu kanye nesimo sethu somzimba samanje kuyimikhiqizo yengqondo yethu kuphela. Yonke imicabango + imizwelo esake sayenza ibe semthethweni engqondweni yethu, zonke izenzo esake sazenza ezimpilweni zethu nakho konke esake sakungenisa kuhlanganisa isamba esinesibopho sokuveza kwethu kwamanje kokudala. Thina bantu siyisamba nje sayo yonke imicabango yethu, imizwa nezenzo zethu. Kulo mongo kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda ukuthi imicabango yethu inomthelela omkhulu emzimbeni wethu + ukwakheka kwethu ngokomzimba. Imicabango emihle yanoma yiluphi uhlobo, isibonelo, imicabango esekelwe ekuzwaneni, ukuthula futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke othandweni, yandisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, isilethe ekulinganiseni futhi ikhuthaze ukuthuthuka kwempilo yethu.
Yonke imicabango nemizwa yethu igeleza emizimbeni yethu futhi ithinte impilo yethu + ukubukeka kwethu..!!
Imicabango engemihle yanoma yiluphi uhlobo, ngokwesibonelo ukucindezeleka okuhlukahlukene, ukwesaba noma ngisho nemicabango yentukuthelo, yona inciphisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza, ilinganisele amakhono ethu engqondo, iqinisekise ukuthi siba abalimazayo kakhulu sisonke futhi lokhu kuba nomthelela onamandla kakhulu kithi. ukwakheka kwakhe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Lapho siba nengcindezi eyengeziwe, ukukhathazeka kanye nemicabango engemihle mayelana nalokhu, yilapho sehlisa kakhulu imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza futhi silimaza impilo yethu, sifiphaza isimo sethu sokwazi futhi sisheshisa inqubo yethu yokuguga.
Inqubo yethu yokuguga ixhumene kakhulu ne-spectrum yethu yengqondo. Lapho ingqondo yethu iqiniseka ngokwengeziwe kulokhu, kulapho lokhu kuba nomthelela omuhle enqubweni yethu yokuguga..!!
I-charisma yethu ibuye ihlupheke kakhulu ngenxa yokungabi nandaba kwethu, ongayibona futhi kumuntu noma ungamane uyizwe. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, inqubo yethu yokuguga nayo igxile emicabangweni yethu. Lapho siqinisekisa ngokwengeziwe imicabango eyakhayo mayelana nalokhu engqondweni yethu, kulapho lokhu kukhuthaza kakhulu ukubukeka kwethu kwangaphandle futhi kusenza sibukeke sibasha.
Eyethu ingqondo ayikwazi ukuguga
Esinye isici sokunciphisa inqubo yethu yokuguga kungaba ukuvumelanisa izinkolelo nezinkolelo zethu. Okuhlobene nalokhu ulwazi lomoya wethu siqu, ulwazi lokuthi imicabango yethu inganciphisa noma ihlehlise inqubo yethu yokuguga. Uma siqiniseka ukuthi sikhula minyaka yonke, khona-ke lokhu kwenzeka futhi, ngoba le nkolelo, ewumkhiqizo wengqondo yethu kuphela, igcina inqubo yethu yokuguga iphila. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izinkolelo ezingezinhle nazo zisheshisa inqubo yethu yokuguga, njengoba zinciphisa unomphela imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza futhi zisenze sicekeleke phansi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kubalulekile futhi ukwazi ukuthi umoya wethu awunayo iminyaka ehambisanayo ekugcineni kosuku. Ukwazi kwethu akukwazi ukuguga, futhi akukho ngaphansi kwe-space-time noma okubili. Kufana nemicabango yethu, lapho, njengoba kwaziwa, asikho isikhathi sesikhala, yingakho ungacabanga yonke into oyifunayo ngaphandle kokukhawulelwa emcabangweni wakho. Ungacabanga ngesimo ongasikhulisa unomphela ngaphandle kokuthi ube ngaphansi kwesikhala noma imikhawulo yesikhathi. Inqubo yethu yokuguga iwumkhiqizo wesimo sethu sengqondo "sokungagugi" futhi sigcinwa kuphela noma sisheshiswe yikho (ngemicabango engalungile, izinkolelo kanye nokudla okuminyene okunamandla). Lokhu kusiletha ephuzwini lethu elilandelayo, okuwukudla kwethu. Ukude nezingqondo zethu, izifo, ukungcola ngokomzimba noma izimpawu zokuguga ezisheshayo nakho kungabangelwa ukudla kwethu.
Ukudla kwethu ngokwengxenye kunomthelela enqubweni yethu yokuguga. Lapho sidla okungezona ezemvelo kulo mongo, kulapho kusheshisa inqubo yethu yokuguga..!!
Ukudla okuminyene okunamandla noma ukudla okunemvamisa yokudlidliza ephansi kusheshisa inqubo yethu yokuguga futhi kusheshise ukuwohloka komzimba ngendlela efanayo. Ubuthi bansuku zonke esibudlayo busenza sigule, sincike, sinciphise imvamisa yethu yokudlikiza futhi sikhuthaze ukukhula kwezifo. Ekugcineni, zenza buthaka unomphela amasosha ethu omzimba futhi zilimaze imvelo yethu yamaselula njengoba “umzimba wethu onamandla/ongokomoya” bese udlulisela ukungcola kwawo emzimbeni wenyama, okumele usebenze kanzima kakhulu ukuze ulinganise lokhu kungcola okuzidalele. Ngokuphathelene nokudla kwabo siqu, kunezibonelo ezingenakubalwa zabesifazane amashumi eminyaka amashumi eminyaka besebenzisa ushukela ocolisisiwe + namaswidi nama-co. Wala futhi kwathi esekhulile, ngokwesibonelo eneminyaka engu-70, wabukeka emncane ngeminyaka engu-25. Imfihlo yakhe, umsoco wemvelo + ukuqwashisa komzimba okuphumela/okumenyezelwa kakhudlwana + nemicabango eminingi emihle
Ngokudla okungokwemvelo/okune-alkali awukwazi nje ukuguqula inqubo yakho yokuguga, kodwa futhi uphulukise zonke izifo..!!
Ngokunjalo, yonke imilutha iphinde ivimbele inqubo yethu yokuguga, njenganoma yikuphi ukulutheka, kungaba wumlutha wokudla, ukuba umlutha wezidakamizwa, noma okunye umlutha wezidakamizwa, noma ngisho umlingani wempilo/umlutha wezimo zokuphila, kubusa imiqondo yethu bese kudala amazinga aphezulu ukucindezeleka/amaza aphansi. Kulapho kuphela singakwazi ukuzitika ngomlutha wethu lapho siba nomuzwa wokuzola kuze kube yilapho umdlalo wokulutheka uqala phansi futhi. Ngisho nekhofi lasekuseni, kulo mongo, limelela ukulutheka okungabambezela inqubo yomuntu yokuguga, njengoba liyinto eluthayo umuntu angeke akwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kwayo, isenzo esibusa ingqondo yethu siqu usuku nosuku.
Ukulutheka nokuncika kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo kubusa ingqondo yethu, kunciphisa imvamisa yethu yokudlidliza futhi ngenxa yalokho kusheshise inqubo yethu yokuguga..!!
Uma uvuka ekuseni futhi awukwazi ukuhamba ngaphandle kwekhofi, uma lokhu kubangela umuzwa wokukhathazeka kuwe futhi ngenxa yalokho uzizwa uhlanzekile lapho uthola ikhofi, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kungenxa yemicabango ebusayo. ingqondo yakho. Umuntu-ke akayena umphathi wemicabango yakhe futhi kufanele azinikele kuyo. Ngokuyisisekelo, lawa futhi amaphuzu abalulekile anciphisa inqubo yokuguga komuntu: "Imicabango engemihle/imvamisa ephansi, konke ukulutheka/ukuncika, izinkolelo/izinkolelo ezingezinhle, ukuntula ulwazi mayelana nenqubo yomuntu yokuguga/ingqondo yakhe + okungezona ezemvelo/ngomfutho. Umsoco ominyene. Unalokhu engqondweni, hlala unempilo, ujabule futhi uphile ukuphila ngokuvumelana.
